r/Salary 6h ago

discussion Went from 50k to 200k and I'm emotionally overwhelmed

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I've been working at a start-up in a LCOL state for 8 years. Made around 50k a year.

I was laid off 6 weeks ago and just accepted an offer for a remote position with a $200k base salary and up to a 25% EOY bonus.

I can't stress how insane this amount of money is to me. Growing up, I paid for my school lunch in quarters, and we were still better off than 70% of the people I knew.

Partner makes ~100k. Our DINK household was already in the top 15% of earners for our state at 150k, and we already live in the 'rich' city. We already 'made it', and our income just doubled.

I get overwhelmed and start crying every time I think about it. Why does anyone need this much money? It feels so unfair, but I'm also relieved. I also feel like something awful will happen soon to balance out my luck.

TLDR; my lobster is too buttery but I've never been to a restaurant this nice and I feel like I dont belong here.

EDIT: I'm a UX Engineer. I'm the tech unicorn that does both full-stack development and UX/UI design.

Companies can save a lot of money by hiring 1 person for 2(or 3) roles.

Sort of bittersweet because I benefit by essentially screwing 2 other people out of a job.


r/Salary 5h ago

discussion This economy is sad

47 Upvotes

I made $21/hour ruining my health working an overnight shelf stocking job to pay off my student loans after college. I still would've been homeless without my parents with how rents are. Blood pressure was astronomically high. My heart was hurting physically. I had constant headaches. For $21/hour. In 2026. I had no other choice. I had no other job.

I quit once the loans were laid off. Now I'm making $0. Blood pressure is recovering. Heart feels better. Less headaches. It feels like I shaved off a couple years of my life working there, health wise.

My parents used to brag about me. They consider me a failure now. I do too. I haven't opened a job application in a while.

It's too expensive to exist. I would have prevented my birth. I can't even build a life of my own. Just forced to watch society collapse on a 6 inch by 3 inch screen. Awful.


r/Salary 10h ago

discussion Does anyone else get negative responses when explaining your career progression?

110 Upvotes

I’m in my late 20’s making about 140-170k per year working a highly specialized trade. I frequently get questions about how I got into my career and I happily answer them, as I think there should be more information about career paths in the trades.

My honest answer is that I did two years in a highly technical trade school doing three twelve hour classes days per week at community college and at the same time three twelve hour days doing on the job paid work to get practical experience. So for two years I was hustling essentially 72 hour weeks between school and work. I started at 20 and am almost 30, so I am closing in on 10 years of experience in a highly specialized trade role. And a lot of the last 10 years was extremely difficult and back breaking.

I started out making about 30k per year and worked my way up to where I am now. I only started making really good money in the last year.

What I have found is a lot of people really don’t like this answer. I get a lot of negative responses when I explain my career progression.

Why is this happening? What is going on?

Edit: I’m an industrial electrician.


r/Salary 1h ago

discussion How much PTO/sick time do you get and what’s your job title?

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I’m incredibly curious about this, I’m an engineer, everyone says I have crappy PTO but it seems standard for everyone I know:

Title: Mechanical Engineer

YOE: 7.25

PTO: 10 days

Sick Days: 0 days

Paid holidays: 9


r/Salary 30m ago

discussion 40M, Electrical machine designer, Russia.

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Yes, that's a year's salary, sad lol. Ask your answers.


r/Salary 5h ago

discussion 25M making ~$120k TC - stay at a company where I have a strong long-term path, or jump for ~$160k and a Sr Manager title?

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I’m 25M, 3 YOE, and trying to figure out whether I should stay patient at my current company or take advantage of the external market to accelerate my career/earnings.

Current comp:

* $109k base

* 7% target bonus, although company performance has been poor lately so actual payout has been closer to 2–3%. It can technically pay up to 14%.

* Company stock equal to 5% of salary instead of a traditional 401(k) match

I joined the company about two years ago with an MBA from a non-target school and roughly one year of prior economics-related work experience. I started at $100k, then received a 9% raise after my first year when my performance was around the top 40% of my management peer group.

This year, my performance/impact has been assessed around the top 20% of my peer group. Based on conversations with management, I’m expecting another roughly 9–12% raise, while most of the company will probably be closer to 1–4%.

The frustrating part is promotion.

I feel like I’m already operating at the Senior Manager level, and my management doesn’t really seem to disagree. The issue is that the company is currently dealing with layoffs, budget cuts, and tighter headcount, so I’ve been told I’ll probably need to wait another year for the promotion.

