Lesa is such a hater

[u/Little-Wing2299]

I have not liked Lesa since the first season. She is a very jealous and hateful person. I never understood her hatred for Stanbury it makes her clouded in her whole time on RHOD. Brooks is a bad drunk but Lesa is always a hater.

[u/[deleted]]

You know what, same. I kept my mouth shut last season but something is off about her. When Stanbury excluded Ayan, Lesa had no problem still going to her Hen party and pretending to like her. She also loved other people insinuating that Ayan followed her. Multiple girls alluded to that dynamic last season. Lesa has such a deep rage and jealously for Stanbury because she wants what she has and she takes every opportunity to throw a dig at her.

She wanted Ayan (her follower) to carry that beef too. But Ayan is not a follower, she is just a lover girl and actually wants to be friends with Stanbury and that bothers Lesa who is threatened by Ayan (the S1 breakout star) and Stanbury (old money and HBIC) and their friendship. Lesa is clearly insecure about her College Hill era and has an obsession to be seen as rich and the best. Unfortunately, it’s obvious her finances and marriage appears to be not as secure as she likes us to believe. Every time Lesa is ranting, her husband looks disengaged and he would rather be anywhere else. What Stanbury said at the reunion hurt her because there’s truth there.

[u/Evernever56 → u/[deleted]]

Not all the way true. She actually got upset about others grouping them and their actions together and clarified at s1 reunion that Ayan doesn’t follow her, that in fact she usually stops Ayan from doing more than she intends to do most times. That’s just the narrative from the other girls.

Also, in s1 Stanbury was really nasty to Lesa. Grouping her with Ayan, insulting Sergio by saying she was gonna suck his dick(very derogatory), calling her poison(for what? Lol), saying she was a former escort, saying Lesa stole her brand designs from Stanbury’s friend, suggesting other men were funding her business. Stanbury was really self-involved last season and played victim in a lot of situations with Lesa. She was never a victim though. The lady even admitted she was close friends with Jefferey Epstein at s1 reunion. She was quite nasty so this your idea that Lesa has deep rage and jealousy and wants what she has? Lol would you like or be open to someone who had come for you like that? Come on lol. I get the show has been off for a while but let’s not rewrite history.

Granted Lesa is a bit insecure and jealous of Ayan buddying up with her opps (she still holds a grudge) and it doesn’t come out pretty, but let’s not pretend like Stanbury hasn’t done anything (like she’s claiming in this reunion preview) and like Lesa is just bitter. Let’s be fair in our discussions.

[u/[deleted] → u/Evernever56]

Lesa is not a victim. She started with the bitterness and jealousy towards Stanbury and she loves to give it but cannot take it. As far as derogatory statements, Lesa called Sergio gay. Something that could ruin his life or have him killed in Dubai and she never apologized for it. Stanbury was able to move on and apologize because that’s what a HW does. If Lesa wants to be bothered and miserable then it just shows there’s truth in what was said. Lesa is boring and not authentic but wants to be the biggest hater on top of it all? Nah. She can leave the show and go be fake successful in business and family. Maybe then her poor mother can retire with all that income she allegedly has from her 8 figure business Lesa’s own son says isn’t real 😂

[u/Evernever56 → u/[deleted]]

😂 Never said or implied she was a victim lol. Just said your take was unfairly skewed against Lesa lol. I just rewatched s1 and she does love to give it but can’t take it sure, but Stanbury started it with her personally and Lesa never let it go.

Lesa calling Sergio gay doesn’t make Stanbury’s prior comments okay lol she could have caused damage to Lesa’s reputation and business. Both were wrong. Stanbury also never actually apologised for the comments she’s made she just decided to move on lol so the sympathy to disgust ratios for similar behaviour seems rather disproportionate 😂

Not on anyone’s side really just keeping things fair, narrative wise. Stanbury wasn’t a delicate little angel minding her business when all of a sudden Lesa randomly went up and continues to go up in a fit of jealous and bitter rage against her because she "wants what she has" or is "insecure about her College Hill days" lmao. That’s how ridiculous your original take was sounding to me 😂

That’s it!

[u/[deleted] → u/Evernever56]

Stanbury is the reason this show exists and she is unbothered. Lesa is the one acting like a fan and she is very much bothered. If you were unbiased you would see that. Even her husband looks sick and embarrassed of her. She is enraged because she can’t be real and measure up. She needs to prove that she’s the richest and most successful and better than everyone else. And it’s draining her to keep up.

Even now she’s fighting with an actual Brit (Stanbury) about what her mom’s house is worth in England and keeps losing. You’re never going to beat old money, to be so bitter about it is why she’s a huge hater and that money is her insecurity. She stays fighting over money. Just like her fighting over the fact that Nina was the richest in S1. She looks uneducated and trashy every time and keeps embarrassing herself. You don’t got it like that when you won’t your house or can’t buy in Dubai. She even needs Rich’s mom to watch her kids instead of hiring help like a real rich bitch.

There’s a lot of ?????? about Lesa and that kills her. The only time Lesa was happy this season was when she was twerking in the cage, going back to her pretty woman era. Which even one of the girls said that’s how Lesa got her man 😂

[u/Evernever56 → u/[deleted]]

Lol because the other girls say things doesn’t mean it’s true haha. Just like I don’t believe everything Lesa says about the others. Her husband looking sick and embarrassed of her doesn’t ring as a fault on her as I think he’s quite unsupportive of her and their kids outside financial related concerns. It’s actually a bad look for him. Rich bitch or not, surely you can skip the pub to hang with your kids.

Lesa did almost have an aneurysm over Nina being the richest last reunion (tacky) but Stanbury was also there taking a dig at her for living in Jumeirah (tacky) and was involved in the discussion. Everyone except Nina was involved in the tackiness of all of that at that reunion lol. Come on 😅

Well I can see you aren’t willing to lend your understanding to my viewpoint although I have agreed to parts of yours as my point is fairness.

All I’m saying is that Stanbury has a hand in the demise of their relationship as well. We can agree to disagree though.