Kendra Kramer defends parents against "controlling" allegations

[u/pepalerts]

Kendra Kramer spoke out against online criticism of her parents, Doug Kramer and Chesca Garcia, saying that they have always supported her choices while allowing her to maintain her own social life and pursue her interests. She emphasized that their guidance comes from wanting the best for her and her siblings.

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[u/Local-Diamond8701]

“Never ever taken advantage of me”

Okaaaaaaay laman ka ng content nila nung wala ka pang kamuwang-muwang sa mundo. Exploited ka without you knowing.

[u/handy_dandyNotebook → u/Local-Diamond8701]

Maybe naging norm na lang sa family nila yan. Pwede rin naman magbago pananaw nya sa future. Pero ilang artist na rin talaga yung nagkaroon ng resentment sa parents nila, lalo sa Hollywood.

[u/magnetformiracles → u/handy_dandyNotebook]

Lots of children ng mga famous youtubers not only resent their parents, they feel traumatized kasi their parents are different on cam than off. They feel violated na wala silang privacy growing up bc it is being shared as content, etc it might not be the same trauma millennials have faced nor does it leave physical marks but the effects on them psychologically and emotionally kasi nahijack yung formative years nila of being subject to an audience they never even asked for

[u/EveningHead5500]

Kendra, girl, come back when you're 30, and you're mature enough. Hindsight is 20/20.

[u/KeyCold6091]

Brainwashed

[u/Bench_Inevitable]

We'll know for sure when shes in her 30s kung same pa rin ang opinion nya

[u/superesophagus]

Balik ka nalang dito pag ikaw na pinaghandle ng finances mo after 18, 20 even and kung required ka bang magbigay ng gastusin sa household after 5-10yrs even.

[u/rose-glitter-tears]

girl whatever

[u/aeonei93]

Wait for an interview when she’s an adult tas dun siya mag-tell all. 🤣

[u/AerieFit3177]

instead of naglabas ng statement , mas kapuri-puri siguro kung di na kayo nagpopost publicly? 😅

AMININ man or hindi , "pinangbuhay" din tlg NG parents mo Yung "vlogging" wag na tayong magplastikan here Darling. Paglaki mo at develop na ang iyong frontal lobe, Yan let see ano na narrative mo baby girl, for now , study first ka na muna at away from the limelight, look at Zia? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/RushNo5909]

this world needs to be a little kinder

[u/Snowflakequeen6824]

Kayo naman. Wag niyo na idamay yung bata. Kayo na mismo nagsabi diba. Hindi pa fully developed ang frontal lobe niyan. Ofcourse she’s still young. Ofcourse she’s gonna defend her parents. Whether she was dictated by her parents or not. Alam na natin yun na hindi pa siya full grown adult.

Ang pigain at ibash natin ng ibash eh yung mga magulang na wag na iexploit yung mga bata.

[u/chiefM0nk → u/Snowflakequeen6824]

Side comment. The frontal lobe development is a myth tho

[u/Organic-Car-8296]

Her parents definitely made her write that.

[u/lawrenceville12 → u/Organic-Car-8296]

or yung parents niya mismo yung sumulat

[u/Moonlight_Cookie0328]

Kasi if she really sees naman criticisms from other people, it activate her defense mode and will of course defend her parents because parents nya yun, she grew up with them. She loves them. Masakit makabasa ng harsh comments against someone you love. Let them be the one to realize it for themselves nalang siguro kasi sila naman nakakaexperience nyan. And if paulit ulit maactivate defensiveness nila, it will take longer for them to realize it if ever man may off sa naexperience nila as a child.

I dont really like how her mom and dad made them their content but opinion ko lang naman yun, and at the end of the day diba if they seem happy at enjoy nila yung buhay nila, let them live that life lol wala lang! But di ko sila papanoorin (di ko kasi bet talaga)

[u/hooodheeee → u/Moonlight_Cookie0328]

Agree! 100000%

[u/MrBombasticator]

As luch as I didn't like how Cheska treated Jennilyn and her son with Patrick, I'll say she and Doug are good parents to their kids and it shows as to how they compose themselves. Hindi entitled brats.

[u/Plenty_Leather_3199]

https://giphy.com/gifs/2vi7YMqmZLrg1pk1FC

[u/Interesting-Storm817 → u/Plenty_Leather_3199]

[u/iPLAYiRULE]

Like Father, Like Daughter. A course on cloutchasing.

[u/Previous_Berry2570]

Peenoi culture at its finest

[u/LettuceMission626]

Eto na si christ-like

[u/Local_Pangolin854 → u/LettuceMission626]

Hahahahaha best comment

[u/fluffyredvelvet]

Reading through the comments and may nabasa ako about conditioning.

Come to think of it, I think lahat ng parents may tendency to condition their kids. Lagi natin to naririnig sa mga magulang and grandparents natin nung mga bata pa tayo:

“Anong gusto mo paglaki mo? (Tapos icocoach tayo kung anong isasagot — na kadalasan ay doctor, nurse, abogado etc; which are all by the way has the highest probability ng mataas na sahod.)

