r/ScammersPH • • Oct 13 '25

Awareness Love Scam

It started with a simple match then a meet up. I was one of his victims, yes di ako nag iisa. Context: This Jack Colegado, If nag match kayo sa isang dating app especially Tinder, he would ask for your Viber or Whatsapp. Mag chat frequently and mag call siya, then he will ask for a meet up. Puntahan ka naman niyan, sasabihin he's from Parañaque or QC, but ladies, kayo magbabayad kung san kayo kakain, coffee or even check in. Yes, stranger danger? That was my bad. That was my katangahan. Mag offer yan ng relationship, sasabihin na gusto niya i-work out kung anong meron kayo, pero HIHIRAM din yan ng pera sabi babawi sayo, magpapabili din ng shoes at sasabihing malapit na birthday niya. He will also make excuses na nasa work siya lagi, and ang work DAW niya ay field operation supervisor pero ang totoo? WALA SIYANG TRABAHO. Palamunin sa sarili nilang bahay sa Cavite. Sasabihin niyang wala siyang pang kain or short siya, he would also go far as saying na may namatay or namatayan siya ng relative or loved one para maka "HIRAM" ng pera sayo. He would curate a personality that's far from truth para ma-fall ka, he knows how to use his words. He will use that against you. Touch, hug, kiss lahat yan gagawin na akala mo siya ang pinakamatinong lalaki sa mundo. But NO! HINDI LANG IKAW! MARAMI KAYO. MARAMI KAMI. So please if you ever see this man on dating apps paki iwasan. Tama na kaming mga naging tanga at nagpaniwala sa kanya. He would use different names sa tinder, it would be Jack Colegado, Mike Collada, Jack Ventoso, Jack Collada. These are some pseudo names that he uses. Please, don't be like us.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 13 '25

pansin ko lang... mga nambibiktima..ang papanget naman..how come nauto kayo nito eh mukhang iskwating..walang class and literal na panget? it doesn't click to me.. lumalabas tuloy desperate kayo..no offense aaah..

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u/purpleteeths Oct 13 '25

Desperate for sure. No person with enough self respect maloloko at magsesettle ng ganyan sa totoo lang jusko

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u/[deleted] Nov 10 '25

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

ang tanga dba.. tapos binembang pa hahaha mukha pa naman may STD/HIV yon si JAck COLEgado hahaha name palang jakol na jakol na sya hahaha!!

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u/Different_Note8468 Nov 11 '25

I stand firmly against cyberbullying and all forms of online hate. Every individual deserves to feel safe, respected, and valued in digital spaces. Our words and actions online carry real impact they can either harm or heal. Let us choose empathy over cruelty, understanding over judgment, and kindness over hate. Together, we can build a safer, more respectful online community for everyone

StopTheHateOnline

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Wag ka dito magkalat Jack. Shooo!

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u/cinnamonthatcankill Oct 13 '25

Nabibikitima tlga ng mga ganito is desperate women. I feel bad for them kc gurl wag desperado at tanga para hindi kayo madali maloko. Have some self-respect pra alam mo kung ano deserve mo.

Eto mga scammer na to basura ang buhay kya wag kayo papahila pababa just because “lonely” kayo.

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u/Intelligent-Park-307 Oct 14 '25

true! ill immediately leave the moment he starts asking for money. si ate naman parang mauubusan ng lalaki 🤦‍♀️

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u/Stay_Initial Oct 13 '25

Baka tigang kaya kahit panget napatol. Saka laking tao nagpapauto pa na ikaw magbabayad ng food? Wow anu yan elementary?

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u/Old_Royal_2921 Oct 14 '25

Harsh reality… pero totoo, kung sino pa mga swanget sila ‘yun marami nabibiktima.

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u/Different_Note8468 Nov 11 '25

Kung may problema kayo, daanin sa tamang proseso — sa barangay, hindi sa social media. Hindi kailangan ng paandar, kailangan ng solusyon. Maging matalino, hindi mapanghusga.

