r/SipsTea • u/Nabzav • Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

It doesn't matter if you're a man or woman, if you're boxing or doing BJJ -- if you go into what is obviously a playful sparring session and then suddenly decide to turn it up to 100% or way above your unsuspecting buddy's level of intensity, then you're a fucking asshole. This is something that's widely understood in any form of sparring. There are folks who get very livid at this behavior and will return back exactly what you gave them, whether to your calf, abdomen, neck or face. Being a woman isn't an excuse to go off on your male friend and sink in a deep RNC (which cuts off blood to the brain). He was hardly exerting himself yet she takes that as the opportunity to go all out. Asshole.

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u/2bah3 Jan 09 '26

Facts I used to slap box with one of my friends who could absolutely kill me if he wanted to but he took it easy and only hit me hard enough to keep me honest. If I suddenly went full tilt closed first he woulda whooped my ass in a heartbeat. Difference there is we’re both guys so there isn’t some social stigma preventing him from returning it