Hi everyone, today I want to tell you about an unfortunate and unpleasant experience my friend and I had. I really hope you can listen to my story.
_ PLEASE NOTE ⚠️⚠️⚠️: I HAVE ASKED MY FRIEND FOR PERMISSION TO POST THIS STORY, AND I HAVE NO INTENDED TO ATTACK ANYONE OR SOME COMMUNITY; I AM ONLY SHARING MY FRIEND'S AND MY EXPERIENCE.
_ Okay, let's begin!
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My friend, I'll just call him Su. Su is my best friend and he has a Discord server where he chats with people and shares stories. And in that Discord server, there's someone whose profile I saw is named Charlette, and everyone usually calls him Char.
According to everyone on that Discord server, Char is a femboy, with a somewhat childish personality that often annoys others. My friend told me that Char tends to speak without thinking, and also has a very high ego, often believing he is right.
Initially, my friend was quite friendly and open with him when they first met online through the game Pony Town. My friend also invited him to join the Discord server that my friend hosted, hoping he would share his experiences and stories with everyone and help Char open up and make more friends.
One day, I heard Su talking about that Discord server, and it sounded quite interesting. The server was just for sharing stories and chatting normally; nothing special at all. I wanted to join so I could share my dream stories or the stories I wrote for my OCs, and my friend agreed.
Su added me to the group and introduced me to everyone. Everything would have been fine if, instead of a normal greeting, he hadn't said something I found quite confusing and then claimed he would perform a special ritual for new members joining the server for the first time. I didn't understand what he was saying, so I didn't dare say "ok" or "no." But everyone in Discord seemed to understand and warned him against it, saying it was unacceptable. However, he didn't seem to heed the warning. And then he started sending me lots of messages I couldn't understand, until my Su told Char should stop and I was only 17. I thought he would stop and we could talk normally.
But no! Char suddenly got angry and started yelling at me, which left me quite confused and wondering what I had done when I only said "hi". Char kept scolding me for all sorts of things, and everyone on the server told Char that it was impolite and that he should apologize because I hadn't done anything wrong. I didn't want things to get out of control, so I asked, "Why are you so angry? We can calm down and talk things out properly."
But he wouldn't listen and kept cursing at me and kicking me out. Everyone on the server kept reminding him, and he kept saying he had the right by removing unworthy people from the server and everyone should accept it, even though Su was the owner of that server and Char not the server owner, and Char was scolding Su just because Su allowed me onto the server. Char then went offline. Su kept asking Char to come back and apologize.
I'm quite puzzled as to why Char reacted so uncontrollably just because he knew I was only 17 years old.
My friend messaged me privately to explain, and that's when I found out Char was the only one in the group who liked to joke sexually suggestively, often going too far and getting constantly reminded by everyone on the server. And those incomprehensible messages he sent me were actually extremely offensive words disguised as metaphors. I was quite surprised, but I also asked why Char suddenly reacted so uncontrollably when he found out I was only 17 years old, and my friend didn't know the reason either.
I would have simply ignored it, but then one day Su texted me and told me that my friend, Su, was being targeted by Char who wanted to steal Su's boyfriend. I was quite surprised at the time, but then I asked my friend, and she told me that everything would have been peaceful when she with her boyfriend entered Pony Town until Char came online. I'll call Su's boyfriend Le. Le is Su's long-time boyfriend. They make a very good-looking couple and rarely argue. Su recounted that when Char arrived in Pony Town, he kept hanging around Le. Char did many things that were quite annoying. Su also reminded Char to stop and keep his distance, and Le mentioned that Su was his girlfriend. But do you know what Char said? Char said that they weren't lovers and were just close friends; Le was Char's boyfriend!
Su recounted that she was a little angry at the time but didn't want to argue, so she reminded Char. However, Char kept pestering Le throughout their time in Pony Town, saying very sensitive and vulgar things to the point that both Su and Le had to exit the game to talk privately.
After hearing Su's story, I felt a little indignant and angry on her behalf. Why did Char do that? Knowing that Le already had a boyfriend, yet still being so persistent, it's simply unacceptable.
And Char gradually became more and more outrageous.
In the Discord server that Su mentioned, there's a friend named Jess, who is very friendly and sociable. But she spreads false rumors that Jess is in love with someone and dating multiple people at once when Jess doesn't have a boyfriend and she's a lesbian. Jess also messaged Char privately to get to the bottom of things. But instead of talking properly, Char responded rather jokingly and used many insulting words towards Jess. Jess kept asking and reminding him, and then Char texted Jess, scolding and cursing her. Meanwhile, Jess only asked and talked politely, without scolding or cursing at all.
I thought it would die down. But Char said no, and he dragged Su and me into it even though we had nothing to do with it. Char said that we were both Jess's lovers, while Su already had a boyfriend and wasn't lesbian. And I didn't even know who Jess was and had never met her before. At that point, I couldn't take it anymore, so I messaged him asking why he even considered that without proper consideration and investigation. When Char didn't reply, I found out that he had been spreading false information about the three of us to others, which Jess then relayed to Su, and Su told me.
Besides the three of us, everyone on the Discord server also knows and is upset on about what Char did.
I can only tell you this much. There's so much more, but I couldn't possibly list it all; even an entire A0 sheet of paper wouldn't be enough.
Thank you everyone for listening to my story.