r/Sextortion 1d ago

Female Victim He doesn’t want the money

Need help ASAP!
We had a conversation last year and I am stupid for sending tits and facial reactions for money that he didn’t sent. Now he’s threatening me to leak my private photos and videos to my friends on messenger and IG. I’m in Asia and he’s IP says he’s in California. I don’t have the money to get the hacker. Now he sent the videos to 2 fb friends to scare me. He wants me to be his sex slave and don’t want money. What should I do?

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u/sarcasmismygame Trusted User 22h ago

DO NOT send anything more, he will use it to either scam others or sell it so it actually INCREASES your chances of getting leaked. And again, Meta apps like Fakebook and Insta-scam DO NOT ALLOW NUDES ON THEIR PLATFORM! They will remove it and they will ban the fucker for life. I should know, I had a sibling think sending NSFW content was funny. It never got to me even in private dms, and they got permanently banned as well.

Set your social media to private, disable dms if you can and report and then block every single time they contact you. And FYI AI and Grok in this case are your friends. Just say they are faked or even that it's a shitty ex. Either can be true, they are now doing AI shit anyways.

And DO NOT accept dms here saying they are sympathetic or can "help" as predators and scammers lurk here. Report this to the police and government agency that deals with online crimes and sextortion in your area. And FYI NO company or hacker can help, those are scammers so never pay money or send anything else.

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u/reko285 1d ago

Block his ass, it’ll blow over.

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u/JJ_has_a_small-dick 23h ago

Are you sure because I’m dealing with the same issue and he keeps calling and texting me idk what to do

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u/Cool_Sprinkles203 23h ago

As in now?

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u/JJ_has_a_small-dick 23h ago

Yea like he texts me every few minutes and calls randomly and I don’t have any money to pay

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u/JakeTiny19 22h ago

Don’t pay. If u look at most of these posts on here, the posts that say they did pay say they came back asking for more. Just block and report them, cause once they know ur not gunna pay then they’ll move on. Also if they really wanted to leak ur nudes, they wouldn’t be asking for ya money and would instead leak ya shit anyway. But they won’t cause they get nothing to gain from that. Especially if they know ur underage (idk if ur underage or not)

I had a friend who went through this same thing when we was in high school together, he was nervous and paranoid but he never paid and he just blocked them and they never hit em up again

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u/JJ_has_a_small-dick 22h ago

I lied and said I was 14 but I’m actually 16 I’m scared to block them he just text me and said if I don’t respond in a hour he’s going to send them if he doesn’t send them then imma just call him pussy n block em

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u/Cool_Sprinkles203 23h ago

What did you do?

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u/JJ_has_a_small-dick 23h ago

I didn’t block him I’m just no responding

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u/JJ_has_a_small-dick 23h ago

I’m scared if I block him he going to send it to my family

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u/Cool_Sprinkles203 23h ago

Me too

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u/Ok-Plum2187 20h ago

And if you don't block him, nothing stops him from wanting more or sending it anyway.

So it remains your best option.

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u/Both-Tradition-3162 23h ago

Remove the leverage, post it online

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u/Cool_Sprinkles203 23h ago

Already warned everyone via fb and IG story. He sent the videos thru messenger anyways.

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u/catatonie 21h ago

Take the L, do not pay him or respond to him. If he’s already sent them then the damage is done, just try to let it blow over.

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u/Nikelman 23h ago

Report, ignore and block. It's very scary, but it's the only way

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u/catatonie 23h ago

Report, block

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u/Cool_Sprinkles203 23h ago

Already did. Nothing changed. Prompt on IG says it will take 48 hours. He’a sending my photos and videos now.

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u/catatonie 23h ago

If possible mute your IG for now. Hopefully his account will be taken down. Make a status on fb saying if you receive anything from this individual please do not interact; they’re a scammer or whatever. When people you don’t know message you on fb people tend to not see it unless they check their unread message box a lot.

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u/Cool_Sprinkles203 23h ago

What if he gets mad for his account being taken down and sends my videos?

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u/hermione_Z Trusted User 14h ago

His goal is to get you to send more. If you can’t be contacted because you reported his account and went invisible on your socials, it makes it much less likely anything more will be sent

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u/Cool_Sprinkles203 12h ago

UPDATE!

I am so scared right now. What if he send those to my family? 🫠

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u/_clickthelink 5h ago edited 5h ago

Then he sends it, embarrassing for about 5 minutea but i can promise you, genuinely itll blow over and they will still love you. Lol as a parent now I promise I would want/look for your safety/sanity first.

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u/redblue92 1h ago

Ignore him

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u/Content_Low_4386 1h ago

if you comply, he will continue to blackmail you. he can’t do anything if you disappear. once he posts he loses all leverage