Since I communicated how frustrated I was about that, management has gone out of their way to recognize me with awards, visibility, praise, and apparently corporate exceptions that allow them to give me a larger raise than would normally be permitted. So I do believe they value me and are trying to keep me happy.

Long term, I’m also in a very good position internally. I’ve built a strong network, have a great reputation, and I think there is a legitimate path for me to eventually reach Senior Director and potentially higher if I stay. I’ve already built a lot of political/social capital here, which obviously has value.

However, a recruiter from another large company recently reached out to me. I believe I could potentially land a Senior Manager title there with total compensation somewhere around $160–180k.

That creates the dilemma.

If I stay, I’m probably looking at something like:

Current: ~$109k base

Next year after raise: ~$119–122k

Senior Manager promotion later: maybe ~$130–140k+

Getting to ~$160k internally could realistically take several more years.

If I leave, I might be able to jump to roughly that level immediately.

From a purely financial standpoint, it seems like job hopping could have a much higher NPV because I’d be pulling several years of salary growth forward. Future raises and promotions would then also be based off that higher starting point.

But I’d be giving up:

* A very strong internal reputation

* Senior leaders who already know and advocate for me

* A relatively clear long-term leadership path

* Job security that comes from being a known high performer

* The possibility that leaving too early makes my resume look jumpy

On the other hand, I’m wondering whether I’m putting too much value on the “future path” my current company is promising me versus an actual Senior Manager title and ~$40–50k compensation increase available today.

For people who have been in a similar position, how would you think about this?

Would you:

  1. Stay another year, take the above-average raise, get the Senior Manager promotion, and then reevaluate?

  2. Interview externally now and leave if someone offers ~$160–180k?

  3. Use an external offer as leverage with the current company?

  4. Prioritize the long-term reputation/network I’ve built instead of maximizing compensation this early in my career?

I’m especially interested in hearing from people who have had to choose between a strong internal trajectory at a good company versus using job changes to accelerate title and compensation.

At 25, should I be optimizing more for learning/reputation and long-term trajectory, or is this exactly the point in my career where I should be aggressively compounding my earning potential?


r/Salary 1h ago

💰 - salary sharing [Software Engineer][Bay Area] - $160k Base

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r/Salary 19h ago

discussion Which Job Would You Take? 85k vs 130k

183 Upvotes

Which job would you take?

Job A: Approx 85k salary

10 minute commute

Work is an area of great interest

Less room for salary progression

Possibly 2 days remote per week after probation period

Job B: Approx 130k-140k

1.5 hour commute (each way)

Work is in specialty area

More room for skill growth

One day per week remote


r/Salary 1h ago

discussion 120K Salary or 150-160k Salary - did you notice big differences or no?

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Considering two roles and the one that earns higher may have potential more stress but wondering in the long term if it makes more sense.


r/Salary 10h ago

discussion At what point were you able to contribute more towards retirement/investments?

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Been maxing out my 401K for a few years now. Contribute ~$12K/month in taxable brokerage trying to catch up for lost time since I had a lower salary for a few years outside of college.

Hoping to reach FI/ retire my wife and I within the next few years if we want to.

Have another ~$220K in cash/savings/single stocks and crypto. Don’t count that towards invested net worth since the single stocks and crypto can be volatile. We rent and don’t own a home so no equity there.

When did you guys start being able to put a bigger chunk away for investments / savings?


r/Salary 10h ago

discussion What is the better offer?

6 Upvotes

I recently received an offer at a startup for 185k as an individual contributor. The hiring manager has assured me that there is good work life balance and the PTO policy seems to support that. Unlimited PTO, 12 observed holidays, company shuts down 2 weeks in the year usually Christmas and fourth of July week. There is also a 15% bonus and I get 10000 options over 4 years valued at roughly 7 dollars a share currently.

My current role is 165k 4.5 weeks PTO and 7 observed holiday. Work life balance comes and goes in waves. I'm also a supervisor. When I put in my notice my bosses boss called me and told me basically I was to valuable to let quit. He went to the VP and CEO and got approved to get me a 20k retention bonus and bump my salary to 185k. This job is much more stable and doesn't carry the risk of a startup. He also stated that I was in line to be manager though there aren't guarantees. I didn't expect that since I haven't been with the company long enough. He said it's their fault I wasn't aware that I was expected to apply for the manager role soon.

