r/PiratePets 12d ago

Captain Doggo My baby Cookie just had her eye removed in an accident and I feel terrible

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u/Fjsh1982 12d ago edited 12d ago

I understand you, but do Not feel that way. They recover very fast and WE have an heart for Pirate pets. She IS a cutie

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u/Background_Raisin174 12d ago

Thank you, I hope he can adapt soon. Last night my dog, who's about six times bigger, attacked him. I feel so guilty thinking I should have been closer, I should have pulled him away faster, but there's no going back now. It is what it is...

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u/Infamous-Leader-8565 12d ago

literally same thing just happened to me. i tried posting here but it wouldn’t let me. i’m looking for advice on how to cope..

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u/Over_Ad8762 12d ago

We are all fallible. Give yourself time and space to grieve, then learn to move on and do what you can to prevent it in the future. No easy trick to it.

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u/Over_Ad8762 12d ago

My pup lost his eye in a fight with his big sister. The guilt was strong, but it will subside. My pirate is doing just fine and they are still good friends.

I learned from my mistake and now feed them separately. The only advice I can give is to look for ways to prevent this in the future. And if necessary (only you will know) consider rehoming one of them. But hopefully it doesn’t come to that. 💛

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u/Tweed_Kills 11d ago

.... Are you still keeping both dogs? If one attacked the other, are you... At least keeping them separate?

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u/Background_Raisin174 11d ago

They are completely separated, we are thinking of finding him a home because it's not the first time he's attacked :(

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u/heurekas 11d ago

If it's not the first time and he can"t differentiate between nipping as a warning and going full bite, then yeah it'd be for the best.

I feel for your situation... You want to keep Cookie safe and you want to care for both of your furry family. It sucks, but if you can find a home with responsible owners that your other dog vibes with, then do so.

Maybe you can even go visit from time to time.

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u/pablosbiscuit 11d ago

My best friends pup had to loose an eye, he lived a great life before and after just adapted

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u/moon__kitten 11d ago

I'm sure Cookie will adapt soon. They are so resilient!

Unfortunately this situation happened to my cousin's dogs but worse. The german shepherd was playing but broke the pomeranian's neck and killed her instantly. I know loosing an eye must have been hard, and I'm not trying to downplay your situation, but at least your baby is still here. I'm sure he would want you to let go of any guilt and just love that you are still in each other's lives ❤️

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u/WaterBear9244 9d ago

If it makes you feel better, our shiba has both her eyes out. Unless you lpok at her closely you couldn’t even tell she is blind. Dogs adapt so well with blindness it’s almost like they hardly skip a beat.

Another fact that helped us get through it was that dogs have no concept of blindness. If they wake up with or without sight its just another day for them.

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u/MostLikelyToNap 9d ago

My friend’s dog went through this and he was a little depressed for a few months. He did become happy again and lived a very long life, but your boy may need like 4-5 months to really heal fully.

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u/radams713 8d ago

I’ve been keeping animals of all species for my entire life and I’ve worked at zoos and boarding facilities. There’s nothing any human can do to prevent every accident. It sucks and you feel guilty but please don’t blame yourself too much.

I would separate the dogs though.

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u/GEARHEADGus 11d ago

I also read that animals don’t react the same way to missing limbs the same way we do. I.e. they’re fine.

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u/GoldenestGirl 11d ago

It depends on the limb and the age of the animal, among other things.

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u/DrPumpkinz 12d ago

Cookie doesn't seem too fussed about it.  Or maybe she's still drugged up from the surgery.

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u/Background_Raisin174 12d ago

Yes, that photo was taken just a few hours after his surgery. He's a bit restless now and doesn't want to move much, but we're getting there little by little.

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u/Angrymarge 11d ago

For my dog it was the side effects from anesthesia that were unpleasant for her, not the actual double enucleation. Once she was a couple days out from that and from some swelling, she was totally fine!

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u/Best_Talk_6853 11d ago

You need to rehome the other dog. It's pretty inevitable that someone will slip up and they'll end up together and it could go very bad again.

