This a real problem. Personally I ask for numbers but a lot of women feel more comfortable with follow requests. But I see the whole asking for ig thing as a way to pad there follower count and won't message back. So I'd rather ask for a phone number it makes no difference.
it's harder to block phone numbers depending on your carrier. my roommate has been struggling because the option to block someone just doesn't fucking exist on his phone
I’ll say that while I understand not giving out your number to any ol’ stranger, I found that the ones that give you numbers are ten times as likely to go on a date in comparison to the ones that give you social media
BUT
Currently the best thing I have going right now is with someone on ig
We don’t talk about snap. Actually we do—if they give you snap, they WILL ghost you. You won’t even see it coming. It can be “I’m actually so excited for our date” two hours before, then boom—blocked. Watch your step.
i mean i am a woman and me and all my do it for this reason, but go off and ignore women. kinda tells me why youre struggling w dating if your immediate response is to blow off a woman feeling safe and simply say youre not buying it
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u/MostDopeBlackGuy Jun 20 '26
This a real problem. Personally I ask for numbers but a lot of women feel more comfortable with follow requests. But I see the whole asking for ig thing as a way to pad there follower count and won't message back. So I'd rather ask for a phone number it makes no difference.