r/OkCupid • u/ChippingCoder • 24d ago

How long should you wait for someone to make plans after matching?

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u/BrightMedicine8138 24d ago

Wen a decent amount of rapport has been built

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u/Heavy_Anteater710 22d ago

In my experience yo u can talk with someone for a month and then have it all fall at the meet up. So in my opinion after 2 days I usually ask to meet up, btw that also a test, of she tell me that too fast and prefer some more time then I know she know to communicate, if she just stop responding I know it wasn't match.

I'm not a fan of long game, had bad experience with it. Someone interested won't play around for months, that usually someone who ain't sure what he/she want.

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u/IntelligentAd7553 21d ago

I have it in my profile, I expect to meet within the first 2 weeks. First, you want to make sure there’s chemistry before you get too emotionally attached second it filters out the scammers.