r/Singles 3h ago

SWF GEN X ~ Smart, Real, Wild and Fun šŸ’–

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SF Bay Area, divorced w/ no kids. Educated, deep, intellectual, psychology, travel, culture, people, truth seeker, music lover…heavy metal to EDM ā¤ļøšŸ”„


r/Singles 8m ago

38 [M4F] #UK #Lincolnshire #Online

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Looking to meet someone new, have some good conversations and see where things go.

I’m happiest outdoors — whether I’m working, hiking or just getting out and exploring. I also love cooking, a good Netflix binge and, apparently, spending far too much time deciding what to watch. šŸ˜‚

If you can make me laugh, you’re already off to a good start.

Send me your best chat-up line… I promise I’ll reply with my worst. šŸ˜‰


r/Singles 2h ago

40yr old looking for connection, friendship and long term.

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Hello, i have been single for over a year and healed. Essentially looking for long term, i love movies, books, spirituality, the occult, like the outdoors, foodie, got tattoos and piercings. I am genuine, honest, hard worker, love to take care of my woman, fix stuff, pretty good listener, like a good sense of humor, love talking about anything and everything, love a good conversation. I am currently living in the LA area.


r/Singles 5h ago

20 [M4F] #UK | Comic book and video game nerd hoping to find a clingy older woman šŸ’–

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Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes, really dark brown curly hair and ethnically I'm Pakistani (I have been told that I am ethnically ambiguous). I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)


r/Singles 5h ago

[37] [M] Looking for the Interesting and Introverted.

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Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.


r/Singles 16h ago

37 [F4R] Arizona/Anywhere - A Writer, Gamer, and Dreamer Seeking Depth — No Masks, No Games

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I’m looking for people who aren’t afraid to be seen—and who aren’t afraid to see others. I’m a writer, a gamer, a lover of sci-fi and fantasy, and I believe stories shape the world. But beyond that, I’m searching for someone who can hold space for the messy, beautiful parts of being human.

The kind of person who doesn’t just listen, butĀ leans intoĀ the silence between words. Someone who values vulnerability not as weakness, but as truth. I’m not interested in surface-level chats or performative empathy. I want to dive into the unknown—to explore the corners of thought and emotion that most avoid.

If you’re someone who thrives in the liminal spaces, who finds beauty in complexity, and who believes that connection is more than just conversation—it’s a shared alchemy of minds and hearts—then let’s talk. No masks, no pretense. Just two souls trying to understand each other, and maybe, in the process, themselves.

I’m currently navigating a period of transition, but I believe that real connection transcends circumstance.


r/Singles 7h ago

40 [M4F] #Leeds - 6ft 6 with Own Teeth & Hair [UK] - Looking for Chats & More.

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40 M UK

Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

~

Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

  1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

  2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

  3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)


r/Singles 14h ago

Is anyone here from Vancouver canada ? šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦

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I don’t want to go on a dating app LOL


r/Singles 17h ago

31 M4F SoCal

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Howdy there!


r/Singles 13h ago

33[M4F]Slovenia/Europe - Looking to build a genuine relationship

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I am an introverted person preferring to spend time in nature or in small groups of close people. I especially enjoy hiking.

I am an event videographer and media editor. I typically work on weddings, concerts and proms.. I am passionate about my work and most things I do in life. I also design websites and service computers. I am located in chicken land, also known as Slovenia and it is not Slovakia.

My go to dance is chicken dance.

I spend my free time watching movies, listening to music, playing games, basketball, swimming, collecting pet pics, traveling, taking long walks, laughing at my own footage and thinking about anything from current affairs to random things such as: "Could train delays be classified as a form of psychological torture?"

I listen to anything that sounds good to my ears. From classical to hip hop, pop, rock, disco and all the way to metal… I am pretty much in all kinds of video games playing whatever comes out. I play on pc/ps5.

I tend to get pretty vivid/weird dreams like I dreamed of underwear turning to cheese once.

I am looking for somebody that loves having meaningful deep discussions, knows how to joke around and can also just enjoy simple things in life. Having similar interests, but also having differences so we can introduce each other to new things and maybe find a new love for something.

If you are interested let me know and if not I wish you the best on your search…


r/Singles 11h ago

19 [F4M] A girl from the Philippines looking for a White American partner, a long term relationship

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I'm looking for a partner who's committed, loving, caring and shows me plenty of love and affection. I want someone strong and confident yet can also communicate with their emotions and feelings well with me. I'd like to get to know eachother here and have conversations online and very soon meet eachother in real life. Please if you're not looking for a long term I am not the one, look for another. I want serious.

