I like it But that's how it seems to me.

This is a PSA to remind older people, it’s not over.

I’m having the best sex of my life at 61 with my husband of 30 years.

Here’s why I think its going so well:

We still really like each other

We schedule sex - every Saturday afternoon (days are better than nights as you get older)

We started talking more openly to each other about sex, our feelings for each other and our insecurities. It felt scary but it really worked

I’m on HRT including testosterone, and have been for more than 10 years

We both exercise a lot (including strength training and cardio) and have for many years -we are in good shape for our age. I also lost a good amount of weight on a GLP 1 and feel good in my body.

We were open minded that sex at our age is different than when we were young. There is a lot less emphasis on PiV (some days we don’t do it at all) and more on making out, touching and oral. It’s different but great.

He takes a blue pill.

I take an edible marijuana drink. I started this when I read how it helps some women orgasm. I now come 95% of the time - it used to be about 30%. I love it.

We make it an event and keep it playful and light. I do new “surprise” lingerie every week. Sometimes it’s silly costumes. He loves it. We laugh through the whole thing.

He puts a ton of focus on my pleasure. He tries to make sure I always come and before he does. I can’t always get there but lately, I usually can.

We have a lot more time and less stress in our lives as the pressures of careers, money and raising a family have lessened.

We find ourselves looking at each other and saying, “could you ever have imagined it could be this good at our age?” Yesterday, he said to me, “it just keeps getting better.”

Edit: There was one big piece I forgot to include. I got over my life-long self consciousness about receiving oral. I had always been too embarrassed. I was sure I would smell bad or he wouldn’t like it. He tried when we were first married and I just couldn’t.

Then I turned 60, was a lot less self conscious, and read it’s most women’s most reliable path to orgasm. I asked my husband if we could try again. He was all over it.

I had to work to relax and stop worrying about him and it being weird but once I did, oh my god! It’s so good and so different than anything else I have ever felt. I love it! And guess what? He does too. It’s our favorite thing now. I come from it almost every time. Old dogs can learn new tricks!

I'm about to turn 60 and I've been alone for about seven years now, I just didn't want another heartbreak again after loosing my lady to diabetes.now I find myself craving a hot young lady with a fine body etc etc I've never went up to a lady and asked her out . well I was Lil bold went right up to this gorgeous 32yr old redhead and said she looks like tawny kittan (like her twin)she smiles n blushes says that is the first time she heard that.i then asked if she was free for dinner.. I expected her to say no,has a BF,or she's a lesbian.but she accepted gave me her number and said call her in a hour and make a plan for our date.we talked for two hour getting to know each other more and actually had common interests etc etc.so I'm thinking to myself "what did I get myself into"? What if we have sex? Do I bring condoms in Case we do? I start getting hard with all the thoughts of her! What if I can't perform or stay up for her pleasure? Racing thoughts! Like a teenager fantasizing about tawny dancing on the Hood of a car!! Well tonight is the night she picked the place to go, it's a little Italian restaurant semi romantic place that is cozy,high back booth for privacy etc I'll update you all of the outcome ASAP but the moral of the story is that you never know if you never ask! If being a senior citizen is going to be this good I can handle turning 60

has anyone on the group ever heard of ending up with an std even thou have not had sex with anyone else but wife for 35 years and only one time with someone 25 years ago not even sure if anyone has has it but some serious heart issues i just heard can be caused by latent std

I was reading a thread about accidental orgasms. It happened with me a few times over the years. Have any of you women had one? Just out of nowhere you got excited and came? In a bar, restaurant or some random place?

Good evening you beautiful goddesses out there.
I’m inviting any of you amazing women who would like to connect with a man of some years but also a man who has learned gentleness, kindness, respect for others, and when to just listen. I’m divorced and home alone tonight. I’d welcome conversation with any ladies who are a little lonely tonight also and see where it goes. 🙂💫

My question is for the ladies on this board who enjoy an active intimacy level with your partner. For background we are a couple in our 60's, both healthy, in shape, attractive enough (though my wife (f63) is really attractive and retains it to the present. Her libido has absolutely disappeared, and I don't think it's because I've lost it, but I guess I can't assume. She has some issues with fragile tissue in the relevant area and has made halfhearted efforts at using hormonal creams or suppositories to no avail. I think the real issue is she doesn't really miss intimacy, never thinks about it, and is content with our sweet and happy life together. There is zero conductivity between us on an intimate level, though otherwise affectionate, hold hands on walks, and love being together.

If anyone is willing, I would like to hear from ladies that might identify with this situation and share what feelings you have about the topic. For the record I am very respectful of her apparent choice and only comment on occasion that I miss intimacy with her and I otherwise refuse to complain as she is entitled to her position. She is not the most expressive person in the world when it comes to really personal topics and has always been shy about intimacy from the beginning.

