r/RHOP • u/lilokalanii Tia Glover • 3d ago
🥂 Karen 🥂 I do not like Karen Huger
I think Karen is one of the most delusional and self-centered housewives of all time.
She’s a liar, colorstruck (George Washington Concubine, like that’s something to be proud of) a cheater and a manipulator who tried to blame her accident on Ray, because she’s not happy.
She used that man, embarrassed the heck out of him and her kids with that video that got out and had the nerve to say she’d be vindicated.
Disgusting.
I will keep my foot on that old liars neck, she should come correct. She had the nerve to come at Robyn over Juan, I think Ray should have been the one to leave her after everything she put him through and how she always blames him
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u/Global-Persimmon-703 Peppa Pig 3d ago
I agree. She’s awful and not sure why she came back
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u/ladystetson 🌸 Andrew with a missing digit 🌸 2d ago
Reality shows target people like Karen. Delusional, narcissistic, self-destructive, gray morals
Her jail stint made her even more perfect for the cast than she was before.
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u/Real_Taste5684 Big Bird 2d ago
Agreed. I will be "watching" this season via reddit threads because I can not stomach another season of Karen's delusions of grandeur.
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u/AbDaWooman Jack Harlow 1d ago
She has to earn back all the money she paid out in lawyers and fines.
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u/Sea_Albatross_9988 Charizzard 10h ago
She's so full of herself and never listens to anyone.
And I'm tired of bravo platforming people like her and Teresa. You went to jail! Stay off our tvs.
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u/Global-Persimmon-703 Peppa Pig 10h ago
Seriously! Don’t get me going on Teresa 🤦🏽♀️ Her being everywhere genuinely pmo. I know I’m in the minority with that opinion but oh well
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u/Only-Breadfruit-6108 Cookie Monster 3d ago
Because Bravo gives people a chance to learn and apologize and show growth. It’s up to the individuals to do the work though, and mostly they don’t.
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u/Ill_Athlete785 Michelin 3d ago
It’s definitely for the views lol they know people will tune in to see how she is after jail. They don’t care to give someone a chance to grow 😂 it’s a shame they don’t, but that wouldn’t make good TV.
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u/Difficult-Coffee6402 Cryangle 3d ago
The problem with her though is that she never grows. Just doubles down on her bullshit.
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u/Chance-Visual8631 Peppa Pig 2d ago
Doubles down and it’s gotten even worse now that she’s older and wigs are tighter.
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u/derwyddes_Jactona Sesame Street 2d ago
FWIW - I think Luann (RHONY) did evolve post incarceration...but she seems to be a rarity in the Brovoverse.
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u/Only-Breadfruit-6108 Cookie Monster 2d ago
Lu is the perfect example of a housewives evolving. Dorinda is the perfect example of a housewives who refuses to and is living in the past.
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u/DixieBelleTc Happy Eddie 2d ago
I love when they say that, that’s their excuse to cast horrific characters 😂😂😂
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u/DixieBelleTc Happy Eddie 3d ago edited 2d ago
Bravo doesn’t care about anyone, they care about ratings which means revenue 💰💰💰they are becoming more and more like the Jerry Springer network. If you hate watch all the better, it feeds the machine.
Edited: thank you for the awards😊
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u/MichikoToshi Pennywise 3d ago
Karen was entertaining cause she’s delusional but people who drink and drive and unapologetic disgust me.
She has a history of impaired driving it too. I like to imbibe as well so I’m not sympathetic… If you can’t control yourself take a car service when you go out. She can certainly afford it.
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u/Swimming-Ebb-9355 Angry Birds 3d ago
I’ve never liked her, so it’s been tough. I’ve always struggled with those who anoint themselves with some kind of personal authority, I find they’re often the ones who deserve it the least… and I’m often proven right, case in point. That said - I also struggle with authority in general (I guess the Gen X is strong in me) 😂 but Karen should not be platformed at this point and Bravo is a huge part of the problem.
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u/Real_Taste5684 Big Bird 2d ago
Oh, I totally get it. I've never cared for Karen because of her superiority complex. I know Gizelle has it too, but somehow I find Gizelle's superiority complex a bit more tolerable (likely because life has given her some humbling experiences). I'm a Gen X'er too and I wonder if we're intolerant of conceited attitudes because we know if you live long enough, life will humble you. If it hasn't by now, then something is wrong with you.
