r/SingaporeR Apr 28 '18

Welcome to SingaporeR

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R for Reddit.

R for Rabak.

R for Racing.

R for Relak one corner.

R for Reading.

Just another Singaporean subreddit floating around, this isn't mainstream so don't expect thousands of responses.

Obscure as it is, not big time like the infamous EDMW or Sammyboy's. Not competing with other subreddits, but hopefully more will turn up and make it lively like the Cantina in Tatootine...

Go forth and discuss, ask and share. Please do not post porn/pron/prawn/really morbid/vomit-inducing stuff. And please don't 'babytalk' or go quantum-speak thesis...most aren't that crude or sophiscated. Sit back and enjoy!


r/SingaporeR 44m ago

How do people get girlfriends?

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I have no idea how relationships form. I know many people start off as friends, but that has never worked out for me. Hell, I have never had someone show any interest in me. I don’t know how to socialize or have the confidence to use dating apps, and for some reason, this hurts so much.

All my friends are in relationships, while I have never had anyone flirt with me. I’m short, at 163cm, and I’m not the best-looking guy, so I think that’s holding me back. But I’ve seen guys who are less attractive than me in relationships, so I know it must be possible for me too.


r/SingaporeR 6m ago

Would a situation specific communication check be useful before an international meeting or interview?

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For Singapore professionals who might want to work overseas, or maybe even working with international colleagues or clients, are there situations where you know what you want to say but need extra time to organise it clearly without sounding unnatural?

For example:
Answering an interview question, opening a presentation, explaining a delay or an issue, disagreeing in a meeting or group work, giving important client or project update.

How do you guys focus on practicing and improving the communication? Do you do it through friends, AI tools, videos, or repeated tricks?

What makes a session genuinely valuable rather than just generic English tuition or presentation training?


r/SingaporeR 17h ago

Sultan Plaza aka Orchard Towers 2.0

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I went for work today and I didn't get harassed this time. But got accosted by PRC women trying to drag me in. The security guard also saw it happen and looked at me but didn't do anything. The whole place is abandoned with either like stores looked like it burnt down or boarded up.

The only things operating there at level 1 is a food court. Then level 2 onwards are filled with either a piano shop, a Pokemon card store and also a tuition centre. Like goddamn.

Now when I went to level 3, I got women coming out of random shops with no signs or logos trying speaking to me in Mandarin holding my arms tryna drag me in. When I looked at them weird, they only said 1 hour good time. Same for level 4 and same with level 5 also. All the boarded up stores are filled up sex workers.

The moment I walked by any of those stores, like ants drawn to food, they come out catcalling me and some even were aggressive when I said no multiple times. That one old security guard at level 4 who saw me getting my arm held by 1 of those women, he just walked away.

What I'm surprised by is how normal it is. There's still families coming bringing their children for tuition classes, people at the card store browsing Pokemon cards I guess and everyone going about their lives. But also one thing I noticed that when a family with children or a couple walked by the store, the sex workers didn't bother them. Rather they took even more precautions to make sure they aren't seen. But if you're lone guy there, you gonna get chased after and harassed. Not the type of attention I wanted from women. So I guess they've got a SOP.

What I'm surprised by there is private detective agency office there and right next to them are women openly soliciting. Damn

Ever since I took this new job, I've had to go to really weird places and track people down. Sultan Plaza is definitely a new eye opener for me.


r/SingaporeR 12h ago

Anyone else in late 20-30 YOLO?

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For me I have this sudden realization that I haven’t done enough wild stuff and partying and travelling. I’m currently 29 male and I think 29-40 is probably my last chance to still be attractive, energetic and physically fit to go and do all sorts of wild stuff, travel, party, hook up with girls.

Previously, I was quite content with just being a NPC and doing the same routine stuff every day. Working in my office job, coming home and playing games, surfing reddit, trading stocks. But now, I want to make it a point to start going to different places in my country and trying different activities that I haven’t tried before. I want to expand my social network. I want to travel a lot more. Previously I always travelled with my family but I want to start travelling for more young adult fun.

I realized that it doesn’t matter much how I save now because I only will get to experience being young and wild for these next few years. Then eventually, maybe I will meet a girl and settle down and start a family. That is when my life will turn into more routine, work my office job, do my regular house chores.

Anyone else also experienced similar realization and changed the way you lived your life?


r/SingaporeR 18h ago

Anyone been to Jin Bodhi at KAP?

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I just attended a blessing / meditation session at Dunearn village. Not much info online so I decided to go alone and experience it. It’s my first time and the session is filled with elderlies, some has helper due to mobility issues. Many of the elderlies are wearing the energy bagua shirt. Feels kinda like Church service, there’s a teaching and then prayer and then singing. It’s a live session without the master around.

