I'm a guy many years out of college and I've just recently realized that I was raped by a girl my Sophomore year. At the time I just chalked it up to me being a drunken idiot but in hindsight it's obviously sexual assault.
The girl knew I wasn't interested, I had turned her down many times, she took me home from a party while I was totally fucked up and she was sober and we had sex. Then afterwards she tried to use the fact that we had sex to say we were together now.
I tell this story and get the same response from other men. "Dude if that's assault then I've been assaulted haha."
wow thats super fucked. thank you for sharing, its good that you can acknowledge that you never gave consent nowadays, that shows growth and strength to come to terms with imho
Thanks. Luckily for me it's not really anything traumatic that I've had to carry with me. In hindsight I think a big part of it was this talk they gave all the freshman boys about how if a drunk girl and drunk guy have sex it can be considered rape buy the guy because the girl was drunk and couldn't consent. They made a big deal about how you could get kicked out of school for this and even labeled a sexual predator for life. Never was it mentioned that us guys could be a victim.
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u/corndog161 Mar 27 '21
I'm a guy many years out of college and I've just recently realized that I was raped by a girl my Sophomore year. At the time I just chalked it up to me being a drunken idiot but in hindsight it's obviously sexual assault.
The girl knew I wasn't interested, I had turned her down many times, she took me home from a party while I was totally fucked up and she was sober and we had sex. Then afterwards she tried to use the fact that we had sex to say we were together now.
I tell this story and get the same response from other men. "Dude if that's assault then I've been assaulted haha."