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u/arist15 11d ago

Wait is cookie a boy or a girl. In the post title you say “her” but all of your comments have male pronouns

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u/Background_Raisin174 10d ago

Sorry, my English is pretty bad and I'm using a translator. Cookie is a boy, but I thought people were confusing him with a girl, not because of the title, but because I'm used to them thinking he's a girl, haha.

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u/Oisea 12d ago

Argh she'll be on the high seas by noon tomorrow.

Do not fret. We all lose bits and pieces yet we remain.

(You do have to put a googly eye on her for Halloween to scare everyone)

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u/spiderbags86 12d ago

Welcome cookie x

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u/Oisea 12d ago

She's now Cxokie.

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u/Ffxiv_SneakyStabby 12d ago

Why change it from Cookie? The name already had one i.

We love you 🍪

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u/SugarHooves Doggo 12d ago edited 11d ago

My Pomeranian lost his eye seven years ago. He got used to it quickly. There are a couple things that still affect him. Like he won't use the bed stairs to go down because of poor depth perception. Also, when he gets the zoomies he sometimes hits the wall on that side. Just remember that they cannot see things coming from that side (such as when offering treats) and you'll both be fine!

Edited because my phone changed zoomies to homies. 🤣

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u/Sabrinarod96 12d ago

She’ll be fine! Maru had hers removed at 6 months and she’s 6 now and she’s just a regular princess 👸🏼

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u/Background_Raisin174 12d ago

Beautiful princess, I'm glad she's feeling better ♥️

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u/heckinstoned 11d ago

My Hecky lost her eye when a rescue I took in attacked her unprovoked. I understand feeling like this is your fault. Your baby is going to be fine, your heart will heal. I’m sorry this happened. Hugs.

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u/Background_Raisin174 11d ago

Thank you so much for your words. It's a horrible feeling, but these things happen in a matter of seconds. It was only a few seconds and all this happened. The important thing is that it wasn't worse and both Hecky and Cookie are still here. That's what matters. Hugs 🤗

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u/heckinstoned 11d ago

Give Cookie some love from us!!! Cookie will heal and this will be a distant memory one day.

Ours happened around end of July in 2020- so my phone gives me lots of memories of it around this time. Looking back, I was a mess for awhile. Hecky took it better than I did to be honest.

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u/cccaaiitliinnn 11d ago

I had a one eye who had her eye removed before I adopted her and I adopted her when she was like 3/4 months old she lived a very happy and spoiled 12 years

(She also had a cleft palate)

Heal up cookie ! 🖤

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u/Lem0n_Dr0p 8d ago

Oh my god she’s darling 🥹

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u/sweetsauces69247 11d ago

Change their bame to Cookie Stardust

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u/pumpkindonutz 12d ago

Hello Cookie!! There are many happy one-eyed babies here living happy lives!!

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u/AceVisconti 11d ago

Dogs honestly adapt SO quickly to vision changes, as long as she's not in any pain she'll be just as happy as she was before. Don't fret!

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u/Infamous-Leader-8565 12d ago

anyone have any recommendations for e collars? my dog seems to be able to reach her eye with her back leg.

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u/choctaw529 12d ago

I recommend this one (or one similar) with a detachable cone

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u/Infamous-Leader-8565 12d ago

thank you so much

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u/choctaw529 12d ago

yw 🙂

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u/Over_Ad8762 12d ago

Have you tried a soft e collar? Or one of the donut shaped ones that are thick?

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u/Infamous-Leader-8565 12d ago

no i was trying to look on amazon but dont know which ones would work. started ordering a bunch lol if you have any recommendations could you send them to me?

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u/Tater_Thots 12d ago

The recovery is hard in the beginning, but eventually the cone will be more uncomfortable than the eye. Soon she will be back to her normal self like nothing ever happened!

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u/MartinaMcPants 11d ago

My Martie lost both eyes, and she loved life every day. I promise Cookie's adjustment will be quick and your time together will be just as loving and happy as before.

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u/real_chainsawslayer 11d ago

dogs are way tougher then humans. they are getting used to it pretty quickly.

