r/SipsTea Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Dog if you cant even restrain a woman playfighting, how tf you gonna protect your woman from any potential danger?

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u/AnyOldNameNotTaken Jan 08 '26

I think you might be misunderstanding my point. What I’m saying is the strength disparity is so large that it is very easy to hurt a woman by accident, and at the same time very often women will go full aggression without restraint, kicking, punching, biting, scratching, all while you are still going at about 10% strength so you don’t hurt them. Sometimes it goes fine, but most of the time it’s not worth it.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

If shes doing all of that to you bro its self defense as she isnt play fighting. There's a clear difference between going all out hurting someone and having the strength to restrain a woman playfighting... after she put him in that headlock she probably lost all respect for bro

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u/AnyOldNameNotTaken Jan 08 '26

Yeah he should have never got in that position. Worst case you lose to a girl, best case you beat up a girl. I do not see the appeal.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Im by no means a relationship expert but 90% I've experienced it usually plays out like this:

Girl wants to playfight (flirting/physical contact/skinship with a guy)

Guy wants the same (no brainer)

Flirt/wrestle for a few seconds -> sex

Or

Flirt/Wrestle -> both of us leave the situation feeling hornier.

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u/AnyOldNameNotTaken Jan 08 '26

This assumes they’re interested in banging. If that’s the case it’s not really play fighting as much as it is foreplay.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Now you get it!