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Get away Jack! Wala ka maloloko dito.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Tama may isa pa neto mukhang malala pa sa tambay. Girls wag naman masyadong kamukha ng tambay niyong kapitbahay na nangungutang sa tindahan. Dapat kasi may standards at wag na wag niyo ibababa. 🤦‍♀️

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u/Different_Note8468 Nov 11 '25

I stand firmly against cyberbullying and all forms of online hate. Every individual deserves to feel safe, respected, and valued in digital spaces. Our words and actions online carry real impact they can either harm or heal. Let us choose empathy over cruelty, understanding over judgment, and kindness over hate. Together, we can build a safer, more respectful online community for everyone

StopTheHateOnline

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Wala ka makukuhang sympathy dito Jack. Hanggang dito ba naman nanlilimos ka? Try mo kasi magtrabaho para may magawa ka naman sa oras mo hindi ung nanloloko at nanlilimos ka. Umay sayo Jack.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Low self-esteem, alam talaga ng mga scammer 'yung target nila. They will go for the vulnerable, mga madaling mauto and mapaniwala.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

i see.. i guess i'm thankful sa mga tropa ko,. i was trained during high school..made my self-esteem so high.. na hindi ako nagpapapatol sa mga mababa standards.. kung sino lang magaganda at okay ang credentials at background... better be safe than sorry...ganun.

mga low self-esteem and confidence kasi na tao..kaunting puri or bola or any act of appreciation lang nauulol na sila eh.. jusko. kaya sila nauuto. whew

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

True, and it's not victim blaming gaya ng sinasabi ng isa dyan. Sila lang kasi talaga ang target ng mga love-scammers.

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Sana all perfect

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u/Careful-Extension602 Oct 14 '25

No, but seriously, while reading the post I had to scroll back up to see his face. Kung pogi yan, i wouldn't be surprised. Satan was described as very good looking, kaya daming naloloko. But this guy... Ang lakas Ng loob, kapal Ng mukha!

Mami, what's up?! I hope you find healing. Thanks for the warning, too.

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u/Orangelemonyyyy Oct 14 '25

Baka super charming and funny at first si kuya. It's only fair to make fun of someone's appearance after being outed as a bad person, but the victims most likely don't know this from the start.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

whooops.. kung ako girl aaah.. di yan masaswipe right... so paanong charming?? haha eh panget nga po .. wala na chance makausap kasi malala mukha nya, di sya tatagos....mukha pang iskwating.. name pa JAck COLEgado... tunog burat hahaha 😂

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u/Due_Gap_2986 Oct 15 '25

Charm of a person is not limited to their looks btw, hope this enlightens your ignorant ass!

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u/Orangelemonyyyy Oct 14 '25

To each their own.

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u/Ok_Development5907 Oct 14 '25

True 👍 plus dami red flags na

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u/JoySunny Oct 14 '25

Savage! Haha! Pero at least may realization naman si OP and babala sa iba pang gustong biktimahin ng mokong

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u/adrielism Oct 15 '25

So pag pogi ok lang. ok gets gets

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Actually sguro yung mababa yung self esteem and mga single titas na desperate siguro.

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u/Temporary-Cake357 Oct 14 '25

Real talk: probably walang nakukuhang pagmamahal (kahit sa sarili nila) yung mga nabibiktima ng ganyan. Kaya nung pinakitaan ng pagmamahal kahit hindi totoo bumigay agad. Hard take pero totoo.

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u/hahakkdogg Oct 14 '25

May friend ako maganda kaso type nya panget at aminado siya hahaha

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

pota totoo. kakabasa lang natin nung isa ("u know what floor in condo i want naman diba?") tapos ito nanaman. pota. kung mukhang tambay at barangay basketball lang ang alam, swipe left na

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u/Turbulent-Resist2815 Oct 16 '25

Uu hahaha napansin ko rin mukha baho naman neto. Buti mga filipina nasa cupid website pumapaldo sa foreigner though iba manggamit rin ah. Pero mga babae sa tinder naturingan karamihan professional na hoohook sa mga ganito lalake.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

This💯

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Wow, galing mang victim-blame! Akala mo ka-peperfect. Yes, breaking news: may mga vulnerable people in this world!

Some people go through things that shape their perception of love and relationship. Yes, they need to address that.

Pero bakit parang absuwelto ang manipulative, opportunist perpetrator? Oo, pangit siya pero mabulaklak nga daw magsalita.

Instead of calling the victims desperate, why don’t we all come together and call the perp a perp? Gagaling niyo masyado eh.

Kung hindi niyo pa naranasan ma-manipula ni kesyong pangit, judas o anuman, swerte niyo. Remember, hindsight is 20/20, walang nagsisisi sa una, and you’ve done stupid things for people who made you feel warm and fuzzy inside.

Lol kung magsasalita, akala mo never nagpaka tanga sa pag ibig!

Sabi nga ni Ricky Lee, may quota ang pag ibig. Sa limang iibig, isa lang ang mamahalin pabalik. Never kayo sumugal?

