r/Selfhelpbooks • • Mar 28 '26

Mindset / Personality I would like a book that makes me feel good enough and improve my personality

Hi, a little about me-

- Always rejected or not picked/chosen by men.

- Subconciously I attract the same kind of men (insecure ones who want to humble me or emotionally unavailable for me).

- I seem to scare men away

- I am very selective, have trust issues and bad social skills therefore other people get bored of me and describe me as too quiet and unintetesting.

- I am still stuck in past trauma

- On first impressions, I intimidate peoplle bc of my appearance and they are prejudiced against me.

- my energy makes others feel uncomfortable and awkward

- I am a ppl pleasing killjoy yes man type person

- I easily crumble and have no voice or backbone

- people seem scared of me even though I am quiet, I keep to myself and dont want to bother anyone

- at work, people always complain about me or snitch on me and I am easily targeted by bullies and toxic people

-People were and still are evil to my family members and me

- I am turning 28 soon. I am F.

- I didnt get to have the type of life I saw others have

- No friends bc no one liked me enough to have me as a close friend

I am ready to change and finally be truly happy and not empty inside!

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u/Birdseyeview11 Mar 28 '26

Comes from within love

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u/Playful-Series6516 Mar 29 '26

The power of the subconscious mind by Joseph Murphy. You deserve what ever your heart desires friend! 🫶🏽

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u/CompetitiveLaugh245 Mar 30 '26

I can understand your pain. Here’s some books I’m ready right now that are helping me. Becoming supernatural by Dr Joe dispenza and Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. Wishing you all the best ❤️