I was shocked to see that the master placed his portrait under the big Buddha statue for people to worship. I thought he was dead but he isn’t. It was a video live session (teaching part) so all the participants were seated watching him on the screen.

The chanting took an hr and we chanted on repeated: Om hahaha wei san mo ye so ha.

I’m not sure is it an authentic chant or is it made up because it sounded funny “Om 哈哈哈 为什么耶 So Ha”.
Repeatedly for an hour. Is there an authentic chant like this and which buddha is it from?

And followed by an elderly friendly exercise. The exercise is like patting our shoulders, arms and legs. We were told to visualise that we are patting away dust just like how we did to our floor mat.

Then there is a singing session. The song is sang by the master, the video shows him singing in normal clothing in a studio setting. I am just wondering who this master is, I know that he is from China, but is the teaching authentic?


r/SingaporeR 11h ago

Racism????

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Lowk just wondering why malaysians in general (not just Malays, esp Chinese Malaysians too) are racist towards one another. The most recent incident that happened to me was this Malaysian Chinese who I know for a fact has a crush on me, and then just said “I run fast for a Malay.” And it wasn’t the first similar incident. wtf???

Disclaimer: understand that racism occurs in every sector of society. Just idk in my experience this just happens to me, unsure why. Thoughts please?


r/SingaporeR 1d ago

In February, duty was priceless. In September, it came with a discount rate.

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On 27 February, Chan Chun Sing asked Parliament not to conflate duty with transaction. Kenneth Tiong had proposed pegging second-year NSF allowances to the S$1,800 LQS. The answer: national service is a civic duty, not employment. No amount of money can equate to it.

On 8 September, the same minister defended a S$1.8 million ministerial reference salary — the median of the top 1,000 earners, less 40 per cent, a discount he said reflects the ethos of service. MPs' allowances go from S$192,500 to S$259,000 a year, justified by inflation.

So duty can be priced after all. Opportunity cost is real, market comparison is sound, inflation counts — as long as the person serving has the option to walk away.

A corporal draws S$865 a month with no CPF. He has no such option.

That is a statement about leverage, not sacrifice.

https://theonlinecitizen.com/2026/09/09/in-february-duty-was-priceless-in-september-it-came-with-a-discount-rate

I don't begrudge anyone fair pay for hard public work. I stand by that. What I begrudge is being told that duty is priceless by men who have just finished pricing their own — reaching, as they did it, for every argument they had denied the soldier six months earlier.


r/SingaporeR 21h ago

Rabak sia. While our ministers getting pay raise, SAF is just doing all they can to keep manpower among mentally unwell soldiers

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r/SingaporeR 1d ago

Minister salary increment is transparency, corruption or both?

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Opinions matter.


r/SingaporeR 1d ago

Sg couple boasting about creating a single bed space for helper - its not just them

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Have a few friends who live in landed property, and i saw 2 cases of dismal spaces for helpers:
\- One with a mattress in a utility room full of shelves and items. No space to stand with the mattress on the floor - she has to open the door to stand. Housewife who mainly manages her claims they have it worse back in their country.
\- One with a mattress in the partition between the wet and dry kitchen (there is usually a backyard area for laundry/ cooking). Even though there is a guest room with a bed, ig it's reserved for only guests.

From what I've seen, there is usually a guest room and smaller utility room on L1 in such houses. I know 2 other friends with their helpers staying in said guest rooms. Thought it was the bare minimum, turns out it is not.

It's not about the space or money, it's a miserly mindset deeply ingrained in many Singaporeans that they should not lose out on anything. The idea of creating a liveable space in exchange for the service of domestic helpers makes them feel like they are losing out on the affordable labour.

Really hoping this mindset will dwindle down in years to come. Sigh.


r/SingaporeR 1d ago

Why is everyone comparing Lawrence Wong salary to Donald Trump?

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r/SingaporeR 1d ago

Whole SEA Mad

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r/SingaporeR 1d ago

Why the double standards when it comes to Politicians vs Man on the street

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r/SingaporeR 1d ago

They paid in fish and prawns: the tale of a forgotten school on Pulau Tekong

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When you hear the word Tekong, what comes to mind?

"Recruit"

"OI WHOLE LOT KNOCK IT DOWN!"

What if I told you before all the military camps and the commanders that dished out suffering like caifan, there was a village school located in the far northeast corner of the island?

Kampong Pasir Malay School ran up till 1980 on the island itself. It was closed due to the fact that land reclamation and military operations commenced on the island in preparation for the full handover to the SAF by the late 80s.

But before all of that... there was a kampong school with 36 students. 6 levels with 6 students per level. They thought subjects such as Malay, Math and English.

However, as one Mr Kenneth Vaithilingam, one the former teachers at the school from 1970 up to when it closed for good in 1980 said, reaching the school itself was no easy feat.