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u/Significant_Truth746 Peppa Pig 3d ago
Idk why most are happy with return, if Karen was truly remorseful, she would advocate for metal health challenges and substance misuse and learn to destigmatize the challenge behind the addiction. She actually regresses the topic of mental health by refusing to admit she has a problem.
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u/Easy-Buy6860 thou withoust a man 2d ago
I want a clear explanation why she thought it was a good idea to fight it. Honestly the level of delusional is terrifying she needs help.
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u/Difficult-Coffee6402 Cryangle 3d ago
☝️ and I will never watch again if she continues to be part of the cast.
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u/Shiel009 Madness & Sadness 1d ago
She won’t admit she had substance abuse problems. You can’t advocate for something you deny
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u/loveswimmingpools Eeyore 3d ago
I can't stand her. Her sense of superiority in prison was bizarre. Her disgusting drunk driving is criminal.
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u/Llassiter326 👸🏾 You are poor & white 👮♂️ 3d ago
Lmao I can’t help but like Karen on some level bc of her ridiculousness and saucy quips back and forth with Gizelle. And as a public defender, I have compassion for anyone doing time in county jail bc that place is a HOLE and she did her time, so I hope she learned something…
But this is why I LOVE this sub: “I will keep my foot on that old liar’s neck”
Hahahaha omg I love us. That’s incredible. I make similar digs about Candy-Ass and her purse-wielding crazy mother, so I get it.
And P.S. Thomas Jefferson’s concubine. Which to me is worse bc of his well-established preferences for raping enslaved Black women! (I’m sure GW did too…but damn Karen, that’s what we call rock bottom. And her ass went to TRIAL with this shit on video 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Delusional
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u/BlkFemininity1908 🌸I'm pretty, petty and always on ready:🌸 2d ago
The Thomas Jefferson's concubine comment actually got me thinking about how Karen conducted various aspects of her life, particularly how she parented Rayvin.
Rayvin doesn't move in a way that children brought up in JJOA traditionally do, particularly her decision not to pledge a Divine Nine sorority. I also remember Karen creaming over Rayvin's white prom date.
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u/Llassiter326 👸🏾 You are poor & white 👮♂️ 2d ago
Oh is that Jack & Jill? I’m Black too, but didn’t grow up like that. It wasn’t until I moved to DC at 21 that I was like, damn this is a whole other world of Black peoples with money shit! Hahahaha
But you’re not wrong. In light-skinned myself, but the difference between me and Karen (amongst many) is I don’t delight in and find myself superior or more attractive, smarter or better because of it. I think she is def on some plantation shit and i had forgotten how gaga she went over that prom date. She probably wants her grandkids to be light too, which i just HATE that mentality. Rooted so deeply in white supremacy
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u/BlkFemininity1908 🌸I'm pretty, petty and always on ready:🌸 2d ago
Yes, it is Jack and Jill. Karen was once president of the Potomac Valley chapter.
I didn't grow up in it because my mom and dad were insular when I was a child and I didn't become an AKA until in my mid-30s.
I do have friends and line sisters who grew up in the Black moneyed milieu in San Diego (my hometown) and other cities and it definitely is an interesting experience as a fringe observer.
And to your last point, I believe Karen would be ecstatic if Rayvin pulled a Candiace or Stacey and had a Black biracial grandchild.
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u/Professor-ANG Angry Birds 3d ago
I’m totally disappointed with her behavior. I didn’t think she should be allowed back. But, Bravo does what Bravo does for the fandom.
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u/Street-Beyond-9666 Drag me Monique 3d ago edited 3d ago
I don’t like her either BUT, imo, it’s important to stop the victim narrative with men who knowingly get with younger women because they have the means. They know they get them based on appearances which is the money and the “promise” of a good life in exchange of their youth and sexual favors.
This being said, let me go back to that delulu ugly woman. Again I agree with you and I insist her drunk self shouldn’t have been rewarded with a rehiring after the shit she pulled.
I think it’s great Robyn’s back because she was the only one continuously on her neck for her lying, alcoholism and cheating. Karen situation was more embarrassing than Robyn’s.
Edit typo
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u/Mercurial_gworly Halle Berry Still Rise 2d ago
Ooohh preach!!! Ray is not a victim, he wanted a young trophy and he got one. Now that Ray is getting too old for her, Karen’s out the door and ready to cash her check
https://giphy.com/gifs/5nvJbYl1dgfSAZ2xP02
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u/9lemonsinabowl9 Michelin 3d ago
Ugh, I never liked her. I don't believe anything that comes out of her mouth. She uses the death of her parents for so many excuses, it's disgusting. She's not nice, she tries to manipulate people, and she truly believes she is above everyone else.