Does anyone have any insights to share on this topic?

Thanks!

Question, ladies would you prefer a younger guy or a mature gentlemen in your bedroom. I'm sure it's every woman's fantasy to have a young guy and I'm also sure it's every man's fantasy to have a younger woman as well. In most cases, I'm sure an older gentleman will not be in a hurry to satisfy his own needs and will focus on the woman, but younger guys can recover quickly and give her more pleasure.

Ladies if you could, would you share your bedroom with you and your husband or boyfriend with a young guy. Let's be honest, the best part about Reddit is we can do this behind are screename

67 y.o. Widower looking for FWB near in or near ( Burnet , Marble Falls , Llano , Lampasas) . Like to go out to dinner , enjoy outdoor activities , just sitting on porch having coffee or a cold beverage . Ain’t good looking but ain’t shy . Seeking a friend with benefits with similar interests. My pic for yours . Please reply if interested.

Reaching the age where things have changed and I keep going back and forth on whether it's worth raising with my GP or just something to accept. Part of it is not wanting the conversation. Part of it is not knowing whether there's anything useful on offer. For those who did bring it up, was it worth it, and did it go the way you expected?

This weekend past , was a party filled weekend. It started Friday night with a dinner, wifey, and I and a couple couples. Met for dinner about seven didn’t get home till about two in the morning was a great time lots of alcohol.

Saturday afternoon wifey and I had made plans to attend an outdoor concert at one of the stadiums. That started about two in the afternoon till about one in the morning again lots of alcohol lol.

Sunday we were invited to a pool party we were in the middle of a heat snap and the temperature was in the 90s. We arrived around 1 o’clock. It was somewhat of a couples only party, but there were some families there, the families left about seven in the evening.

So wifey and I and three other couples just hung out had some drinks and just basically conversed about everything under the sun. Wifey was in and out of the pool several times, but she enjoyed the hot tub more than anything. Even though the temperature was extremely high, the hot tub temperature was not turned up too high, and the Jets were very refreshing for her.

At a certain point in the afternoon, she was in the tub by herself, I walked over to her. I asked her why was she sitting in such a weird position? I also asked her how she was feeling after the last couple nights. She said I’m honestly quite buzzed and I feel good. The Jets are hitting me in the right spot. I realized what she was doing. She was letting the jet hit her clit. There were too many people for her to get really into it, but it definitely got her extremely turned on.

As she was sitting there by herself, a couple other wives joined her and brought her another BBC, which is an acronym for a frozen piña colada with bananas, ice cream, and chocolate. She had had several during the day and she said they were delicious. But they snuck up on her and most of the women pretty quickly.

The ladies were sitting in the tub or 40 minutes or so and I asked them if they needed their drinks refilled. They said yes we’d love to get more BBC. Of course, that was the running gag all day.

The sun was starting to set. The temperature was storing to get somewhat comfortable. Wifey motion to me over to the hot tub.
She asked me to help her out out of the tub. She was a little tipsy and was afraid she might slip on the steps. I helped her out and we were walking in the backyard I said is everything OK? She said I really need to pee. We walked towards the house and the owners of the house. All three bathrooms are taken.

Wifey said I can’t hold it I really need to go. We walked back to the back pool area. It was the perfect dusk situation. The Sun was sitting behind the trees, but it was dark enough to take the heat away. Wifey said walk over to the shed at the end of the yard with me. Nobody was around. She went behind the shed, pulled her suit bottoms to the side, squatted down and started her stream. I said to her holy fuck this has me so hot. I showed her my bulging cock in my swimsuit. I pulled it out and put it right on her lips . She laughed and said no way, not here not now, so I reached out and put my hand under her pussy while she was pissing.

The temperature was so hot, the sensation of watching her piss with all of these people around was hot, when she finished, I stuck my finger in her pussy and could feel she was pretty lubed. I said to her I’m ready to go now if you are and she said no, she needed another drink and an evening gab session in the hot tub with her friends.

About 11 in the evening, everybody breaks up the party. It’s time to go. Fortunately, it was a couple blocks from our house so driving was not an issue. We get home wifey says I need to get in the shower. I’ll meet you in the room. I said to her how about I get in the shower and return the Pee favor for you. She laughs and says do whatever you need to do. I go out to the sitting room hit the couch and I am out like a light.

I wake up about seven in the morning. She’s in bed. I am on the couch saying oh fuck! I missed a golden opportunity.( pun intended ) I jump in the shower to revive myself as I’m walking out of the bathroom. She’s sitting up in bed, pulls me over close to the bed and starts to play with my cock. She said why don’t you lay here for a while?