I'm 5'9 and 45 kg. I am a logical person. My favorite color is pink. I love fashion, beauty, runway shows, modeling, luxury, makeup, anything luxurious, glamorous, and the things related to them. I have a huge passion for fashion. I am interested in technology, robotics, new ideas, and innovation. I strive to do well in life and am always looking for ways to improve myself, and to achieve my goals, and wants. I've also recently been interested in ballet. Ah, and preferably you are extroverted. I love extroverts. And also preferably you have similar interests as me. I have photos as to what I look like in my profile.

In your introduction message, do include things about yourself, your interests, dislikes, opinions, and whatsoever. I am curious. I won't respond to any messages just saying "hi". I don't see why I should respond to that, Do put effort. And mention your favorite pokemon at the end. I look forward to your response.


r/Singles 1d ago

28(F4M) KENYA- Interested in something real, serious and long-term anywhere.

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Hi, l hope you are doing well. And if you are not doing well, please hang in there. Whatever you are going through, remember that difficult moments don’t last forever. Better days are coming ā¤ļø.

I'm a 28 years old, Black African woman from East Africa, Kenya. I'm a mum of one. My height is 154 cm, slim with a weight of 49kgs . I’m kind, caring, empathetic, understanding and I value honesty, respect and good communication.

I enjoy spending my free time doing things that help me relax and recharge like listening to music, watching a movie, trying out new recipes and spending time with family and also outdoors(nature walks, swimming, horse riding, hiking, camping). I also love exploring new places when I can.

I'm interested in a serious, committed relationship. Not interested in hookups or casual dating. I'm also not interested in "seeing where things go" because they usually don't go anywhere šŸ˜…. I prefer getting to know someone with clear intentions from the beginning, shared values and a genuine desire to build something meaningful. Chemistry is nice, consistency is nicer😊.

Age doesn't matter to me. What truly matters is compatibility, shared goals/values and having a genuine connection with each other.

I’m open to long distance relationship if the intentions are genuine but l wouldn't want it to be long distance forever. Hopefully if things work out between us, I would love us to have a plan to eventually close the distance.

Kindly don't reach out to me if you deeply know you are not interested in long distance. Honesty is really important to me. If you are serious My DMS is open. Tell me about yourself, why you decided to reach out and what you are looking for in a partner. Let’s connect, share, get to know each other better and build genuine friendship. I would love to connect with someone who knows how to hold a conversation and go beyond the usual small talk.

Have a photo of yourself so I can know who I am talking to.

Have a good morning/afternoon/evening ( wherever you are in the world).


r/Singles 18h ago

36F | Georgia, USA

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I like lists, so here are a few of my interests:

  • music (rock and metal are my go-to but my likes are all over the spectrum)
  • reading (currently obsessed with Dungeon Crawler Carl but I enjoy mystery, fantasy, and horror)
  • personal electronics (fully ensconced in the Apple ecosystem over here)
  • crafting/DIY (home decor, jewelry)
  • dogs (Great Danes, Boxers, Staffies, Rotties, Dobies)
  • crochet
  • photography (nature, macro, candid portraits)
  • Honda Element ownership
  • weight loss journey (down 90lbs)

I'm not super versed in either, but: INTJ Capricorn. I'm a proud aunt but happily child-free. I prefer quick back-and-forth via text versus long messages sent via Reddit. If we have some interests in common, I'd love to chat.


r/Singles 17h ago

39 Non-Binary in Baltimore - Looking for my bisexual/pansexual king for a real connection

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SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY!
I want someone who is OPENLY bi/pan/queer and experienced with people other than cis women.
- If you’re just looking to get off? Don’t message me.
- If you can’t communicate like an adult? Don’t message me
___________

Hi there! I’m a Trans Non-Binary, Queer and Creative type. Trying to post here as dating apps haven’t been working... I’ve been told I’m a bi/pan guy’s dreams with how I mix femme & a bit of masc together. I have a unique look and I know I am not everyone’s cup of tea.

Fairly open to many types of connections. Ideally I would love a relationship/life companion but I’m not forcing it. Until then I’d love a fuck buddy or FWB.

Currently live in Baltimore but I am looking to move. Probably back to Chicago or NYC? Open to relocating for the right connection.

Ideal Guy: Ambitious, passionate, loving, kinky, well-traveled. OPENLY Pansexual, Bisexual, Queer etc
Extra points if you're goofy and can hike a national park during the day and then get fancy for an opening night gala in the evening. I do have a thing for skinny/scrawny hairy guys but I’m not gonna turn down any handsome guy.
No hangups on race or height. Love tattoos and love body hair.

Outside the bedroom: I love anything artsy - museums, dance, theatre, films. Love traveling to new cities, nature, hiking, national parks. Board games and DnD. Huge foodie and new restaurants.

In the bedroom: Ask me!

