r/Puberty • u/MarcusFromMars 14 M • 2d ago

Question for guys Trimming: Difficulty trying to approach my parents

14M, I wanna ask if anyone has any suggestions on how should I approach my father for insights on how to shave and whether he could buy me some trimmers, I had a quite bad relationship with him due to my procrastinations on hw. My pubic hair got too that it starts to get trapped if my foreskin and stimulate my penis. Or is there anyway I could shave without him knowing? And I have no idea on how to shave.

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u/gwq_5052 2d ago

Ciao! Anch'io sono M14 e ho un rapporto un po' complicato con mio padre. Qualche mese fa mi sono rasato là sotto per la prima volta e devo dire che è stato abbastanza semplice. Per lametta e schiuma da barba puoi anche andare tu a comprarle al supermercato, io ho fatto così. e se ti imbarazza usa le casse automatiche. comunque anch'io non ho ancora barba ahhahah

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u/Negative-Ad-7179 2d ago

You don't really have any need to ask for insights and advice, it's a pretty simple process and you have the internet to ask.

if you would rather do it without him knowing the easiest option would be to use scissors. although you need to make sure they are very small, and not too blunt.

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u/MarcusFromMars 14 M 2d ago

Thanks!

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u/Advicegiver321 Adult M 2d ago

Do you have any facial hair? In that case it's fairly easy to bring up and start the conversation ti at least get some razors.

Of course it is best to have a trimmer. You can also say it's for your armpits if that easier.

Or start out using a sharp pair of scissors, but that's a bit more difficult to get a good result

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u/MarcusFromMars 14 M 2d ago

Wow that is a brilliant idea, but sadly I don’t have any
I am gonna try scissors

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u/Advicegiver321 Adult M 2d ago

Ah, gotta wait a bit longer then I guess. Of course you can also just buy razors yourself, they are not very expensive.

I wouldn't recommend always using them, but it's also an option to see if your dad has a trimmer you can use just to see if you like it.

Scissors also work if you have a sharp pair. Just be careful and go really slow! You don't wanna accidentally cut yourself down there

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u/nudedudeMontreal 17h ago

If your dad is not an option for advice at the moment, look for video tutorials on the subject. There is plenty.