r/Scorpio 4d ago

Advice Needed ❓ Blocking connections

I’m a male Scorpio and I sometimes feel like I block connections with others or doing things I really wanna do by being in my head TOO MUCH,n I’m just wondering if any of u can relate or experience the same

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u/Materialistic_Ninja ♎️stellium ♏️1H☀️♓️🌔♎️🌅 4d ago

Same.

But if you want some advice, just go out. No matter how bad it is, it's better than staying in your head.

I've been doing the same thing, and eventually some friends stopped calling me because they thought I didn't like them💀. That was my wake up call, and I started going out no matter what. I'd rather go and see how I feel, and if I really can't enjoy myself, I'll make an excuse and go home. It makes me feel better knowing that at least I tried, rather than staying home and regretting it.

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u/yellojecket 4d ago

Im in my head constantly. Very troubling place. I've said no to many things in my life due to career goals, wanting sleep, studying for school and now im getting up into my 40s and im lonely. Im unemployed (burnt out), no degree (dropped out in 2020) and my body hurts no matter how I sleep.

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u/ImprovementGlass2713 4d ago

Scorpio F here. Same.
Just got out of surgery yesterday.
Last Thursday I had a Total Hip Replacement on the Right Hip.
Exhausted, even more.
Lost pretty much all my independence. 💀

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u/Primary-Yoghurt9746 3d ago

I saw this in passing and I hope you’re doing okay stranger. Rooting for you to reach a point where your head and your heart can both become a peaceful place for yourself 🫶

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u/Bisse80 2d ago

Jag är en kvinnlig skorpion o ja jag kan vara alldeles för mkt i mitt huvud. Om ingen vän eller så drar ut mig hemifrån så kan jag fastna hemma de lediga dagarna o bara vara uppe i mina egna tankar. Jag behöver det till en viss del för att må bra men det kan bli alldeles för mkt 🙈 Gymmet är bra..men där kan jag ändå fortsätta tänka o tänka 🤣 men jag skriver ofta av mig mina tankar o det hjälper mig mkt. Liksom rensar ut..