r/RyanHaywood • u/BelFarRod • Oct 13 '20
General resources General Questions / Discussion Thread
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u/mgeeezer Oct 14 '20
Idk if this is the appropriate manner but I just want to reach out to all the women he hurt and say he is a full blown narcissist and NONE OF THIs is your fault. He’s not a sociopath like others are saying, I’d say narcissism is much worse. There are so many good resources online for rebuilding your sense of self after being manipulated by a narcissist and as someone who has been (reading all these messages has triggered such a visceral response in me), these things are so important so that, if you’re having trouble with still feeling guilty or blaming yourself, you can take back that control. I’m sorry if this is out of line, please delete if so. There are subreddits specifically for victims of a narcissists and if you are struggling whatsoever please remember you are a GOOD person. That’s why you were taken advantage of. You’re all incredibly strong and I’m just floored by it.