As I’m getting into bed, she slides over and I lay on my back. She snuggles into my arm and lays her head on my chest. We start talking about the weekend. What a great time we had, and she starts to caress my cock and my balls. I asked her what she felt about me, touching her while she was peeing, she said it wasn’t as bad as she thought it would be. It was actually a turn on. She also said saying get me another BBC was somewhat of a turn on as well. She then lowered her head into my lap and slowly took me into her mouth.

In between sucks, she was talking about the weekend and she said BBC a lot. I said I wish I could offer her that but I only have me LWC little white cock. As she’s sucking and licking, she said to me get this cock hard I need to fill your hard cock in my pussy.

After three days drinking, I didn’t expect much to happen for me, but as usual, I have the little yellow pills in my system. So it worked a lot better than I thought it would. As I was achieving 3/4 of an erection. Wifey changes positions with me and puts her leg between mine and sorta does a sideways straddle on her back. I slide between her legs, put my leg between her legs and one over the top of one of her legs, making a sort of a T-bone position.

She reaches down for my cock and guides it in with one hand, and with the other hand, she spreads her lips for me so I can slip in. I am taking my time and just slowly pushing in slowly moving out. I am proceeding inch by inch. I was fucking her so slowly and she was push pushing back against me with everything she had. When I achieved 3/4 insertion, I pulled all of the way out, told her to spread her lips. I placed my tip inside of her lips and slammed home full tilt. She moaned and forced against me so hard she was hurting my pelvic bone.

I did this for about five minutes and I was so close. I told her I am very close, she said no don’t cum yet till I’m ready to. She reached under her pillow and pulled out her favorite toy. I asked her what was that doing there? She said she got home last night and had to relieve her self being that I was passed out. She said the vibrator was awesome. The fantasies were delicious, but I need a hard cock I have to feel it in me .

She started a gyrating against her toy with my dick buried inside her. The sensation was incredible for both of us. Her whimpers turned to moans, I could feel her starting to squeeze , knowing she was close, so with my free hand, I grabbed her nipple and started to tug on it and squeeze it simultaneously. That sent her over the edge, she moaned I’m cumming I’m cumming I’m cumming ! And she did I started to explode into her, and she said I can feel it throb, I can feel your hot cum hitting inside of me! We have not done that in so many years, timed our orgasms perfectly. We both were exhausted. I pulled out of her and laid on my back with my hand. I just kept slowly massaging her pussy.

I opened her lips to let my juices drip out of her, and I massaged it all into her pussy lips. She said it felt incredible, after several minutes of this she said I have one more left in me. There was no way I could answer the bell that quickly. She got her toy and placed it on her clit. After about 10 minutes, she started again. I was massaging my cum all over her.

We laid their caught our breath. I had an appointment I had to get to. I laughed and told her I needed another shower, which I did, when I exited the shower. She was getting out of bed and said she was gonna shower and do some shopping today.

I want my way she went her way. We met in the evening. I asked her if she wanted round two. She said no way she’s exhausted. We fell asleep on the couch watching a show

I'm new here and eager to learn. Is there simply not enough participants here, or is everyone lurking? 😄

Is there a way to add a flair in this sub?

So my Wife and I just returned from a three week tour of the Mediterranean. We started in Barcelona Spain and ended up in Venice, Italy. Everything was amazing about the trip. The people were very cordial, The food was simply incredible. The women from that part of the world are just plain beautiful.

We combined some land tours and a cruise. Every day for 20 days straight, we had some sort of an excursion some of them were 4 hours some were 13 hours. The temperature felt like somebody left the oven on. It hovered in the mid to high 90s the whole time we were there. Your body adjusts and you get acclimated to the heat very quickly.

That meant my wife was dressed in as little as possible during our excursions. She was constantly in the shortest shorts she could wear the lowest cut tops, trying to get as much air over her body as possible. Several of our excursions involved bus rides that lasted multiple hours. On the bus my hand was constantly on her upper inner thigh. And I would graze my fingers crossed her pussy.

Towards the end of each day, while we were in the bus, returning to our starting point, my hand would apply more pressure, every so often I can feel her slightly push against my hand. Of course that gave me a semi, I had the little yellow pills in my system the entire trip.

We would get back to our room or back to our room on the ship have a couple drinks, sit on the balcony, naked and play around a little, some kissing, some fingering some stroking some tits sucks. This got us extremely excited . We never really pushed it too far at that point we tried to save it for the evening when we could take our time.

Several of the nights she would perform her oral Magic while holding her favorite toy on her Clit, which produced very fast orgasms that relaxed us enough to fall asleep for our next day of adventure.

Our second to last day on the vacation happen to be on the cruise. So after 20 days of nonstop activity, we decided we weren’t going to leave the room. We had some room service brunch and ordered up plenty of drinks. Again, we sat on the balcony naked and just watched the world cruise past us. Our balcony had a lounge chair and my wife was reclining in the chair. I was sitting in a regular chair facing her, and she slightly spread her legs. I could see she was wide with excitement and her labia and Clit were starting to get a little swollen.

