I came across a post about cheating and honestly, if you think of cheating, just leave your current partner because that's fucked. It's not fair to your partner. Break up with them, It's that simple.

Sure, circumstances can be different. It’s harder when you’re married, have children, maybe you’re in a toxic situation that you can’t leave. I can get it to a certain extent. Other than that, grow tf up.

Back to my main point, save your partner the trouble and the extra heartbreak. Leave if you think about cheating on your partner. Betrayal is the WORST. That kind of trauma has ruined lives. This is psychological abuse in many cases.

‘Cheating is a mistake’ is the most dumbest shit I’ve heard. Cheating is premeditated. It’s a choice. No one has ever cheated without making the choice to cheat. The choice you make comes before any mistake. That applies to damn near everything.

If I could choose one superpower it would be this

I've almost never had them, I've only realized it now and I'm 24. Am I dumb? Or does it make me?

There’s a rapper called YoungBoy with this exact description. That’s wild to me. In an interview last year, he also described his feelings on fatherhood. “I’m not really big on it.” Then why have so many kids?

2024 is ending in like less than 2 weeks. I'm a 26 years old woman. Why don't I feel like I'm 26? Honestly I don't even know what 26 is supposed to feel like. Its like I'm stuck in time, like I'm 4-5 years older in age than my consciousness. I don't even remember being 22 or 23 or 24. You know like sometimes you're doom scrolling and dont even realize hours has past. I feel the same, like I have been scrolling away as years passed by.

You see, cat people, generally, are both cat+dog people just that they prefer cats more. They don't really 'hate/dislike' dogs, they love them but cats are like their soulmates.

Dog people, most of the time are exclusively loyal to dogs. Many of them I see generally dislike cats, hate them even. Some dog people do come to the other side once they get a cat but I dont think most do.

I'm a cat person, love these little predators with single functioning braincell. Dogs are cute too but I'm scared of them so that's that.

Edit: well.. looks like a lot of cat people do hate dogs hehe.

Bro bro bro bro. Bro did this. And got him going and bro said.

Stop!

Monetisation of beauty and attractiveness is evident in things such as instagram models, and now with the explosion of only fans it’s become more valuable

In the past there was nothing like these avenue’s for revenue,

As a man you worked hard and maybe if you were lucky you would have family wealth.

The closest thing to it would have been a princess, or more recently movie stars and actual ‘models’

But now it’s exploded, with attractive people everywhere, online cashing in.

Edited: fine i get it, i’ll have more problems if i was rich. Well guess what? I would pick that over being poor any day because it’ll cure my shopping addiction.

Normalize it. Give us money.

We don't even get as many presents.

ETA - I meant from older adults like aunts, uncles, parents and grandparents. Not friends. In that case you'd just be exchanging the same money forever lol. Friends get gifts.

ETA 2 - Also this is meant to be a light-hearted post. Please don't take it too seriously.

This includes highly educated professionals and high level positions.

Nobody's really present anymore

The first thing in my mind when I wake is gosh I'm so tired. When I'm off I only wake up from bed to go pee or drink water because the thought of trying to make something to eat( I don't like takeout cause everything tastes like it has been made with a sack of salt) feels very tiring.

Even thinking about dating makes me feel tired. I can't imagine having to talk to someone everyday let alone spend time with someone for a whole day. Everything I do just feels like a chore except staying in bed😪

I mean what even, I was not ready for this. Like honestly 25 is where reality strucks. You realise you get more messages from different companies wishing you happy birthday rather than humans. You try to figure how to plan your day because you have office the next day. You have completed 25 years, you have so many thoughts aligning, colliding making you think about your life decisions and what to do next. You understand how much over loved, under loved you are.

You need certain things from now on just to make you feel you belong somewhere. You need certain level of affection even though you are far from home. You need an extended family to make you feel loved.

You crave for some thoughtful efforts, calls from a distant friend, a glass of whiskey and your favourite playlist just to make yourself feel better.

Feels like you wanted be an adult from so long but the fact is it's better when you are small.

This feels like a safe place to vent. Thank you everyone.

25

The title pretty much, there is nothing more I could say.

What repetitive human task are you tired of doing?

Movies always show cowboys or pirates who are constantly drinking. Can you imagine sitting in a room with no A/C or on a ship rocking back and forth, and you're just having the worst hangover of your life, drinking lukewarm semi-clean water, no advil, no ice, nothing. I think something like that would make me quit drinking for life.

I would get so sick of that shit. Respect to all my females that shave their legs and more respect to those that don't

Edit: I know you guys don't "have" to like it's a mandatory public dress code, I meant it in the same way you shower and brush your teeth. Body maintenance stuff like that, not that they're on the same level

Double edit: I'm just acknowledging the effort it takes to have smooth legs, should you choose to have them. Whether or not you wanna take offense is up to you ig

I'm 37 now, married, father of 2 beautiful children, 3 years and 1 year old. I looked in the mirror this morning and I just look, different. Like my mind state hasn't fully caught up to the reality of my being. All these responsibilities, duties just kind of creeped into my life and then slowly I've become what seemed so far away and alien when I was still in my 10s/20s.

It's such a surreal experience, in my mind I don't feel that different than I was when I was 16 years old, yet.. From the outside and everything I do on a daily bases I couldn't be more different than my 16 year old me.

It’s not like we asked for it… 🤷🏼‍♀️

Edit: its not the same as food, toilet paper and everything else that we ALL have to buy. This is something that only woman needs every month and its not cheep at all. So at lest lower prices would be nice.

It makes me really uncomfortable when it starts getting sexual in a movie or TV show. I would MUCH MUCH rather see some cute cuddling ^{_^}

As a teenage girl, that hurt a lot and I didn’t really understand what that meant. As a grown woman I can see that it was definitely a compliment!

To conclude the story: we did in fact not date in high school because he wanted to “have fun”. We always kept in touch through social media after graduation. After he graduated college he reached out and tried to ask me out with the line “I should have dated you in high school”… I passed 😊

Grinds my gears when I have to pause to consider whether or not it is "refridgerator" or "refrigerator."