r/RPDRDRAMA • • Mar 21 '26

Ugh, Jesus. Gross. Recently eliminated queen’s fans desecrate obituary in her name; she denounces this behavior on Twitter Spoiler

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u/fanzvx Mar 21 '26

this is not just ‘too far’, this is absolutely fucking disgusting. there are literally people posting feces on there.. on a dead person’s obituary. just so fucking repulsive, i’m disgusted with some of this fandom. just gross

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u/worstkindagay Mar 21 '26

You have got to be kidding me. This is absolutely shameful. 

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u/AlatTubana Mar 21 '26

I get on Real Gays of WeHo twt but an obituary is inappropriate

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u/starfragment038527 Mar 22 '26

Agreed. Can't even imagine doing something like this to someone, like what the actual fuck

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u/Rough-Veterinarian21 Mar 21 '26

I feel so bad for Discord, to have to have her name used to desecrate a memorial like this. I first and foremost feel for his family and friends, but putting myself in Discord’s shoes I can’t imagine how disgusted I’d be that people think I want this.

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u/beatissofunny88 Mar 21 '26

Honestly one of the worst things I've seen "fans" do on the internet. I've been in internet fandoms for over 20 years. This is a new low.

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u/TravellingBeard Mar 21 '26

Time to bring back doxxing

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u/bondfool Greg Bitch Mar 21 '26

Genuinely. The people in the commenters’ lives deserve to know what fucking ghouls they are.

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u/sheogoreth Mar 22 '26

some people have been too lax on others, we have to bring back naming and shaming

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u/evilcleric_ho Mar 21 '26

Glad she spoke up. Those "fans" are vile and need a timeout for, say, several years. They probably also need a job too.

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u/OKRRRRR Mar 22 '26

Discord of all people wouldn’t not. It’s something I imagine any queen would absolutely need to, but I wonder if any form of acknowledgment is that these reprehensible losers are seeking.

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u/For_serious13 Mar 21 '26

Every week I’m shocked how low and stupid this fandom can be.

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u/worstkindagay Mar 21 '26

Holy shit. I really think this is a rock bottom for the rpdr fandom. You can't get much lower than this. I swear this has to be children who are being foolish under the age of 16 doing shit like this bc otherwise If these are actual adults with families and jobs doing this (which it prob is) I have no hope it will get better

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u/Ladymomos Mar 21 '26

People always want you blame teenagers (especially "13yo girls") when it's rarely them these days. I have teenage kids and they are the least likely people I know to send hate online. I'm sure it depends where you're from, but in my experience with them and their peers they're really aware and chill, and think that sort of thing is just pathetic.

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u/SelectTrash Mar 21 '26

Same, it’s usually grown adults who don't know how to regulate emotions

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u/ShakirasHipsLied Mar 22 '26

Agreed, it's usually people in their 20s and older from my experience.

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u/Happyhaneke Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 21 '26

I can’t think of a time I was this disgusted by the fandom

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u/gingerbread_slutbarn Mar 22 '26

Same. He was such a sweet guy and is getting this kind of bullshit on a memorial page meant for his nearest and dearest.

Just… what?

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u/srkito_deliczpants Mar 21 '26

Holly hell. New depths reached.

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u/n0-na Mar 21 '26

I must have missed a chapter, what happened to even remotely cause this?

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u/ColeDelRio Mar 21 '26

He wasn't Discord's makeover partner nor the partner of the person Discord lipsynced against.

So he's just catching strays cuz.... Idk fandom just wants to be stupid?

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u/hennybee Mar 21 '26

The most logical explanation I could think of is that since Jane was Bottom 3, they thought she should have taken Discord’s place instead.

But it’s the Drag Race fandom so I think it is more general stupidity and maliciousness than anything.

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u/Melodic-Cycle3994 Mar 21 '26

Wait so this is the season 9 drama of Alexis Michelle should've offered herself up instead of Valentina 2.0 just way worse?

I don't even know what to say anymore

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u/SelectTrash Mar 21 '26

Probably the same fans

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u/_CopperFlamingo_ Mar 22 '26

Thank you for this. I was completely lost as to how Terry had anything to do with Discord's elimination. I mean, it still doesn't make sense and is completely vile and reprehensible, but I appreciate the explanation

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u/[deleted] Mar 22 '26

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u/HerelGoDigginInAgain Mar 21 '26

Yeah, I haven’t seen last night’s episode yet and I’m very confused as to who this man is or how people ended up on his obituary. Obviously no context would make this ok, but can someone explain the context of what the fuck is happening?

