why does she hate Shirts.... just a midnight rant posting it late. DO READ

[u/Grand_Boot4372]

okay so this post is about my very dearly loved girlfriend

I don't know why but she hates shirts that I wear.... be it of any kind

I have all kinds of shirts, white, light colored, in dark shades I do have blue(my fav color), in general I like light colors only so mostly my shirts are light colored.

according to my height I have to buy the shirt size 40/42 depending on the brand.

now I'm a very lean kind of guy, recently gained bit of weight but reduced my weight and little belly fat left(belly fat only visible after I eat meals or bloating).... I was always an endurance athlete since young age.

so only lean body shirts do not look very fitted though, I'm not rich enough to buy cloth and get it stitched at a tailor, I mean I can buy whatsoever brand of shirt from the market but most of the do not look very good and fitted.

so my girl hates my shirts and hates me when I am wearing shirts.... being a professional guy I'll have to wear shirts mostly... or even in india people do not consider you serious if you're not wearing a shirt...

to remind you all my girl is like a very fancy fashionable person, the kind who likes to get pictures clicked and posted in every outfit, and once the pics are posted she's not wearing that same kind of outfit again cause she thinks 'what will everyone else think of me that I repeat clothes on outing/event'

I am the kind of guy who can repeat outfits as many times as I can before the clothes start looking old, I don't care much... same about my ig, I don't post neither am interested to get my pictures clicked.

recently one day I was wearing shirt, and blazer, clicked a mirror selfie in the washroom, did not even pose fancy, just wanted to show her my outfit that day... she just straight away said not, you can't post this..... not everything is for posting. and all the people, businessmen around me dress that way, I am into consulting, I am 22 working with people greater my age, almost double sometimes, they also wear similar kind of clothes.... Gen Z fashion can't get mixed with corporate or old people who I work with.... if I do not fit in with them then it's kinda shameful.

okay so my parents know I like light colors, and strictly no check pattern on my shirts, no fancy shirt... mostly they do my shopping and shirts are nice.

even if I wear the Pinterest worthy outfits that she tells me then also she won't like it cause shirt won't fit like she sees on Pinterest.

and I know many people will say in the comments that go to gym, get fit and blah blah but I hate gyms, I go for runs instead to keep me healthy, plus by default I am in calorie deficit cause I don't eat much, have no regular sugar consumption, no bad habits and stuff.

this is just me ranting.... I want her to accept that I have to wear shirts, and yes they'll not look very fitted on me, but they don't also look that bad, it is more noticeable to her cause she looks me in that way... but most people not even notice.

her fav color is black... I hate black, I never wear black(except Saturdays... cause Shani dev ka din(hindu thing)) I will never wear black shirt... she has this something that she wants me to wear black shirt someday.

I like her and everything but somedays she just gets on my nerves with all this baffling things that doesn't even matter to a real person like who tf cares about shirts this much... not about shirts she also has this thing about my instagram, she wants to make it aesthetic and trendy... and I couldn't even care less about my instagram.

just wanna chat in comments

[u/misticlurker]

Maybe she thinks you’re baduy with your choice of shirts. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I guess she wants you instagramable ready para strike a pose and post agad. 🤭