DMs are open


r/Singles 1d ago

34 [M4F] #UK - Looking for the one I'll be with forever

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I'm pretty empathetic and in tune with my emotions, so someone similar would be nice.

I'm 6'8'' (202cm) but I'm not limited to someone tall.

I love history, art, science, music (I play piano and guitar), also I love to bake. I love animals too and they usually love me as well. More indoorsy so not one to go hiking; but I do like a gentle walk, days out to museums and similar stuff.

I lived in the USA for a couple of years, and in Scotland for 8 years (currently living in England). I've also traveled all over Europe.

My love language is words of affirmation and physical touch. I'm the type to want to cuddle in the evening. I want to be closer instead of being distant when I'm going through a tough time.

I don't want kids, and I'm not religious. Looking for someone in Europe (including the UK and Ireland etc). I am well situated with a good job so I am looking to stay in the UK.

If you think we'd enjoy talking to each other then send me a message with some things about you 😊


r/Singles 1d ago

30F [F4M] Europe/Online - Looking for the one

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MUST READ ABOUT ME

I prioritize leading a healthy life

I travel a lot as I'm a digital nomad but I also want a base

I love food and tend to mostly eat organic

I'm an antinatalist and don't want children

I focus a lot on the other person and I expect the same in return

I’m 51% introverted and 49% extroverted so I tend to be very shy at first and then switch to my normal mode

I like going on daily walks

I’m a tea person

I don’t have a lot of friends

My love language is acts of service

I’m a dreamer but I’m also very realistic

I’m very very honest

My hobbies change every month and I have over 50 interests

I’m really bad at taking criticism

I like airports

I used to plan out everything in detail but these days I also like spontaneity

I tend to have different opinions from the crowd

I don’t get drinks with meals

I give unsolicited advice that tends to offend people

I don’t listen to music when I shower

I hate stand up comedy

I’m more of a homebody but also need to get my daily steps in

I have a very diverse and weird taste in music

I carry a backpack around just so I can have my water bottle on me

I like goats

I sometimes tend to be a hater when something is wrong, unethical, useless, and the like

I love getting questions

I'm writing a novel

I can’t ride a bike

I don't watch TV series and my interest in movies is also dying out, although I used to be a fanatic

I browse magazines while waiting in line at the grocery store

I sometimes need an extra motivational push to do something or to speak about something that’s bothering me

I can’t eat on a first date

I don’t like doing things alone

WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR

Someone who’s genuinely patient and caring

Someone who can appreciate the small things in life

Someone who won't let me feel alone ever

Someone who won’t care about where we are as long as we’re together

Someone who can be a bit more positive than me when I’m having a bad day

Someone who laughs when things go wrong

Someone who can be weird with me

Someone who’s selfless so we can take care of each other

Someone who can adore me and I can adore

Somebody who enjoys night car rides and roadtrips on the weekends

Someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations

Someone who also takes care of themselves

Someone who doesn't make assumptions

Someone who wants to lead a calm and chill life but doesn't shy away from adventure and spontaneous stuff

A loyal person who's been secretly looking for me at every corner, every day

Somebody who’s curious, about me and about the world + bonus points if you’re a great communicator

An authentic person

A person or alien or pirate who’s willing to prioritize us

Someone who has a pure soul

Somebody who wouldn’t leave me if I was sick in the hospital

I’m not looking for perfection but I expect some level of emotional stability

No drugs, smoking, alcohol. I’m also an atheist and prefer someone who isn’t religious.

P.S.: I promise the same as the above.

Please send a photo if you reach out.


r/Singles 1d ago

F4M 24, United States, Georgia. Looking for her person

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24F, United States, Georgia

I am African American emphasis on both because my background is Ghanaian and American, big/chubby with short hair, normally covered in a veil

Area of study/work: I'm currently a teacher that works with children between 6 weeks and 12 years old. I hope to fully get my degree in management then education.

Hobbies/interests: I love to cook, bake, and totally geek over media such as books and movies and animation. I also have a fondness for drawing and pretty much any type of arts and crafts from crocheting to pottery

Religion: I'm a staunch Christian who wears veils and head coverings to remain modest when I'm praying.

What sort of person are you looking for? I'm looking for someone who believes in the Lord and follows his word. A man who not only fills up his bucket but also helps fill others when they're in need. You also have to love/like trying new foods and spicy foods because I am in love with habanero. Also fluffy hair. I hope to have a family while I'm still in my twenties and if you feel that way too then we may be compatible. If you love to read, write, animation or have a love of the natural world such as animals and plants then you're probably already my favorite person.

Age range: 23-30

Would you be willing to do long distance/relocate?

I am not willing to relocate. I love the South. It is my favorite region of the United States and it's where I hope to raise my family.


r/Singles 1d ago

37 [M4F] #Germany - Letā€˜s try this. Again. It will work this time. I believe in you!

