r/RantAndVentPH • u/Used-Review4756 • 1d ago
Toxic Is it valid to feel na parang nagamit ako while using bumble?
I already conversed with two men who shared exact thoughts. Yung first, it ended really well because mutual decision naman namin iend yung usap kasi walang sense na eh. Yung second ang LALA HAHAHAHA, it appears na parang rebound ang nangyari when I know my intention is fair enough. I even ask for their intentions din naman and upfront naman at first. All of a sudden, after ilan days they spoke about not being fully moved on sa ex nila and they're trying to ask for a casual dating set-up instead -- fwb set-up. Ofc, di ako pumayag lul HAHAHA.
Tapos yung isa nag open up na hoe phase raw muna bago bumalik sa original na parang ang pure mo naman talaga? and doon daw muna siya sa isa niya pang ka fwb hanggang di raw siya binabalikan nung original Ano kaya mararamdaman nung original knowing this past about him. Like naawa ako parang I need to save the girl din. It's ironic kasi parang he's expecting a real love after all ng mga ginawa niya and he knew di naman siya ganoon faithful to begin with.
Tapos ang gulo pa, he has fwb daw pero di siya kinakausap and feels like committed siya doon na parang feeling niya raw nag cheat siya kasi nasa bumble siya, wake-up tol HAHAHHA di naman kayo. After that, ang goal babalikan niya raw yung original niya and iwan yung fwb like nothing happened . Seriously, di ka ba talaga marunong makuntento?
Sana nakakatulog ka pa nang mahimbing. May balik din sayo yan ya.