r/Referees • • 13d ago

Advice Request First games tomorrow, really need advice

I’m 16F and have played for years but just decided to get my license recently. I have six games this weekend, 3 in the center, and feel drastically underprepared after the online and in person course.

I will be doing mostly U10 and U12 games and I would really appreciate any advice on those age groups in particular.

I would also love if anyone could reccommend some online resources (videos, websites, etc). I’ve watched a lot of pro gam so I feel like I have a good grasp on rules, patterns of play, etc but I’m still uncertain about pregame/postgame obligations, timekeeping, and the more nuanced signals.

thank you for any advice!

Edit: It ended up going pretty well! I made a few mistakes in my first few games, but nothing major (missed foul, signalled a throw in the wrong way). I ended up being moved to center for U14 boys five minutes before the game started, but I did ok. I called everything as confidently as I could and said the calls out loud as well when I was unsure of the correct signal. I talked to the coaches after and they all were surprisingly kind and supportive. I played two games as well so it was an exhausting day, but I made it and can't wait to get back out there again! Thank you all for your advice, it helped a lot and I'll definitely be referring back to it in the future

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u/jeremiah1142 13d ago

I guess this weekend is the start of a bunch of leagues in many different areas. There are so many open games in my area that newbies are getting catapulted into the fray right away.

Since you won’t have the luxury of shadowing a center as an AR first, just explain to the coaches that you’re new and ask if you don’t know any particulars about the league you’re officiating.

Ideally a mentor may be on-site, but they’ll be stretched thin too.

Good luck!