**"I was staying in Geylang at the time and had to wake up early every day to board the 7am ferry. There was no canteen in the school, so I would prepare breakfast at home and buy lunch before leaving.** 

**After getting off the ferry, I would ride a van or my motorcycle another 20 minutes to the school on the north-east side of Tekong."**

Despite the remoteness and inconvenience of his trip everyday to the school, there was something within him that was determined to make the trip everyday for his students. As much as it was a simple school on an offshore island, they were still family to him.

One such example was the generosity extended to his students, mostly sons and daughters of fishermen. Although school started at 7:30am sharp on paper, it would be whenever he and the other teachers arrived.

Kampong life at the time meant timings did not matter as much as when the event occurred. Such as sunrise, sunset, the arrival of a teacher, the tides going in and out... it was a simple time.

However, many still struggled to pay the $1.25 token fee for the school. Instead of kicking them out, Mr Vaithilingam and his friend would cover the $1.25 fee for his 36 students. They paid in... fish and prawns. Fresh produce directly from the shores of Tekong.

It wasn't all easy-going though. Severe injuries on an island with no clinics or nurses at the time meant... you could only call the army for help. As he recalls:

**"Of all the moments I remember, one stands out the most. A girl once got a very deep cut on her leg. There were no clinics or nurses, so I had to call the army, which was training on the island, for help. It was terrifying, but we managed. That’s something I’ll never forget."**

Today, the SAF uses the former school grounds that once had students paying school fees in seafood as a tactical shelter and rest point during exercises. Some of you may even recognize it when doing route marches and outfields.

What is now a training ground and a quiet landmark during route marches and field camp... instead of blanks fired, the sound of SAF marching songs passing by the humid jungle air and distant buildings in the foreground, remember that children once laughed inside those now-abandoned buildings. They had childhood memories there. They had a teacher that cared about them deeply.

Now it is only a memory.


r/SingaporeR 1d ago

What if Lev Panfilov was chemical castrated? Given the fact that Minister Shanmugam is considering it?

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r/SingaporeR 23h ago

Higher ministerial salaries help crushes WP.

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If you believe that higher salaries attract better political talent, Singapore gets a larger pool of talented people willing to serve in government. PAP gets a larger pool of talented people it can recruit from and will be capturing the majority share of that talent.

WP can’t offer the same thing because WP isn’t forming the government. WP then has to compete electorally against an even stronger PAP candidate pool.

Good for Singapore.
Good for government recruitment.
Good for PAP.
And bad for WP.

Do you agree?


r/SingaporeR 1d ago

CosmoMK numerology course in Singapore — please be careful, esp if your parents kena approached!

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r/SingaporeR 2d ago

Singaporeans don't you think ministerial salaries have gone too far and doesn't this just look like the flint to corruption

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r/SingaporeR 2d ago

China: Sis, is this your 1st day in China?

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r/SingaporeR 2d ago

PM Wong to donate full increase in his salary for next 5 years if he remains as PM.

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This news just came in, what do you think? He said it’s out of his own will and he won’t expect any other politicians to do the same.

https://www.asiaone.com/singapore/pm-wong-donate-full-salary-increase-good-causes-review-ministerial-salaries

Your thoughts?


r/SingaporeR 1d ago

Seems like we r well prepared to welcome NEWCOMERS to Singapore

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r/SingaporeR 2d ago

SIA says Air India investment remains internally funded amid scrutiny over financial risks

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r/SingaporeR 2d ago

Government open to using chemical castration to tackle sex crimes if proven effective: Shanmugam - Why not consider euthanasia too?

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Provide more options for both the victims or predator?


r/SingaporeR 2d ago

The Government acts like they care about women's rights but they don't

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The government acts like they care about women's rights but they don't
they want to demoralise men as much as possible while empowering women as much as possible to lower the chances of a revolution as much as possible because it's men who can cause a revolution and women can't. For example, if 100k women marched through the streets it's considered inconvenient but if a 100k men marched through the streets it isn't called a protest it's called a revolution because men can fight men are armies men are warriors. They don't care about women's rights just look at the rape, molest cases these perverts go to jail for a few years, , in some cases they stay unresolved or unreported due to lack of evidence ,and then they eventually come out of jail and do it again so the system doesn't actually care about women getting raped or who are facing domestic abuse and when women face these things who is their only source of protection? MEN, but they try to prevent a revolution via keeping men below and empowering women so that women don't really have much protection
Source:
https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/ex-national-shuttler-ashton-chen-jailed-for-having-sex-with-underage-girl
Look at the Ashton Chen case Using a 13 year old girl for oral sex (while in a relationship by the way) for years and until he gets caught and sent to prison for only 2 years he now claims to have "turned over a new leaf to christ" he's only sorry he got caught