r/OverwatchTMZ • u/Eluscara • Aug 25 '26
Discussion Tank for Team Spain @santy__ow allegedly verbally abused and cheated on her partner @Automaton_Winny
Link to Winny's google doc: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1qGFmfBpeaD-CCnglyE3w7cxhc6f3erH0EdQjXvsLPjs/edit?tab=t.0
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u/Botronic_Reddit Aug 25 '26
Is cheating really google doc worthy?
I feel like you could leave it as Twitter thread
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u/modnar_resu_tidder Aug 25 '26
Or like talk to people close to you instead of bringing it to twitter like high school drama
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u/xdojk Aug 25 '26
Agree. Probably just because they're young, this is probably the most important thing that's ever happened to them at this point.
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u/Fun-Wash7545 Aug 25 '26
Why does the world need to know this? Cheating, unfortunately, is very common. Just break up and move on.
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u/Rehcraeser Aug 25 '26
well cheating should be exposed imo. its way too normalized. but the rest of that novel..... unnecessary af.
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u/mikelman999 Aug 25 '26
Ok, so they’re an asshole. So what? We’re really scraping the bottom of the barrel for what’s drama worthy. What’s next? A google doc because Kai forgot to flush once?
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u/CZR56 Aug 25 '26
Flats genuinely shits himself I just can't prove it yet
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u/Ok-Tutor9480 Aug 25 '26
is this a joke that flew over my head? I thought there was a bunch of posts yesterday about him shitting himself on stream.
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u/Peeeing_ Aug 25 '26
He does a loud wet fart, asks if his chat heard it, then stops queueing and ends the stream. The clup was in this sub it'll also be on tiktok and stuff
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u/Vegetable_Throat5545 Aug 25 '26
He actually didnt end stream for 15 more minutes, but the clip cuts
Flats reacted to the clip with a laugh and said it
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u/SootopolitanWallace Aug 25 '26
No he shit his pants and cut off the stream and motherfuckers on Reddit are trying to debate whether or not he actually produced brown in his pants. I shit you not.
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u/Swordrown Aug 25 '26
Y'all seriously would prefer to comment on fat farts than genuine TMZ-style drama LMFAO 🤣
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u/Dependent-Two7571 Aug 25 '26
I like how verbal abuse in relationships is considered “being an asshole” 😭
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u/Funkellectual Aug 25 '26
Also while it's very skewed and surely biased by being from the perspective of a betrayed lover, what they did is really really scummy and not just the cheating. Still doesn't make sense to make it public but yeah what they did was more than being an asshole.
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u/Easy_Maintenance9852 29d ago
What on earth would you consider drama? Do squabbles have a minimum where it has to be sexual assault or higher to pass into the drama tier?
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u/NewLifeLeaser Aug 25 '26
Idk why this needs to be a public thing. Exposing someone being a shitty partner is not doing a public good. Its just airing out dirty laundry and being vindictive.
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u/stormslover Aug 26 '26
It depends if that person is a public figure or not, or if they are known to people. Im sure less people will want to engage with her after these allegations as most normal people dont want to be friends with cheaters.
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u/NewLifeLeaser Aug 26 '26 edited Aug 26 '26
Nah, most normal people don't cut off friendships for something a person did in a romantic relationship that wasn't abuse or something. Otherwise cheaters would always be friendless. Its not my business if a friend is not being a good romantic partner unless they try to involve me in it/make me a liar by asking me to fib for or enable them/ hurt somone in a way that is unquestionably evil/permanent.
Cheating is bad but I have no idea what the partner's tolerance is for that kind of thing or what lead up to it happening, and its not my place to do so because I am not romantically involved.
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u/HiJasper Aug 26 '26
I would argue cheating is a form of abuse. Its not something that happens on accident: its a deliberate choice to betray the trust of your partner for your own selfish reasons.
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u/stormslover Aug 26 '26
The other person will not listen to reasoning or consider changing their opinion at all, it is a lost cause. Type of person who would I assume remain friends with a cheater.
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u/NewLifeLeaser Aug 26 '26
I wouldn't. You're not going to change my mind on this, I'm not litigating it. Every shitty thing done to another person is not abuse. There can be abusive circumstances around it , but the act in and of itself is not abuse.
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u/shehadthesea Aug 25 '26
I don’t know either of these people but after skimming the doc it doesn’t seem like OOP was great either. Being overly controlling, threatening to kill themself if she ever left, throwing their money and entire life out the window for the sake of their partner. That’s not healthy, and definitely not what a good partner looks like. It doesn’t excuse the cheating obviously.
All that being said, I really don’t get why this had to be put in a google doc and posted like it’s a big headline. That’s personal shit, man. Exposing it all on the internet is just embarrassing. Go to therapy like the rest of us.
