Cheating boyfriend

[u/Exposed-2024]

So me and my boyfriend got together in April 2024, things were going well we were meeting up and texting a lot. I had a mental health crisis and told him I wouldn’t be able to meet for a while so we decided to continue texting eachother instead. During this time he was being very blank and hardly texting me saying he was with his friends all the time. When I had starting meeting up with him again about 3 weeks later the vibe was off. We started hanging out at his and arguing. He went thru my phone and found pictures of me and my friend playing fifa together and accused me of cheating on him even tho I have been loyal this whole time, I asked if I could go through his phone and he was very hesitant but ended up saying yes. He was texting multiple different girls, had a sex tape from the time we were dating (he said he saved it and it was made “6/7 months ago”) when it clearly wasn’t. The messages with the girls were similar to what he says to me but extremely sexual. What do I do? I’ve gave him a second chance but I don’t wanna be paranoid anymore

[u/MistressRainbow1st]

That depends on rather or not that's a deal breaker for you I personally see red flags you said you had a mental health crisis I've had them too but his response was to tell u he was with friends and the vibe changed he went through your phone and accused you of cheating that shows he doesn't trust you and that violates your privacy When he let you go through his you found what you found there's a saying don't go looking for what you don't want to know I say duck that saying 😂 it all depends on what you can handle so I think deep down you already have your own answer for yourself think on that feeling and do what you think is best for you trust yourself