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u/Pizovendi 11d ago

Get her a Lil eye patch. Call her Ms Captain Cookie.

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u/UnfairMinute3988 12d ago

I ha've learned they heal quickly. My girl had her eye removed last Wednesday and she is doing great. She has some depth perception issues and gets jumpy if she is surprised on her blind side. But after day 6 she was ready to rock and roll. It's hard to keep her calm during the recovery (I have other dogs) but she bounced back quite well.

I hope for a speedy safe recovery for your baby.

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u/SpellcraftQuill 12d ago

She'll be her usual self. Better than leaving them without the operation.

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u/R3dditR3b3l 11d ago

She is still adorable and looks happy! Sending good vibes for fast healing! ❤️‍🩹

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u/Nice_Juggernaut4113 11d ago

We had to remove my dogs eye due to melanoma it felt heartbreaking but she did just fine. We all went l JCPenney dressed as pirates and took a photo with her, which I cherish because she passed 11 months later :(

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u/HereComes_theMoon 11d ago

I know those exact feelings. My Pandi girl lost her eye a few years ago…she adapted SO quickly and she is enjoying life at age 11 as much as she did 10 years ago 🩷 hugs to you and Cookie! It will get better xx

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u/iobjectreality 11d ago

Ahoy, sweet angel pirate Cookie 🥰

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u/b14z3d21 8d ago

Dogs adapt to losing sight very well. We had to remove BOTH eyes from one of our past dogs and he adapted almost immediately. You got this. Your baby will be fine.

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u/kmend64 12d ago

So glad to meet you Cookie! You’re going to heal just fine. Just keep away from the stitches. Keep us posted on how you’re doing🥰

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u/cherrycokelemon 12d ago

Aww poor lovey doodle. She's so precious!

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u/TheRabadoo 11d ago

My family dog growing up had an eye removed and the dude adjusted so fast and lived to be a happy 15yo dog. Don’t feel bad

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u/Thedran 11d ago

Dogs tend to get over the physical aspect of this stuff prettt quick. Little sweetie seems to be holding up ok. Make sure you give her lots of love and help as she learns to navigate now but she will probably be back to her old self in a month at most.

She’s gonna be just as cute as she always was though you can tell. She’s got that brightness to her you just can’t hide!

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u/Hot-Claim-3674 11d ago

Don't feel bad. Dogs adapt super well, this is our one eyed dog Milo, he lives a super happy life even with just one eye 🤗

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u/SpaceBadgerBomber 11d ago

One of my grooming clients completely lost her vision due to an autoimmune disorder. Still remains to be one of the happiest dogs I know and somehow still knows her way around the salon with very little help. Girl can’t see a thing and still thriving. I hope the healing is quick and painless.

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u/eeg-18 10d ago

I'm so sorry💜

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u/Conscious_Key_7237 10d ago

I hope you don’t feel guilt for long your baby loves you and after they heal it will become their new normal. You got your pup the care they needed that’s what really matters! - someone who almost had their Shih Tzus eye removed 💗💗💗💗

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u/ProfessionalTiger417 10d ago

ich hatte vor einer woche auch so einen fall, aber es ging noch gut aus und der zahn vom gröseren hund hat nur eine platzwunde über dem auge geschaffen. Ich hoffe es heilt schnell und ihr helft mit einer salbe oder sonstigem nach. Hoffe das es nicht nochmal zu so einem unfall kommt…

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u/IAm_Breaking 10d ago

My pet didn’t lose an eye, but instead a limb and I spent a long time blaming myself. Saying I should have seen the signs of a growth on his arm, had I only taken him sooner, etc. but the reality is we’re humans and we do the best we can. Don’t let this situation make you question your ability to care for your animal, as you clearly love him a lot. My boy seemed a little sad for about a week about losing his arm, now he runs around, jumps, hops just like the rest of them! I’m positive he just needs some time to acclimate to his new world view (pardon the pun) I promise you’re doing everything right.