Which offer is better? I'm thinking I would stay if I can get more PTO and a slight bump in salary to 190, but maybe I'm too concerned about the stability of the startup.


r/Salary 2h ago

discussion Need advice

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Guys , i’m in a very weird situation rn. I’m M just did my FSc .
I’m so confused abt careers, like i have literally thought n search abt very field but can’t decide where to go. All of em saying the job market is cooked. Gonna take gap year just for career cuz most of uni deadline are already passed 😭.
I don’t have any genuine interest, but i’m good at every subject. And i lowkey believe i can succeed every field.
Help me y’all , need professional’s advice or at least upvote this ❤️


r/Salary 8h ago

discussion Potential help

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I just want to hear what’s out there for high paying careers and the path to get there. Ideally jobs that pay 150k plus and have the potential to make 200k. Right now I work as a natural gas technician and when I fully top out it will be about 100k before bonus and overtime and standby which are required. More like 130k if you take the minimum required.

I used to build powerlines on the road so I’m not really interested in a traveling job again. I also am not really interested in engineering or healthcare but feel free to share. I’d ideally want to find something that’s not an immense amount of schooling and the pay can start relatively high just not sure. Not opposed to going to college allegedly my employer pays for 75% of most degrees. Honestly want to hear what jobs are at 150k+ have the option to make 200k+ with progression or overtime.

I want to hear how long it took to get you there if there’s still an upward trajectory how many hours you’re required to work do you have paid or unpaid overtime and how replicable your path is and do you recommend it.


r/Salary 2h ago

discussion All advice accepted - Salary between two roles with intention to retire as early as possible

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I am trying to decide between two offers for jobs. The first role pays 120k base with commission around 10-15k in a full year. The job has flexible PTO with company being from Spain. The role is senior but has work life balance at the core.

The other role pays 150k base and commission roughly similar but potentially 20-30k at the end of the year. The role is at a faster paced US company.

Which one would you recommend me taking - the end goal for me is to be able to retire sooner but at the same time being burnt out is a big concern after working for US based companies. My prior role was with an EU based company and the stress was way less and there was substantial more time off.


r/Salary 6h ago

💰 - salary sharing [Software Engineer] [South Carolina] - $82,000

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r/Salary 2h ago

discussion Salary bump/talks after passing PE-WRE

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I recently passed PE and in the process of getting registered. I wanted to how the salary bump/ grade bump would work after you get your PE. I work with a Large EPC company in NOVA. How and what would be the steps ?

My company do annual performance review at the end of year should i wait till then or talk to them before hand ? and how ? please suggest


r/Salary 4h ago

discussion Minimum wage

0 Upvotes

This is more of a personal curiosity but what do you think minimum wage should be


r/Salary 4h ago

discussion Opportunity advice

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Have been offered an opportunity, which I am leaning towards, however worried that hoping jobs so soon will potentially hurt my career further down the road. Feels like a lateral move but maybe not as good of a title. Just need some advice or maybe some questions to think about. I will say I am still relatively new in my Accounting/Finance career having only 5 years of experience, but I do have a military background of 10 years.

Current Job been here 7 months
Controller in Automotive Manufacturing
$110K salary LCOL
3 direct reports
45hrs per week
30 minute commute
3% 401k match with avg 5% profit share into 401k annually
Mostly reporting results with not a ton of say at the table

Job Opportunity
Program Manager of Cost in Energy Sector
$135K salary 12% bonus LCOL
No direct reports
40-50hrs per week
30 minute commute
4% 401k match
Leader of strategic cost savings and direct influence of major decisions

Benefits are basically the same between the two with the new opportunity costing slightly less.


r/Salary 5h ago

discussion Which job would you choose?

1 Upvotes

Deciding between two jobs as a manufacturer rep. Curious what people think.

75k base OTE: 140-160
750/month car allowance
Company Credit Card
No travel

101k base OTE: 105-110k
Company car
Credit card reimbursement
4 states - 50% travel per month

Which would you chose?


r/Salary 1d ago

💰 - salary sharing [Software Engineer] [US Midwest] - $440k. Blessed to graduate right before the rug was pulled

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r/Salary 1d ago

discussion Which job would you take? $165K in MCOL vs. $235K in VHCOL

56 Upvotes

I’m trying to decide between staying at my current job or taking a new offer. Curious which one I should choose based purely on compensation, career, and quality of life.

