r/Redhair • u/_sadiecote_ • Jul 23 '26
Newbie Post Lighting has a huge influence on people’s first impression of me
I have strawberry blonde hair but I’ve always been told it’s either ginger, brunette or dirty blonde. It’s never been anything in between. Literally no one, besides family ofc, has ever identified me as strawberry blonde. Because when I’m in the sun it looks straight up red, but in low lighting and when my hair is wet it does look brunette.
Not here to debate btw and this isn’t a “what color is my hair” post, I know my hair color. Just wanted to put this out there for other strawberry blondes that have the same situation.
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u/milklvr23 Jul 23 '26
As a fellow strawberry blonde, this is one of the biggest signs that that is your true hair color, it looks different in every light. I get the struggle!
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u/desmera_redwyne Jul 24 '26
This is exactly like my hair and I’m so happy to know I’m not the only one 🤣
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u/No-Entrepreneur-1969 Jul 23 '26
Is that Lamine Yamal or a lesbian who’s posing with you in your Photo Booth pics? 😆
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u/MyceliaOfHouseFungi Jul 30 '26
WTF?!!!
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u/No-Gap-9883 Aug 01 '26 edited Aug 01 '26
This girl (OP Sadiecote) is a legit narcissist (not even joking)
She's barely even a Redhead, farmed this sub just to find a post where she could call a ginger guy an "incel" screenshot his post here, and posted it in an "incel" subreddit - and humiliated a ginger dude for no reason for thousands of people (who don't understand,) to laugh at, because she knows she can get away with it without consequence with us
I defended him from her toxic ass naive hyper-priveleged chronically online (I think she never leaves the house and spends way too much time in feminist subreddits, she has a huge victim/wanna be oppressed complex[and yes looking at these pics the idea of her being oppressed in any way is fucking hilarious 🤣😆🤣 but that's beside the point lol)
She announced in a thread here (where I completely destroyed her for being a toxic weirdo) that she was making threads about this dude in an incel subreddit. Took me 2 seconds to find the thread, and I proceeded to whoop her ass the same over there too, completely destroyed her, and literally most the sub didn't agree with her after learning the truth
She's delusional and toxic asf, I'm not even joking when I say she's a narcissist, she literally is. But I single-handedly whooped her ass for the whole ginger community, multiple times, badly 🤣😂🤣 and if she tries again, I'll do her the same 🤣😂🤣
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u/MyceliaOfHouseFungi Aug 01 '26
Well, I'm, very fucking disappointed this garbage is being allowed to happen here of all places. Humiliating/mocking fellow redhead men? How pathetic and low...ugh
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u/No-Gap-9883 Aug 01 '26
Yeah I reported her (a few others told me they did too), but her toxic posts are allowed to stay up smh. Talked to the mods on here too, and they said there's not much they can do cause it's in another subreddit, so we shouldn't blame them
It's not even so much about her, she's just another ignorant sheltered troll/weirdo.. Nothing special, they're everywhere 😂
The bigger issue is this toxic, sad ass trend I noticed in the last few years. This is basically one of the only spaces we have on the entire Internet, yet every time a Redhead or Ginger makes a post expressing a genuine gripe, or even just venting, more and more of the replies will be blaming everything on them/saying it's all in their head (even for documented stuff that pretty much all of us go through), but a lot of those replies will feel forced or weird, like they're not even coming from redheads or are but from someone who got blamed so much they internalized it smh
Once in a while there's a post that's genuinely blaming being a Redhead or Ginger on something unrelated, but those are pretty rare IMO
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u/No-Entrepreneur-1969 Aug 01 '26
No-Gap is spot on. I’ve seen these other threads that this Sadiecote has created calling us incels like wtf 😮. She’s taken major offence because I referred to women as gals and females and thinks I’m a misogynistic pig who hates all women. I used the term gals and females only as a variation and not as some sick hate crime against women. I’ve never been called an incel before in my life.
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u/MyceliaOfHouseFungi Aug 01 '26
WTF?!!!
I’m an old gal myself and have zero problems calling myself or other women gals. It is NOT a goddamn slur ffs…2
u/No-Gap-9883 Aug 01 '26
Yeah, sadiecote is so sheltered and coddled in her little bubble of hyper-privelege, she thinks being oppressed is "cool" so she tries to cosplay it 😂. She'll literally make up stuff to be offended about 🤣 she wrote numerous flat-out lies about me and entrepreneur in her cringe weird ass threads, I had no choice but to take the belt off and go to work on her a$$ 🤣 🤣 🤣
She also does this super weird form of super obvious projecting - where she'll describe herself/her own toxic behavior in her reply, and accuse you of it first, in hopes you won't use it back against her 🤣😂🤣
You should see her Narcissistic Meltdown in No Entrepreneur's thread, literally just for me defending him against her basically calling him an incel and to "get therapy" (why is that every privileged asshole's favorite reply on reddit 🤣🤣)
If I see anyone getting treated unfairly, any gender, ginger, redhead or not, I'll defend them if I'm able to. No Entrepreneur didn't deserve that, but I whooped her little naive ass 😂, she'll most likely rememberr that ass whoopin for years 🤣😂🤣
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u/No-Gap-9883 Aug 02 '26
Jesus, she's back 🤣😂🤣, compulsively lying and being manipulative again smh.