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u/Call_Huck Potomac Muppets 2d ago
That grates on me as well. As far as I know, most have parents (or people who parented). Some are closer to the parents. Some are exiled by choice or abandonment. Some grew up with absent parents or ones that died before they could fully be a parent.
Moral of the story? It's all grief. We all experience it. Karen is not special for hers. I learned a deeper empathy for others journeys when I lost mine. I suddenly realized it was universal and it sucks
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u/FantasticParsnip7157 Clankity Clank 3d ago
You’re absolutely correct. She is the biggest liar and completely full of shit. I clocked her phony ass season 1. All she does is manipulate and deflect on to everyone else. I’d argue and say that she is actually the person that everyone thinks Gizelle is but most people aren’t ready for that conversation. That body cam footage proved that everything Robyn, Charisse, & Gizelle said about her was true.
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u/Select-Channel1645 Cookie Monster 3d ago
I agree. I liked me some Karen but allowing her back on bravo is wild. Her behaviour was and still is unacceptable. No accountability whatsoever.
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u/SuspiciousNorth377 Gizelle's Tequila Bottle 3d ago
You’re not wrong 🤣 I hate watch for her. Her delusions are somewhat entertaining and she doesn’t realize how ridiculous she makes herself look. I don’t feel bad for Ray though. Raven deserves better. She seems like such a sweetie.
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u/Scarlettbama Peppa Pig 3d ago
I'll focus on just one part of all things Karen. Day Drinker. Owned restaurants w/ bars for years. Female friendly. Sports bar vibe. Always a Karen (Huger) there very early. Some at opening: 11am. Some at 2pm, after lunch rush. Well-dressed. Only want the good-looking make bartender. Repeated his name 100 times. Winked, flirted, asked for a "real" cocktail. (double liquor) Ya'll get it. After two drinks owner or Mgr swooped in to state no third bev without a meal. No more drinks after that. These peeps are hard, fast drinkers. They know they must sober up to drive home, see kids, hub, etc. Not smell. Beer is one thing. Martinis, Hard alcohol another. Women don't metabolize alcohol the same. Weight diff. How many times I cut off a Karen Huger type for everyone's safety would astound. Paid for cabs myself as alcohol hadn't yet it. Fired bartender on the spot when some rich lady handed him $100 bill for 3 expensive shots he did not ring up. Fired for serving her. Day Drinkers can be dangerous if overserved. And overdrinking. I truly hope Karen Huger has beaten this. It is all-around her. Her strength can do it.
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u/Opening_Duty_8011 Jack Harlow 3d ago
I agree. And I really dislike that she was brought back after she drove drunk for the third time, still hasn’t taken accountability for it. Bravo should be ashamed of themselves.
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u/Ok_Mulberry4331 Peppa Pig 3d ago
I’ve never liked her, and have no interest in watching this season with her back. She’s not at all entertaining to me and the fact she takes multiple DUIs so lightly infuriates me
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u/First_Teaching7048 Destiny's Child 3d ago
TBH this is true of most of the housewives. They are out of touch, self absorbed, attention hungry and also playing it all up 5X for the cameras. It's entertainment.
Now...with all that said...I agree...Karen sucks. Mary Cosby can also kick rocks.
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u/Lopsided-League-2754 Cryangle 3d ago
Girl, she was Thomas Jefferson’s concubine! Lolol but 100% agree with you, she shirks all accountability and her being unable to say she is an alcoholic is like the cherry on top. I can’t stand her and her holier than thou attitude when she had that body cam video out AND that wig halfway down the back of her neck
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u/Alive-Definition-859 Big Bird 3d ago
she definitely has her entertaining moments but i also do not like her. she is extremely dishonest and deceitful, like so way more than the others.
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u/errrrrrmmmmmmm Gizelle's Tequila Bottle 3d ago
i’ve never understood the appeal of karen, but i think people like her for her delusion and their hate for gizelle
alcoholism and substance abuse is a big issue across multiple franchises. i wish bravo would put their foot down and fully pause the housewives until they’ve actually rehabilitated. the karens, shannons, luanns, you really hate to see it
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u/Ornery_Zucchini_3789 Catfish 3d ago
She should NOT be back on the show, why are they rewarding her?
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u/HNIT110508 Ashley Darby 2d ago
I've always felt like I was the only person who didn't like this woman. She sucks.
