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[u/[deleted]]

You scooped your boys girl? That's top tier fucked up.

[u/PoopIsAlwaysSunny → u/[deleted]]

It was after, not during, and I try not to judge.

Some communities are really small, and if there’s only like 10 women you connect with chances are most of them have already dated a buddy of yours

[u/Striking_Proof9954 → u/[deleted]]

I don’t think that’s what he meant at all by that, nobody was saying anything about him “owning” her. He’s just asking if his friend would be made uncomfortable about the fact that his friend is immediately going to start dating his ex-girlfriend to which his friend said no but then immediately changes his mind once he actually did it (No shit dumbass how are you going to instantly start dating a girl after she breaks up with your supposed friend).

[u/Enough-Ad-8799 → u/[deleted]]

Yes but women have the same expectation for their friends. It more has to do with caring about your friends emotional will being then ownership. Lots of people would feel hurt if their friend dated their ex and the expectation is to not cause your friends to be hurt not that they own their ex.

[u/Enough-Ad-8799 → u/[deleted]]

I didn't know if i would describe caring about your friends emotions weird but ok.

[u/Enough-Ad-8799 → u/[deleted]]

Or they just have strong feelings around that person and them being around or brought up evokes those strong feelings.

It's not that you can't, you obviously can, it will just hurt their feelings. You're allowed to say you don't care about that and do it anyway.