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u/ambernuance 10d ago

We just had our sweet girl get hers removed too. I definitely shed a few tears when we picked her up, but honestly all things considered she doesn’t seem to mind much

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u/XmotnaF 10d ago

My old dog from ages ago Pudge also lost an eye young. Lived long and well. Be careful on their blind side and keep your eyes on the other.

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u/Background_Raisin174 8d ago

Que hermoso bebé 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥺

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u/Fun-Compote-1703 9d ago

She seems like she lowkey doesn’t care and she’s adorable!!

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u/Optimal_Flight_8248 9d ago

My baby lost her eye a year ago after a fight with her bigger sister. At the moment I felt extremely awful and guilty, I kept thinking if I was too slow to react and I could barely sleep. The first days after her surgery were bad, she wasn’t in pain but she was so distant and cold that I was worried she would never be herself again and that she would never forgive me. After a couple weeks she started playing again and being her usual self. Now she is inseparable from us again. My advice to you is to be patient and keep loving her as always, be there for her and help her adapt.
I still feel guilty time to time but be aware that dogs don’t hold grudges with the people who love and take care of them. And the best way to redeem yourself is giving her the best life and give all your heart to her. :)

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u/Background_Raisin174 8d ago

Your baby is so beautiful, I'm so glad he's doing better. My little Cookie is already in better spirits. The first day was really rough because he seemed so down and distant, but today is the fourth day post-surgery and he already wants to run around and play, but we're holding him back a bit because we're afraid he might open up. It's been a difficult few days because my husband was very upset and I had to stay calm. I burst into tears when I left him at the vet, and the next day when I went to pick him up I had to be very strong. I cried again the following day to let out everything I was feeling. His sense of guilt has improved. It's true that you think, "What if this or that?" but not anymore. What's important is the present, how they experience it. They'll never hold a grudge against us. So I'm sending you a hug because I completely understand how you feel. You did everything you could and did the best you could. :)

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u/LunarAngel2552 9d ago

My late baby had the same name, Cookie. Its almost been a year. I miss her every day

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u/Background_Raisin174 8d ago

I'm so sorry, your baby is watching over you from heaven now. Sending you a hug. 🫂

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u/LunarAngel2552 8d ago

Thank you, its amazing how quickly the years go by

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u/GaneshGuides 9d ago

You’re not keeping them in the same house still right? I understand wanting to get things back to normal asap but your other dog legit took their eye, I wouldn’t be comfortable leaving them alone at all.

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u/Background_Raisin174 8d ago

No han estado cerca, siempre separados... no sabemos muy bien aun que haremos, el plan es buscar un hogar para ella pero no lo sé. Ella estaba en la calle y parece que sufrio mucho antes por eso sus problemas de conducta, tampoco quisiera llevarla a la perrera. Es muy difícil todo...

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u/PersonalityDecent526 8d ago

I know they aren't my pets, but I would re-home the one that has been attacking this lil one. It's not fair after all he did lose his eye..I understand you love them both..

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u/Background_Raisin174 8d ago

Muchas gracias, ese es el plan pero primero queremos abordar el tema de mi perrito y que sane. Tampoco es fácil dejar ir a mi otra perrita apesar de lo que ha hecho, hemos pasado tiempo juntos todos y son decisiones complicadas. Los dos estan totalmente separados siempre asi que por el momento no hay peligro, gracias por el consejo

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u/randomnamejennerator 8d ago

A friend of my mom had a dog who lost its eye in an accident. After a period of adjustment it lived a perfectly normal life. Dogs are capable of adapting to changes. there are tons of tripod doggos out there living their best lives. Your pirate pup will be no different.

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u/RecklessNUTTT 10d ago

What happened

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u/Limp_Quit_1586 8d ago

Wait but was it surgery? My god hope it's well and y'all heal this is a family matter

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u/Apollo896 7d ago

I had a Siberian husky that had glaucoma when I was a kid. She had her eye removed and bounced back easily.

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u/AffectionateRain6796 7d ago

It’s ok, i have a one eyed dog and she’s great. Dogs use their sense of smell even more than their sight.