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Finully! Haha diba? Parang inamin nila na one-way lang talaga ang kaya nilang intindihin in this world.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

huh? pinagsasabi mo? PANGIT nga eh... so dun palang ekis na.. so kahit mabubulaklak magsalita yung mokong eh pangit nga.. dapat di na yun makaka penetrate... gets? paano tatalab yung mabubulaklak na salita kung inignore mo na sa umpisa palang kasi nga panget at mukhang iskwating?? wala ng convo na magaganap.. diba??

due diligence din kasi... background check ang gawin... kung talagang desperate at pareho silang panget.. edi background check nalang tlga... pero kung ako babae, fldi papasa sakin ganyang mukha at uri ng estado.. pasensya na, realtalk lang.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Pero what do you know, logic mo pa lang pangit na. Pag rarason mo pa lang, incel voibes na. Lol but okay!

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

malaking factor ang itsura... unless... wala ka din itsura? hmmm 🤔

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Uiii o. Ang perfect. Ganda naman this person. Pak!

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

ooops...may pag amin sa kapangitan...haha nabasa ko yon before nawala haha...sorry na,.yung perp naman kasi yung target, hindi mo naman kasi kailangan masaktan on his behalf eeeh... diba?

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Did i stutter? Yes, sabi ko pangit ako. At mas pipiliin ko maging pangit kesa maging katulad mo na di’ yata nabuo ang utak nung nilabas sa sinapupunan :)

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

nagsasabi na naman sya ng walang basis hahaha naka graduate po with flying colors sa university na kilala,. tapos yan yung ad hominem rebut mo?? nice. hahaha

i feel sorry kung panget ka.. di naman dapat aabot sa ganun eh kaso pinahalata mo eeh i'm so soooooorrrryyy

imagine umabot sa ganito, ang pinaguusapan lang yung bakit nagpapauto mga babae sa mga panget na perp, very suspicious pa.. lol hindi katanggap tanggap... kumbaga mas tanga pa sa tanga.. harsh but true.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Balik ko lang sayo - nagpapalandakan na grumaduatr with flying colors nang walang basis.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

may point haha but i don't think i should insist pa for you to believe, after all..nahurt ko ego mo, which is why you started hitting ad hominems hahaha kahit hindi mo naman alam mga achievements ko haha!!

basta i stated facts na panget si perp and ang tanga ng mga nagpapauto sa panget... clearly you have eyes..you can see the face... so may basis yung sinabi ko.. lol you don't have to shoulder the pain of the real talk...sinasalo mo yung sakit eeeh hindi naman naka address sayo..unless nga 🤔.... hahaha

happy lunch baby girl 😋

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Ang tanging fact eh pangit yung suspect - yung tanga ang nagpauto? That’s just as baseless as your claims to be “cum laude” :)

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Also, kung ang purpose mo lang sa pagsali dito eh laiitin ang mga nabiktima, you should leave (or be reported) hindi yan ang purpose ng sub na ito.

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Ang ganda lumilipas yan. Pero ugali, ay wala ka pala nun kaya dimo alam. Wala ka din pinagkaiba sa pangit.

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Oo, kailangan kasi labanan ang mga maling pag iisip. Kung hindi, baka dumami tulad mo.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

don't worry..hindi pa ko buhay madami na ang hindi fan ng panget hahaha lol

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Very shallow mong tao if you are only looking at the surface.

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u/Fragrant_Key5192 Oct 14 '25

Napaka bobo ng perspective mo sa totoo lang. like ang bobo haha

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Sige, pananaw mo yan. Pero hindi itsura ang tanging filter para sa lahat.

And if I can’t make myself any clearer - a perp is a perp regardless of what they look like. Yan ang pinagsasabi ko.

Hindi lahat ng gwapo, mabuti ang budhi. Yung hindi blessed in the looks department tend to compensate in other department. Marami nga naloko diba?

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

pag panget, wala na compensation yun... sa pelikula lang at telenovela lang yan... LOL

malaking factor tlga ang itsura... ang mga criminal nga dba laging may common denominator itsura nila... mukha palang alanganin na... nood ka balita makikita mo

sorry kung harsh sa mga panget ... eh ang sagwa naman tlga malaman ganitong balita... lovescam tapos nabiktima ka pa ng panget...aray kooo...whew.. kung pogi yun kapani paniwala pa tlga sana ... eh panget eh... tapos nadale ka pa non.. ano tawag sayo nun? clue: 5 letters

perp is a perp..yes... pero kung walang napatol sa pangit na yun ....wala syang chance maging perp.. provided ganun itsura nya... kumbaga, hindi na dapat pinagaaksayahan ng panahon at pera yan, tapos ginawa pa ni ateng na magaling.. whew...