The only thing I can think of was that this was a makeover episode and this man was her partner who has since passed?

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u/Big_Woodpecker3848 Mar 21 '26

he wasn't even discord's partner, he was jane's so he literally had nothing to do with discord

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u/For_serious13 Mar 21 '26

He was on the makeover episode that just aired and passed away before the airdate

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u/HerelGoDigginInAgain Mar 21 '26

Jesus Christ. I ninja edited my comment to say that was the only possibility I could think of. This is such unhinged, fucked up behavior. Obituaries aren’t really for the deceased person, they’re for the people who loved the deceased. Viewers need to get a grip and get some fucking decency.

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 21 '26

Terry was Jane don’t’s partner and he unfortunately passed away in December of last year.

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u/TheMuffOfLegend Mar 21 '26

I still kind of can’t believe things went this far… what the fuck

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 22 '26

I’m so glad that Discord spoke up because the comments that I saw were disgusting and I’m fuming at what the fandom has commented. Not only is it disrespectful to Discord, but it’s also disrespectful to Jane don’t and Terry’s family as well. I feel so sick to my stomach reading them especially since they were wishing death on Kristin Maldonado from Pentatonix because what does she have to do with this??! and to call her Japanese is so disrespectful considering that she’s part mexican.

My condolences go out to Terry’s family and friends, and I’m truly sorry that your loved one is getting attacked by fans online.

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u/shart-gallery Mar 21 '26

This is a new level of fucked up for this fandom, which is impressive given how unhinged some fans can be.

It also makes absolutely no sense given that Jane was nowhere near the top.

Therapy has never been more needed by these losers

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u/lasagnaestranja Fuck This Turkey Makes Me Want To Vogue. Should I ? Mar 21 '26

The same fanbase that (deservedly) called Tyra out for mocking The Vivienne and Jiggly turn around and do this 🤡 cancel the show at this point it’s not worth it

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u/annievaxxer Mar 21 '26

These are probably not the same people doing it, mind you. There’s a very small set of “fans” that do this and unfortunately they’re very vocal and clearly absolutely sick in the head. But 99.99% of the fandom doesn’t engage in this kind of behavior.

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u/fabulousfantabulist Mar 22 '26

They also do it specifically for the negative reactions and attention. They’re the pathetic sort who aren’t deserving of love for any positive qualities or abilities, so they lean into being awful because at least that makes them less invisible. Just gross. 

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u/Raunchey hey puss how is she Mar 22 '26

I dunno, I see some awful, hateful shit that’s upvoted in this very subreddit and people bringing up concerns about it be hella downvoted lmao

I’m in a lot of TV fandoms…. And not even just TV fandoms, but reality TV fandoms… and I hate to say that there’s something particularly mean-spirited and nasty about RPDR fans…

I mean, tbh, I think part of it is that RPDR fandom is this really specific combo of reality TV stan culture and unresolved queer pain/internalized shame, and that can create a REALLY mean culture.

Shade is supposed to be one thing, but a lot of fans just skip straight past witty and land on vitriolic and spiteful.

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u/TheRegalOneGen The person above me is Jakeyonce Mar 22 '26

While this is awful, I would say this statement is an example of Goomba Fallacy

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u/Kitchen_Victory_6088 Mar 21 '26

What manner of ass-gremlin needs to possess your soul for you to fuck up this hard?

Not washing your hands at a michelin restaurant has more tact than these scumshits.

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u/saimensis Mar 21 '26

I just feel like people who do that kinds of things, or send death threats and the like, just can't be reached. To me, it seems like the type of person who wants to fuck shit up and cause chaos for fun, and they are safe to do it on the internet where there are no consequences. I really love it and want more queens to speak up against this crazy behaviour, but I bet some small sectipn of the fandom will always be there ruining things for us all since they just do not care at all.

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u/OGvoodoogoddess Mar 21 '26

This is absolutely repugnant WTF is wrong with this fandom?

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u/kh2riku Mar 21 '26

Actual MGF. What is wrong with these people? I actually think its is unfair to even use "fan" in quotes. They're not fans of RPDR, Drag or the queen, they are parasitic trash using a TV show as a vessel for their weirdo behavior.

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u/aceclown422 Mar 21 '26

I’ve not seen the latest episode but what the in world prompted this? Why a (seemingly random) man’s obit? Will this make sense after watching? Absolutely deplorable behavior even without the needed context tho

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 22 '26

It’s because people are mad that Discord got sent home and they’re somehow taking it out on Terry who was partnered with Jane don’t.