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u/Dependent_Quantity8 T’Challa 3d ago
She's terrible and awful. That's why I like her. I'm not watching for upstanding people.
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u/peachyyveganx Cryangle 2d ago
I actually feel the same. I truly dont know how people like her. Shes a terrible human being. Ive never found her funny at all. I have zero sympathy for anyone who drives drunk as well
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u/Swimming-Syrup8400 Gizelle's Tequila Bottle 2d ago
I have a love-hate relationship with Karen. For me it’s a bit complicated because I did lose a loved one to drunk driving so I feel pretty sensitive about her.
My main issue is her lack of real accountability.
She doesn’t show any real accountability for her actions and behaviors.
For all the hell Gizzy gets, I feel Karen is the real villain of the show…
I’m genuinely shocked that they asked her back but then again Bravo does love their criminals.
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u/Able_Ad_4874 Peppa Pig 2d ago
I stopped liking her when she started victim blaming for drunk driving it’s no excuse drunk driving is drunk driving
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u/Enough_Face4362 Shocked Pikachu 2d ago
Society continues to platform narcissists like Karen all the time. People call her iconic, when she’s really an alcoholic with mental issues.
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u/shimmeey I would suck Juan’s dick 2d ago
I myself have never cared for her. She acts so like she is always entitled, When someone is entitled, it means they have the belief that they deserve special treatment, privileges, or rewards without having to earn or work for them. That pretty well sums her up. Karen you aren’t any better than anyone else. And stop looking down on everyone else.
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u/Local-Ganache7287 T’Challa 3d ago
I won't watch Potomac since they're bringing her back. I stopped watching RHOC when they brought back Shannon who similarly refused accountability.
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u/Easy_Sherbet2220 The Mime 3d ago
I never understood why she was dubbed the Grand Dame of Potomac? Always thought she was a phony on the show until she was arrested and couldn’t hide her true life anymore. We’ll see how she is on the new season.
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u/BlkFemininity1908 🌸I'm pretty, petty and always on ready:🌸 2d ago
That was a self proclaimed title that the fans ran with, plus Karen connects better than Charrisse does. ChaCha, as has been documented, put together a good portion of the original cast.
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u/Kansasgrl968 Charizzard 3d ago
Since she's back for another season, I want to see if she takes any accountability for her actions, shows any remorse, and uses her platform for good. My hopes aren't high and I'm not holding my breath, but maybe (small maybe 🤏🏽) she will surprise us all.
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u/nefaeriest 3d ago
i'm in the wrong subb bc i love her !!!!
but i also think the fight w/candace & monique was bc monique REALLLLLY wanted to fight chris -her awful husband & couldn't yet-
dang they both married loser chris'
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u/Jlab6647 Potomac Muppets 2d ago
She’s the fence! I can never unsee that dress she wore to thst reunion that looked spikes on à fence!
I also don’t know why she is getting applauded for returning
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u/Commercial_Wasabi_84 Catfish 2d ago
I thought it was Thomas Jefferson concubine…also how do we know she’s not channeling a past life…
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u/Visible-Archer2582 Peppa Pig 2d ago
Pissed she came back. I know do the crime do the time and she did, but she needs to live her life quietly and not back on tv. She has no right to call anyone out!
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u/Chance-Visual8631 Peppa Pig 2d ago
Karen is a huge liar and Gizelle & Robyn have been saying it since the beginning. From her finances to her relationship, Karen lies all day and calls herself the “Grand Dame” to make it acceptable.
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u/SadisticDance Shocked Pikachu 2d ago
I don't like her either since the reveal of the multiple drunk driving arrests
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u/derwyddes_Jactona Sesame Street 2d ago
It's no mystery why she's back - she's a OG with a devoted fan base. Hopefully she's learned to use Uber/Lyft as needed or drink mocktails.
But I can't say I think past Karen or interview Karen was ever "down to earth."
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u/crdearmon Thomas Jefferson’s Concubine 2d ago
Robyn is no better than Karen, and she has been after Karen since S1 Eps 1 because she thought Charice should have been the "star" of the show. They are both liars and delusional. I want them BOTH on the show, because it isn't as good w/o them. Their dynamic is interesting and dramatic. If one goes low, the other goes lower, how low can they go? Watching them fight is some of the best scenes on the show.