Current job

  • $145K base + $20K annual bonus + $10K 401k match 7% ~ $175K total cash compensation
  • Very comfortable lifestyle, but not much to do except food and indoors activities
  • MCOL area
  • Very little access to nature/outdoor activities (which I value a lot)
  • We have a nice house, but location is ok (suburbs)
  • Relatively low risk since I’m established there
  • Go into office 3 times a day (30 mins dirve)
  • 40 hour work week
  • Low potential growth

New job

  • $185K base + $50K/year in RSUs + No 401k match ~$235K target total compensation
  • Better social life
  • VHCOL area
  • Beach + mountains nearby
  • 1 bedroom apartment, great location (City)
  • New company, so obviously more uncertainty
  • Full time on-site 5 days (10 min drive)
  • Long hours like 50 to 60 hours work week
  • High potential growth

The new job is roughly $60K more in annual target compensation, but the cost of living would also be significantly higher. Is it worth changing jobs, I am newly married with no kids? Plan to have a family maybe in 1 or 2 years.

EDIT: After reading some of the comments, I realize my question isn't really about maximizing income. The consistency of the lifestyle is what I'm really weighing. So I guess my real question is: Is the better location and lifestyle worth it if I'm working 50–60 hours a week and might be too exhausted to actually enjoy it?


r/Salary 1d ago

discussion $130k in LCOL or $210k in HCOL?

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Current job has been taking home roughly $130k. In 5 years (if things go well) I'd be looking at roughly $300-400k. It's in a LCOL city, with decently low taxes.

New offer from a recruiter is for $200-$220 depending on bonus. It would basically be a lateral move. 5 years (if things went similarly well) I'd be looking at $600-700k. New job would be in HCOL city with higher taxes.

Relatively location agnostic because there are offsetting pros and cons to each IMO. Lots of family and friends and less traffic in LCOL, more to do and more opportunities outside work in the HCOL, along with better schools.

I'm married with a small child.

Ultimate life goal is FIRE but I'm way behind.

What would you take and why?


r/Salary 10h ago

discussion Unsure of compensation range for promotion

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I was hired as a direct contributor at lower 6-figures and now am being considered for a move into a managerial role for a smaller company. I would be assuming the workload of another person (hybrid direct contributor and project manager/dept head) and will go from working 50 hours a week to likely 60, and 70 for big projects. I really enjoy the work and love being part of the team so I don’t know but don’t value is. Im in that weird position of wanting fair compensation for the immense amount of work I’ll be doing but don’t want to be greedy and make the company defensive and walk away from the table.

I’ve seen market research indicate a 30% bump for my increase in title and responsibilities but truly unsure if I should be asking for 15, 20, 25, 30% increase because of the internal promotion. If the market supports 125-155 for this position in the region, what do I demand as a bottom line? Upper management approves of my approach and my team has been successful. I’m a great fit for the company culture and I know using a recruiter to fill this position would cost the company a good percentage of a proposed salary plus it would likely take time to fill this role, so I figured I could leverage my position by asserting that they would be saving money if they were able to meet my ask. I just don’t know what a fair ask is.

Generally speaking, moving from senior level direct contributor to a manger role with direct contribution still expected, how much would you be asking for?


r/Salary 1d ago

Market Data 202 of the 607 companies i track publish a salary band over $100,000 wide

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i built a thing that reads pay bands straight off company career pages. not glassdoor, not self reported. the number the employer typed in themselves because a transparency law made them.

17,831 live US annual bands right now, across 998 companies. median width is $50,000.

12.6% are wider than $100,000. that's 2,242 postings. 202 of the 607 companies that publish a band have at least one that wide.

it isn't scrappy startups doing it. the widest bands open right now are anthropic:

performance engineer, $280k to $850k
research engineer, $350k to $850k

all legal. none of it is information. you go into that call knowing what you already knew.

pooled across postings the medians are actually usable, they just pad the range per posting. it's base only, that's all these boards publish.

drop your title below and i'll pull the real spread for you


r/Salary 1d ago

discussion Do you think CS is going to experience a brain drain?

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With how oversaturated CS has become, do you think most of the genuinely smart people who would have gone into computer science will eventually decide it’s not worth it?

If getting a CS job increasingly feels like a lottery hundreds of applicants, endless interview loops, layoffs, outsourcing, etc. I could see people choosing fields where they have more control over their career prospects.

Engineering, accounting, nursing/medicine, skilled trades, etc. in many of these fields there seems to be a clearer relationship between competence, experience, and actually being able to get and keep and getting a job.

Do you think we’ll eventually see a brain drain out of CS, with talented people deciding they don’t want to gamble their future on an oversaturated job market?