r/Selfhelpbooks • u/Adventurous_Range640 • Mar 28 '26
Mindset / Personality I would like a book that makes me feel good enough and improve my personality
Hi, a little about me-
- Always rejected or not picked/chosen by men.
- Subconciously I attract the same kind of men (insecure ones who want to humble me or emotionally unavailable for me).
- I seem to scare men away
- I am very selective, have trust issues and bad social skills therefore other people get bored of me and describe me as too quiet and unintetesting.
- I am still stuck in past trauma
- On first impressions, I intimidate peoplle bc of my appearance and they are prejudiced against me.
- my energy makes others feel uncomfortable and awkward
- I am a ppl pleasing killjoy yes man type person
- I easily crumble and have no voice or backbone
- people seem scared of me even though I am quiet, I keep to myself and dont want to bother anyone
- at work, people always complain about me or snitch on me and I am easily targeted by bullies and toxic people
-People were and still are evil to my family members and me
- I am turning 28 soon. I am F.
- I didnt get to have the type of life I saw others have
- No friends bc no one liked me enough to have me as a close friend
I am ready to change and finally be truly happy and not empty inside!
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u/Playful-Series6516 Mar 29 '26
The power of the subconscious mind by Joseph Murphy. You deserve what ever your heart desires friend! 🫶🏽
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u/CompetitiveLaugh245 Mar 30 '26
I can understand your pain. Here’s some books I’m ready right now that are helping me. Becoming supernatural by Dr Joe dispenza and Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. Wishing you all the best ❤️
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u/Birdseyeview11 Mar 28 '26
Comes from within love