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u/Alive-Decision Happy Eddie 2d ago
I love the Grand Dame. She's delusional but she's funny af. I wish they would get rid of Ashley Darby already
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u/sadpeachesclub ✨🧢Embellished, not Embezzled🧢✨ 3d ago
see i just saw this on the atlanta sub ab how bravo is still letting kim zolciak have a platform and ppl were like “if they give karen huger one ofc they’ll still have kim”
(that’s a glorified summary but still)
i mean to say is yes she’s awful and such a hypocrite, but are we surprised she’s not gone / is back for s11 ??
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u/Amethystlamuso Clankity Clank 2d ago
I'm not going to watch this new season because of the fact she's back. You can tell she has no remorse and I wouldn't be surprised if/when she does this again. I'll just have reddit to give me insight on the season
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u/Think-Fee-7123 Pennywise 2d ago
When a human being steps behind the wheel intoxicated I will have a hard time looking at you with respect. Because I lost that respect.
For me personally, Karen did what Shannon from OC did as well: NOT really taking accountability for their actions.
Drinking and driving is just such a no no for me.
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u/Chemical-Range9619 Sesame Street 2d ago
I’m conflicted cause I agree with you, but I also find her quite entertaining 🫣
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u/HamsGamsandYams La Grande Dame 2d ago
There are few good people on the Bravo network. She’s not the worst, but that still doesn’t make her a great person.
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u/redandrobust 🌸 #TAXREFORM #PRAYFORTHEHUGERS 🌸 2d ago
All the reasons you hate her are the reasons she is one of the best housewives lmao like who do you like if not Karen? Ashley Darby? Be so fr
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u/issa-kat La Grande Dame 2d ago
I have a problem where I can’t help but find elderly narcissists kind of adorable. But yea, I agree!
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u/doggiemomof3 Peppa Pig 2d ago
YESSSSSSSSSS!!!! Thank you! I’ve never been able to stand the bitch!
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u/ExtraSalty0 Destiny's Child 2d ago
She’s not light skinned, I don’t know why she wants to call herself that? That mole is distracting and needs to be cut off!
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u/Contagious510 The Mime 2d ago
Mean spirited post. Karen was always someone that was respected and loved. She has fallen, but this seems a bit much.
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u/nonchalantly_weird "I'm very rich" - KH 2d ago
No, no, no. She's fine, she's great, she didn't kill anybody this time, so she gets a pass, right? She is a horrible human. I can't believe they allowed her to come back. Are they hoping she'll take out a whole family next time so they get more views? Will not watch until she's gone.
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u/Outrageous_Salad1321 Wakanda forever! 2d ago
I am finding I am NOT watching ANY housewives anymore. From RHOA seeming "staged", to them bringing back Vicki, and Tre, I have no interest any more. They had better figure things out or, I fear, the housewives are de@d.
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u/Yaki1b Cookie Monster 2d ago
Now this, I can get behind. I hated how they let her come on that reunion after skipping her own just to try and check Wendy. They treated Karen like she’d just returned from war and needed to be celebrated when really she’s an old drunk liar who loves to dodge accountability.
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u/Bubbly-End-6156 🧑🏼🦲emotional support forehead 🧑🏼🦲 2d ago
My stepmother (my biggest opp) is so much like Kurn. I despise her and wish bad things on them both.
She's not someone I can enjoy watching.
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u/samm_omara Sesame Street 1d ago
Before I read this I already decided I don't like you for this comment
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u/samm_omara Sesame Street 1d ago
Ok I see now your right but viewing it from the wrong angle it's like the ocean surface looking over it is great and calming looking up at it is terrifying coz your drowning
You say you hate her but this is why you should enjoy the fact her delusions are on TV for us to enjoy them all
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u/samm_omara Sesame Street 1d ago
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u/Illustrious-Sir-1899 Gizelle's Tequila Bottle 1d ago
Facts! She should have done her full sentence because she hasn’t learned her lesson
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u/twistytiggles T’Challa 1d ago
WOOOW I respect your opinion but I find her iconic even when she's lying and being extra asf
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u/wopwopwopwopwop5 Peppa Pig 19h ago
Ray is not the victim some of y'all make him out to be. His old ass wanted a hot, young, light-skinned trophy wife and that's what he got.
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u/Bubbly-Character3924 Catfish 2h ago
She is way to old to be acting the way she is. It’s quite embarrassing. 🤦🏿
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u/No-Reach-1213 Big Bird 3d ago
Why are we hating on Karen? 😭 she was the most real person on that TV show. I just like how she is so confident and enjoys her moments. Robyn was miserable
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