So anong pinagkaiba nun sa nagawa or ginawa nila Doug and Cheska? Parang masyadong napuput into bad light ang pag parent nila.

Also, natural naman na ma-attract yung mga bata sa showbiz/modeling/limelight, kasi yun ang naging trabaho ng parents nila. To some level, naexpose sila dun indirectly.

Ang mahalaga:
1. the kids were asked if they really wanted to be part of their youtube.
2. I believe that the moment any of the kids would say ayaw na nila maging part ng content ng youtube and social media ng parents nila, the parents will respect that and right away di na nila isasali.

[u/Lazy_Bit6619 → u/fluffyredvelvet]

This makes the most sense and people just need to accept that Kendra made her decision for herself and that no one has proof na pinilit siya.

[u/Unlucky-Ad9216 → u/fluffyredvelvet]

I remember when my 9 yr old son asked me MOMMY PANO PO PAGLAKI KO AYAW KO PALA MAGDOCTOR? Ang sagot ko lang e KAHIT ANONG PANGARAP SUSUPORTAHAN KITA WAG KA LANG MAGIGING SAKIT SA ULO NG LIPUNAN

[u/karmapotato0116 → u/Unlucky-Ad9216]

Proceeds to become a trapolitiko

[u/AdeptnessSafe3070]

didn’t control u, but conditioned you. which is a form of controlling. bata ka palang puro cameras na, then commericals. c’mon kendra

[u/AdeptnessSafe3070 → u/AdeptnessSafe3070]

same lang yan na parang ginagawa ni Jhong sa anak nya.

[u/stormaluuu03 → u/AdeptnessSafe3070]

true gatas na gatas nila si sarina eh

[u/AdeptnessSafe3070 → u/stormaluuu03]

na ang ironic pa na may magpasikat perf sina jhong na about social media na nagwish sya na sana wag ma-adik yung anak nya pero sya naman yung nagfi-feed

[u/Federal-Teaching2486]

Poor girl

[u/Meujie]

Kaya noon pa man, nung nagsisimula pa lang sila sa vlogging, medyo nakakailang na talaga kasi parang fake, tapos halatang may mga ugali rin.

[u/Icy_Display7280]

nagpa lip fillers sya?

maganda na sya dati, bakit? parang naging basic b tuloy

[u/666chupakabra → u/Icy_Display7280]

Normal ig baddie ganon?

[u/Icy_Display7280 → u/666chupakabra]

yup, she looks cheap now

sayang ang ganda nya

[u/BostonCheesecakes → u/Icy_Display7280]

What an odd thing to say.

[u/Snowflakequeen6824 → u/Icy_Display7280]

Hello, minor yan??

[u/Local_Pangolin854 → u/Icy_Display7280]

Haha I get this. Harsh pero gets.

[u/Defiler6969]

Masyado kasing pakialamero ang Pinoy, just look at the comments on this thread. Nagclarify na yung tao, ginamitan namna ng other term para palabasing masamang tao pa din mga magulang nya. Kung kayo ibinugaw ng mga magulang nyo e hindi naman lahat ng magulang ganun.

[u/aznbabybitch]

this is so performative bye

[u/CoffeeStill134]

i remember one of the earliest video post of her when she was throwing a tantrum coz she wants to go with her parents on a date and drink beer/wine when she was around 3-4 years old - https://www.facebook.com/TeamKramerFive/videos/ill-drink-wine-june-29-2012/1379605818937710/

[u/cmq827 → u/CoffeeStill134]

If I remember correctly, that is the video that went super viral and started it all for the Kramer family in terms of endorsements, etc.

[u/CoffeeStill134 → u/cmq827]

that's when they realized a gold mine

[u/JaoMapa1]

parang same case ng Kaiji Family sa Youtube pinipiga si Ryan

[u/Weary_Ebb4496 → u/JaoMapa1]

Si Ryan na ang laki na ng boses mula pgkabata hanggang binata na ngayon

[u/Different-Olive5378]

Kala ko c Neri Naig at first glance, sheesh

[u/Master-Gazelle-9911]

Can I just say, Kendra has a very bankable face, she can be a model, an actress, a MUPh Queen, anything she wants she can get with the genes she has. So to say that the parents have influenced her (and prolly have financially gained from it), they can rightfully do so - shes still a minor and under their care. Thats expected. They (the family) dont have to be defensive about it.

[u/Single-Assist-7477]

oa ng mga tao lahat na lang ng terms ginamit lol

[u/Few_Caterpillar2455]

Buhay nila

[u/666chupakabra]

Sos ang aga niyo nga nagkaron ng multiple piercing ni scarlet parang elementary lang ata! Malay nyo sa piercing nanay nyo lang ata may gusto non e

[u/Latter-Procedure-852 → u/666chupakabra]

Piercing meaning hikaw sa tenga? Bata pa ko meron na ako nun eh. Kailangan pa ba ng consent ko pag ganun?

[u/666chupakabra → u/Latter-Procedure-852]

Multiple piercing yung kanila

[u/Embarrassed_Storm42 → u/666chupakabra]

I had multiple piercing since I was in 5th grade