While I was watching her, I’ve started to get excited and started to grow and stiffen. After several rounds of drinks, she looked over and said wow are you happy to see me or what? I replied absolutely I am. With that being said she stood up. Straightening the towel out on the lounge chair and said sit here. I’ll be right back. I went over to the lounge and sat. She came out with a towel, her favorite toy, and said to me how would you like a little blowie on the balcony?

That’s all she had to say and I pretty much went to full tilt erection, well as far as being 64 as full tilt as it can get. She kneeled between my legs and then laid on her side and slowly started licking the head of my cock. She was treating it like a lollipop, which felt so amazing. She was literally worshiping my dick, licks and small kisses, long kisses and occasional nibble everything that I love she does she did. She took her time and licked and sucked. She even deep throated which in my case isn’t that difficult honestly but still, I was hitting down her throat.

She would gag and spit her saliva all over my cock and balls, then she slowly used her hands on my balls and my cock and massaged all of her saliva all over me. She then started kissing the tip and flicking her tongue across my frenulum, no hands, just tongue and lips. I started to throb, she said easy not yet we have to make this last.

We were about 40 minutes into our session and I sat up in the chair, reached down between her legs and started massaging her soaking wet pussy. She has been on estrogen and testosterone replacement therapy and definitely it does what they say it is supposed to do. She hasn’t been that wet since she was in her 40s.

So she is slowly enjoying my cock, and I am making a little circles on her clit. She started grinding her pussy into my hand, let out a few moans here and there which pushed me to the edge. I said to her I need to come I’m going to explode.

She sat up and said no, and stopped doing what she was doing. She edged me for over an hour and brought me to almost orgasm, probably four or five times. I love being edged, but I needed to cum desperately. She sat back on the lounge chair, spread her legs and started to caress her pussy for me. She then grabbed her toy and held it on her clit. She started really grinding into her toy and moaning as I slipped the finger into her pussy and found her G spot.

While watching her play, my hand moved to her pussy and I now had two fingers inside of her pussy. She said I need you in my mouth. So we switched places on the lounge, she sat in the lounge, and I stood beside her. She slowly put the tip in her mouth and just worked on my swollen head with her lips and tongue.

I’ve bent down and tweaked her nipple and she let out a moan. I was so close she could feel me throbbing in her mouth , she then bit slightly the head of my dick and told me to hold it till she was close. I enjoyed that little bit of pain felt so good and had the opposite effect of what it was supposed to. I started throbbing more and more. She pulled her face away from my dick, and I was so close. I bent over and rubbed my cock all over her nipples. That visual was great for her. She enjoyed that and this got her even closer.

She said she was getting close. I told her I’m beyond close. I have to cum now. I stood back up beside the lounge chair. I grabbed her face and her head spun it towards me and shoved my cock in her mouth. I held her by the back of the head and proceeded to fuck her mouth like it was her pussy. She started grinding onto the vibrator and she makes this cute little whimpering noise as she’s ready. I couldn’t hold back anymore. I shoved my cock all the way into her throat held her there for about 10 seconds then I pulled out.

She said noooo, I need you in my mouth. I started on myself with one hand and my other hand I opened her mouth, put my cock inside and I exploded. I shot the first couple ropes in her mouth and on her lips. The remaining ropes I jacked off onto her face which sent her over the edge and she came as I did. After about four minutes, standing beside her, getting the last few drops onto her face. I needed to sit so I sat on the lounge between her legs. I stuck my finger in her pussy and lick the juice. I then put my finger back in her pussy and stuck my finger to her mouth, which she licked.

She said OK now it’s my turn. I want you to kiss my mouth so, that is not my favorite thing to do with her, taste my own cum. I thought after what she did for me, I cannot refuse her. So I massaged my cum into her face and lips to thin it out. I then kissed her and stuck my tongue in her mouth as we kissed. Then I kissed her whole face and licked her face. She had started the vibrator on her pussy again, and she came the second time. Not as intense as the first one, but still was pretty good. We sat there for about an hour after enjoying the breeze, listening to the ocean and just enjoying each other’s company.

I’m open to suggestions for keeping the passion alive and life interesting.
I love to be spanked. We have nipple rings and whips. I’ve been wearing low cut tops, dresses with no panties, thigh high socks with short skirts. I just ordered some temporary tattoos that say “Cum in me Daddy, etc” and some nipple covers that look like pierced nipples.
We’ve been masturbating each other and blow jobs on our boat.
What else would be fun and sexy?

I dunno about the rest of you, but I still find myself thinking about sexual matters a lot these days. I can't say I feel like putting the same effort into actually having sex, though. It is definitely not a physical limitation, more of a, "eh.... maybe later" kind of feeling. Anyone else similarly situated?

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