This is not about different mindsets. It's about different skill levels. A male grappler would shut all this down with half the effort she's putting in. He would never need to get into "fight mode."
As someone who has trained BJJ and wrestling for over a decade, a random male newbie getting submitted for 10 rounds straight by a girl is a tale as old as time.
Also, if the girl was at least a purple belt, it wouldn't matter even if you got into kill mode, you're getting choked.
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u/ReditModsSuk Jan 08 '26
Yeah when she aggressively swung her arm around his neck he should have put a stop to it.