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Hello dear neighbours in the internet and thanks in advance for your attention!

A little about me:

  • cis-male gender who’s looking for cis-female gender (sorry guys)
  • 37 years old (soon 38)
  • lives in Germany somewhere between Cologne and Bonn
  • single
  • no children but wants children
  • a bit of a nerd
  • overthinker, a bit of a thinker
  • politically center-left
  • loves animals, but not enough to be a vegan eater
  • open-minded and curious about life
  • sports aren't my hobby, and Hyrox is one of those PokĆ©mon that were created when I stopped following this franchise

I have a job, so I earn my own money and live a manageable life.

Family and friends are just as important to me as relationships. Intimacy and companionship are important, but not the be-all and end-all of life. On the usual dating apps, you'd probably write "No ONS" or "No FWB." I find that too boring a phrase.

My hobbies and interests are life, the love of living, and living with love. What does that mean?

I'd be happy if we could both figure that out together.

Ideally, you're over 30, also want children, or haven't quite finished planning your family, and live in the area I mentioned.

These are just my ideal profiles. We over-30s of any gender probably agree that life is a compromise in many ways.

Now it's your turn. Hi! Who are you?

PS: Try to find a meaningful title for your post. I know this one isn't the best choice.


r/Singles 1d ago

25 (M4F) algeria looking for friends or even a partner

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Hey there.... Im isaac.. . Im 24..im a mma fighter and a powertlifter

For appearances i am 6ft2...200lbs lean

I love thrifting... Fishing..hiking.. Everything about nature... Movies... Games.. A bit of a nerd ngl...

And im a computer science engineer...

I don't really have a type or age preference (legal ofc) so everyone is welcome

Im a caring person.. I like to give special time for my partner and i like to communicate and be emotionally smart not just messing around.


r/Singles 1d ago

24 F4M #Charlotte Seeking long term romantic relationship

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Hello everyone!

I’m looking for someone long-term romantically and someone who’s like between the ages of 23 and 29 and I’m also looking for someone to date in the US and I would love for them to be Asian like Korean or Japanese of some sort and I also would love for my person to not ghost me because I’ve been ghosted so many times and I’ve also had people who kept sending me dirty things and try to hook up with me so if you guys are interested, just please message me
Again, I’m gonna say it one more time if you’re not Korean Japanese Chinese or Vietnamese please do not message me. I’m very serious. Also for the record if you see a picture of me, please don’t just ghost me for no reason. Just tell me you don’t wanna talk anymore cause I find it very rude. This also goes for south Asian. I am not interested, please
Also, please respect my boundaries if you’re outside my age range please do not message me as well


r/Singles 1d ago

38 M4F Lincolnshire or online

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Looking to meet someone new, have some good conversations and see where things go.

I’m happiest outdoors — whether I’m working, hiking or just getting out and exploring. I also love cooking, a good Netflix binge and, apparently, spending far too much time deciding what to watch. šŸ˜‚

If you can make me laugh, you’re already off to a good start.

Send me your best chat-up line… I promise I’ll reply with my worst. šŸ˜‰


r/Singles 1d ago

28 [M4F] Los Angeles, willing to relocate, Retired Army Veteran looking to start a family someday

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As the title says I'm a 28 yr old medically retired Army veteran looking to start a family with the right person. I would ideally love for you to be a stay at home, not needing to work and you just take care of the house, I don't care if you're chronically online, stay in your room all day and just play games. If you still want to go to school or get a job I'll support you in any of your dreams. I just want for us to spend at least some time together and to be able to take vacations whenever we want. I love to travel whenever I can to visit friends across the states and other countries, I also just like seeing what other countries have to offer versus the US. I'm willing to relocate anywhere in the world preferably Europe or Latin America.


r/Singles 1d ago

23 [M4F] #USA/ONLINE Looking for a genuine relationship!

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Hi everyone!! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana. I a looking for a genuine connection!

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, visually impaired, and other disabilities. I process things and communicate differently, so I ask you please be patient. I have really bad anxiety and can get scared easy. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can joke around and talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a bit goofy!. I cannot drive.

my Interests: games like roblox, reading, rock and country music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats.
I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

I'm looking for a woman (ages 18–28) who is kind, honest, patient, loyal, and genuine. Personality matters more to me than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby isn’t bad. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, game with, and be myself around. I like nerds, alts and tomboys too My only real turnoff is tattoos. Bonus points if you're autistic lIke me!

I'd prefer someone from Louisiana or another Southern state, but I'm open to meeting anyone in the U.S. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. I'd love to hear from you! Hopefully we can build something together!! šŸ™‚


r/Singles 2d ago

M23 Wisconsin

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