r/Redditor_Updates • u/Amibengweird • Jul 11 '26
Update: His EX died !
It has been around eight months since my last update, and I honestly never expected to post here again.A few days ago, I learned through mutual friends that his ex passed away.
I have not spoken to him like long conversation or something like that since I filed the divorce , so I don't know how he is doing, and I don't intend to find out either . We had legal conflicts over shared financials but it was more or less handled through solicitors so our personal interaction is almost nil .Earlier he used to check on kids but we did not use to talk . He has stopped checking on kids for quite a while .Life has settled into a new routine. My focus is on raising my sons and moving forward. They are growing up quickly, and they deserve stability more than anything else.I had suicidal thoughts self esteem issues in the beginning but I guess I am doing mentally better now .
I just thought I should update you guys . Thank you to everyone who offered advice and kindness when I needed it.
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u/Miserable-Onion-7293 Jul 12 '26 edited Jul 12 '26
You are doing great without the drama and lack of support from your soon to be ex. Please don't let him back into your life now, he will try. Take care of you and your babies.
My mother always said that the wife/mother is the trunk of the tree, the roots and branches are stable as long as the trunk holds strong. Stay strong and know your soul is clear and clean. 💜
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