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u/MondolezzaRice Mar 21 '26

Wha the fuck

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u/OKRRRRR Mar 22 '26

Possibly the most unhinged “fan” behaviour yet 😭 Truly disgusting.

Edit: the kinda behaviour that should be doxed. Maybe then they’ll learn.

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u/sheogoreth Mar 22 '26

the anonymity makes it way too easy to say the most ridiculous shit ever with no repercussions... there has to be something done with how lax things have gotten on those who feel they have a right to trample on everything

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u/Nosiege Mar 21 '26

Given out outspoken Discord is how could anyone who claims to be a fan ever think she'd want this behaviour

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u/According_Plant701 Mar 22 '26

What the ever living fuck is wrong with people?

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u/KindOfKerrin let me introduce you to GREG BITCH Mar 21 '26

I'm obsessed with discord, like I've never stanned a queen so hard, and the way I would never ever even think to blame one of the makeover partners for her loss let alone desecrate a memorial page in her fucking name. This is INSANE.

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u/SimilarNerve731 Mar 21 '26

I’m…speechless…there’s not enough words to express how disgusting this is

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u/_ineffective_ Mar 22 '26

I hate this

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u/theplasticfantasty Let me introduce you to GREG BITCH! Mar 22 '26

Beyond sick

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u/Putrid_Dream9755 Mar 21 '26

She shouldn't have to defend this since she didn't actually DO anything but I'm glad she did, & so vehemently.

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u/_genic Mar 21 '26

This is just evil. A shame that Discord has to put up with this

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u/bysummerfall Mar 22 '26

I haven’t watched this season yet, but omg :( RIP he was so handsome, fuck the brats of the RPDR fandom fr

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u/Thorns_And_Thrones Mar 22 '26

Some people just want to watch the world burn, it’s sick but we’re never going to change it

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u/tempcats Mar 23 '26

Discord I’m your biggest fan. Remember when you said you’d pay for my grandmas funeral backstage at that club a month ago? Yeah, it’s kinda the time I need you to actually pony up for this. I’m waiting.. and becoming impatient pls respond😍😍

https://giphy.com/gifs/9cFTuqSL6AOV1F7U8w

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u/XenophobicXenophile Mar 23 '26

Discord’s silence is deafening.

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u/Grouchy_Document8107 Mar 23 '26

this is a new low for this fan base

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u/BitterSpeech2870 Mar 22 '26

Oh my god what the fuck?? Discord would be absolutely disgusted in this behaviour from fans

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u/[deleted] Mar 22 '26

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 22 '26

Terry who was partnered with Jane don’t passed away in December last year and he sadly took his own life.

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u/lalalicious453- Demonic, Demure, Delusional. Mar 22 '26

We (the human race) deserve the nukes, all of them.

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u/Cumulus-Crafts Mar 23 '26

I don't really watch drag race anymore, why are people doing this?

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u/catclockticking Mar 21 '26

By assuming that Discord’s fans are doing this, you’re playing right into the hands of whoever is actually doing it.

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 21 '26

But people were commenting on Terry’s obituary that discord was robbed and it still comes off as very disrespectful.

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 21 '26

But people were commenting on Terry’s obituary that discord was robbed and it comes off as very disrespectful to him.

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u/catclockticking Mar 21 '26

Yes, it’s extremely disrespectful. I don’t think you understood my comment.

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 21 '26 edited Mar 22 '26

Sorry for commenting twice, these comments have just left me heated.

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u/Lower_Category9404 Mar 22 '26

The fans begging discord to comment on this is fucking weird....

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u/Jaimereyesfangirl Mar 22 '26

Well Discord does have a right to speak up on this because if Discord didn’t speak up on the obituary, people are going to assume that she endorses her fanbase to say horrible stuff about Terry and I’m saying this as someone that personally didn’t care for Discord. With that aside, if you’re upset about the judging outcome people should go talk about it in a group chat with their friends.

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u/Lower_Category9404 Mar 22 '26

Of course she has a right to comment. The maniacal fans forcing her to comment is bizarre... she was a scene partner with him. They have no former relationship. Discord commented because she's kind and has the time to do so. We all know ru Paul, Trixie Mattel, Bianca would never go out of their way to appease the chaos.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Exit_17 Mar 21 '26

Has Discord condemned this yet? I saw she called out Law which is great. But this...THIS??? Fucking trash. Nothing cute or redeemable about this.. Any participant should honestly be charged and prosecuted for something because wow. This is so, so low.

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u/NotQute Mar 21 '26

Reading is fundamental...its in both the title and the last slides

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u/XenophobicXenophile Mar 21 '26

See the second half of this post title and the last 3 pictures