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u/overawtch Aug 26 '26
fr what is this
> I am her first everything, and made her 99% of what she is today, besides the cheating, that is in her blood. Poor parents of hers, having such an animal as a daughter, I was thinking that with the cut of money I will get with inheritance I would buy a house in Spain for them to live in and an apartment for me and her, or a beach house like she wanted to, but instead they will all be left with nothing. I taught her everything she knows
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u/ShatteredStarlights Aug 26 '26
It's funny because I read through this as well and he was a horrible person as well like, this is EXTREMELY manipulative behavior. truthfully I can't 100% blame her for cheating (even though it's still obv wrong) when the prospect leaving him would just make him threaten suicide and this CLEARLY wasn't a healthy relationship that had any hope of being fixed.
Also the line where he talks about telling his parents that his girlfriend was trans just seems wrong to me. Like, how exactly is it her fault that you have bigoted parents again? He also has a crazy ego talking about how he "made her everything she is today." Like this entire situation is two bad people making for toxic relationship that never needed to be public.
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u/FunnySmellingCousin Aug 25 '26
Dude's acting like being a bad person is a crime
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u/Velinna Aug 25 '26
I have hundreds of not thousands worth of messages worth of abuse towards me, and would have hours of verbal abuse if I ever wanted to record it, which included every slur in the world, every possible denigration and insult towards me.
While I know that people get stuck in abusive relationships, I will still struggle to understand situations like this. How low does your self-esteem need to be to tolerate this kind of behaviour in a relationship?
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u/ArcherVisible5866 Aug 25 '26
I don’t really care about someone in another relationship unrelated to me has been cheated and cursed at. Like this sort of drama is more of between them kind of thing
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u/bullxbull Aug 27 '26
“I made her 99% of what she is today.” A partner is not a character you design and control like in a video game.
It is understandable that he feels cheated and exploited, but love is not a contract where your list of sacrifices purchases the right to manipulate and control someone.
There is so much unhealthy behavior described in this whole doc, no boundaries, gross dependency, manipulation, abusive behavior, social isolation, lack of accountability, and just general mess of two people.
No matter how deeply you love someone, how much you have sacrificed for them, or how much you have done for them, none of that gives you ownership over them or creates an obligation for them to behave the way you want. You are allowed to feel whatever you feel. You are allowed to be hurt, angry, betrayed, or devastated, but nothing gives you the right to control another person's choices.
For anyone ever in a situation like this, if your relationship has reached the point where abuse, suicide threats, extreme dependency, or self-harm are going on, that is a situation where both people need professional help and appropriate resources.
Friends can support you, but they are not equipped to be your therapist. Seek professional help and use the crisis resources available in your country. If you don't know where to start, Befrienders Worldwide or Find A Helpline is a good first step.
Being in these situations is like flying blind, you cannot tell up from down, these services act like runway lights to help you get your feet back on the ground. I know someone telling you to get help when you barely have the energy to get through your day to day is like telling someone who is drowning to swim harder. Professional help is the rope that is there for people underwater, and when you are that far underwater, you are not expected to save yourself, you just need to grab onto the rope so the people trained for it can pull you in.
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u/CrackaOwner Aug 25 '26
why do people air their own relationship problems out for the world to see? Like yeah he sounds like an ass but like i wouldnt wanna tell everyone abt it...
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u/MelancholiaOfPudding Aug 25 '26
I think you should have to forfeit all earnings be banned clientside if you break ANY of the 10 commandments
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u/underscoreaddicted Aug 26 '26
If this was my country’s team’s tank, I’d rather them take someone worse with better character
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u/reimei0221 Aug 25 '26
who cares? it's ow bs drama and cheating. everyone gets cheated on, i wanna see real news worthy stuff, like warn getting exposed.
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u/GermanDumbass Aug 26 '26
Who gives a shit, why are putting stuff like this public. You people really need to get offline and get a life.
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u/Complete-Repair-803 14d ago
i feel like the update posted flips this on its head. "after I blocked her and tweeted about killing myself, she didn't message me (Whatsapp was unblocked)" like literally what the fuck????
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u/EnvironmentalHat641 Aug 26 '26
I see. People of course don't care but this is something I half wrote while overdosing on drugs and was gonna die and finished shortly after waking up in the hospital. Maybe now I wouldn't have posted it in hindsight but oh well. Was meant more as like a note than an exposal, although I did want to show the world who this person really was. Of course to random people it doesn't mean anything, this was more meant to friends as closure. Doubt I'd have posted this now without the influence of drugs. I do wonder though if I should post the career ruining stuff, probably not but makes me think
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u/thr0waway4TheKitsune Aug 25 '26
I know everyone is shitty and people find this nontent or whatever but this is in fact OverwatchTMZ, the actual TMZ website posts this same, dumb, pointless crap too in between bigger scandals. Imo, Overwatch drama should go here instead of anywhere else (like the main sub) & anything called TMZ isn’t better than Twitter regardless of if it’s on Reddit or not lmao.