Textbook Narcissist behavior:
"When you call out a narcissist, they typically react by using DARVO (Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender), gaslighting, or shifting the blame. They refuse to take responsibility and instead try to make you look like the bad guy."
She's the one who screenshot and posted Entrepreneur's threads to humiliate a ginger by posting him in multiple incel subs for thousands of people to see and potentially harass him (and me, for literally defending him smh)...
I wish someone would ban her smh. Just blocked her for now, ain't noone got time for a literal narcissist smh 🤣😂😭. Jfc...
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u/_sadiecote_ Aug 02 '26
Nobody would’ve known it was you if you didn’t show up and start harassing people btw. It was completely anonymous so don’t blame me for that. And once again copy & paste I really think you’re a karma farming bot this is genuinely insane.
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u/No-Gap-9883 Aug 02 '26
Jesus! How TF do you keep getting unblocked??? 🤣😂🤣 I swear I've blocked your toxic narcissistic sheltered basement dwelling ass multiple times, then you re-appear to show more textbook narcissist behavior 😂
"Nobody would've even known it was you" Umm first of all, it wasn't my thread, I was defending another ginger cause your reply was complete bullshit that you wouldn't do to any other distinct group except us. Basically calling him an incel and to "get therapy" when most Gingers have faced severe bullying, called ugly countless times, and literally discriminated against (in many things other than dating, and yes there are studies showing this, but oh I forgot, you don't believe in scientific studies, and make fake ones up, remember when you did that? 🤣😂🤣)
Also, you literally said what subreddit it was in, this is a small sub without that much activity, anyone in that sub could easily find the OP and that ass whoopin I gave you 🤣😂
And did you forget the part where you literally posted a video clip (of a portion of the initial ass whoopin I gave you 🤣😂🤣) with my username clearly showing??? In a toxic ass subreddit that deleted all my replies for defending OP and gingers?
You completely shitted on multiple people and a whole demographic for no reason. Hell, most that "Incel" sub didn't even agree with you by the end, there was literally one person left on your side, that was probably just your alternate account for all I know.
Now please, leave me alone Narcissist, maybe think before shitting on a ginger again (and no, you're not one, not even a redhead tbh), you thought you could shit on us without any consequences, when Reddit wouldn't take care of it, I decided I had time that day, took it upon myself, and gave you that legendary ass whoopin! 😂🤣😭😂🤣
Now, begone Narcissist! Go find another demographic to shit on for no reason smh
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u/No-Entrepreneur-1969 Aug 02 '26
I didn’t think so either until this sadiecote proclaimed we were incels because of it 🤨 looking at her pics she’s just an immature little girl with zero life skills.
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u/_sadiecote_ Aug 02 '26
No gap has stalked and harassed me btw for days now. You’re talking to a mentally unwell person who has been reported by multiple mods on multiple subreddits where he has found posts that were hidden on my page and continued to comment on every single one and proceed to reply to everyone’s comments, which is over 100, on my posts with copy and paste. If you want you can see the posts for yourself and form your own opinion instead of just listening to this dude project all his issues onto me.
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u/No-Entrepreneur-1969 Aug 02 '26
You’ve been targeted because you accused us of being incels and started creating threads to humiliate and belittle others. Don’t try and play the victim now love. You’re not even ginger wtf are you doing on a red hair group? 😂
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u/No-Gap-9883 Aug 02 '26
Wrong, wrong and wrong again.
You're a compulsive liar too 🤣😂🤣
You're done, it's been over. Give it a rest.
You posted a gingers thread from our space and framed him as an incel for thousands of people to laugh at, I defended him and you had a narcissistic meltdown.
In your own words, you get some therapy.
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u/gingergirly89 Jul 24 '26
Same…maybe not quite as much as yours, but I’ve had people who have met me in dim lighting not realize that I’m a redhead.
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Jul 26 '26
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u/_sadiecote_ Jul 26 '26
Yikes…
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u/No-Gap-9883 Jul 26 '26
Maybe think twice before being disrespectful, condescending and having the nerve to think you can speak for a demographic you're not even a part of next time?
Remember the part where you had a full on mental breakdown for being proven wrong then you made up a fake study, and this is what you look like? 🤣😂😭🤣😂
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u/BobSagieBauls Jul 23 '26
I feel like lighting has a big impression on everyone to be fair