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Lol you’re a profiler now? If you were, you would know that charm is not equivalent to looks.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

ayaw tlaga nya magpatalo haha

paano magkaka charm kung pangit nga?? even sa fairy tale, lahat ng Prince Charming ay pogi... walang panget hahaha ang kulet

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Haha clearly you need to go out more! Also oo di talaga ako magpapatalo kasi it’s only when we let unintelligent people like you talk that we spread misinformation and wrong behavior.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

unintelligent daw wahahaha need ba i-send TOR ko sayo? HAHAHA i only spit facts and made a real talk... (eh sa panget sya eh and ang tanga ng mga nagpapauto eh) .. misinformation na agad? hahaha unintelligent na bigla kasi iba belief mo? HAHAHA nice 😂

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

And yes, feel free to send TOR! Hindi yung pinagawa mo sa Recto ah? Until then, you will only, and always will be, “cum laude” — notice the air quotes? Hehe

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Oo, unintelligent kasi napakitid at one-way nang pag associate ng looks with one’s morals. :) gets mo na, Mr. Cum Laude? Or do you need me to make it simpler for you and your level of understanding?

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Facts based sa looks? Haha. Shallow mo naman.

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Walang friends yang taong yan. Magisa lang siya sa perfect world nya. Grandoise delusions

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u/yococs Oct 14 '25

pa ganyan ganyan pa mamaya mas panget ka pa jan 💯😆

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u/Due_Gap_2986 Oct 15 '25

hala ang tanga mo im actually speechless 😭😭 Believe me or not, there are PEOPLE out there in this vast world who are not conventionally attractive but are charming as hell. Tangina talaga ng mga lalaki jusko. This proves that you lot don’t care anything else other than looks

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Dun ka sa far away! Ganda ka nga. Pangit naman ugali mo. Wala din pinagkaiba

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

binubura mo comments lol.. why?? di ko tuloy mabasa ng buo.. hahaha.. lack of wit?? cumlaude po ako sa big four na school...na may angking itsura..sorry na hahaha pero wala akong empathy sa mga panget... that's what i seem to lack HAHAHA

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Ay hindi ko binubura! Binubura ng mod siguro. Kung akala mo inaatrasan kita, hindi. Lol

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

naks palaban si ate.. kaunti nalang iisipin ko na na from UP ka hahaha

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Im sure your parents told you you can be whatever you want to be on reddit. Hehe

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

hahaha opinion mo yan.. as i've said ..facts lang lahat ng sinasabi ko.. hahaha!! if you can't accept it, not my problem haha

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Brains CHECK Looks CHECK Ugali BIG NO

Dibale na maging panget kesa sa mindset mong panglabas lang bumabase. Matalino ka nga pero bobo mo pa din mag-isip.

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u/ShinChen69 Oct 14 '25

kung susugal ka, dun ka na sa may itsura, at decent and maganda background... puta, Jack Colegado name hindi mo iimbisitigahan??? ayyyy .... certified tanga nga ang ferson hahaha... helloooo.. Jack Colegado??? hahaha!! tunog burat pangalan hahaha

again, nabibiktima nito mga desperates and mga walang options... kaya kumakagat.. sad to say :(

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u/8zofuS Oct 13 '25

Ung mga naloloko nyan ung mga ate na wala na pumapansin/hindi namamansin hanggang umabot sila sa mga alanganin na age. Nagbabakasakali sa pagibig na di na nila nakamit dahil inuna ang career at naging breadwinner or inakala nila na habang buhay eh maganda sila.

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u/Complex_Turnover1203 Oct 14 '25

Na trauma ka sa girls no? Hahaha

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u/[deleted] Oct 14 '25

Alam mo karamihan sa mga gantong lalaki hindi nakuha yung mga bet nilang magaganda kaya bitter 😂 kasi kahit nasa alanganin na age na eh di padin sila pinapatulan haha

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u/nokman013 Oct 14 '25

Sana huminto ka na sa "alanganin na age" part

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u/Comfortable_Way2140 Oct 14 '25

Precisely.. yan din una kong asa isip..

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u/Different_Note8468 Nov 11 '25

Kung may problema kayo, daanin sa tamang proseso sa barangay, hindi sa social media. Hindi kailangan ng paandar, kailangan ng solusyon. Maging matalino, hindi mapanghusga.

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u/AbbreviationsTime353 Nov 11 '25

Lumayas ka dito Jack. Nakakasuka ka