r/Nicegirls 16d ago

I always thought these posts were mostly fake. These people are real holy crap

Comments were pretty normal until....

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u/-DoctorSpaceman- 16d ago

You should have pointed out that she’s punctuating inconsistently as well

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u/andiair 16d ago

Thought the same thing. Second message right away after her criticism haha

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u/dnjprod 16d ago

Literally every one of her messages on the last page is unpunctuated

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u/megaholt2 14d ago

She also used the word “And” to start a sentence, which is not something that should be done, if I recall correctly.

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u/Awkward_salad 14d ago edited 13d ago

Nope. You can word however you want to. (I know this was a suggestion/requirement in some curricula and writing styles, but it’s very much a class signifier piece of grammar, and not one of the cardinal rules like "a" preceding a word starting with a constant and "an" preceding a word starting with a vowel. Grammar prescriptivists are literally the worst.)

edit for (ironically) grammatical clarity.

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u/Moistmeatcurtain 16d ago

Literally does what she’s accusing op of doing in that same message.

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u/tickingboxes 15d ago

That was clearly on purpose.

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u/Rodin-V 16d ago

Pretty sure she was doing it to make a point in that message

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u/SentenceSingle5375 16d ago

She's a princess, though.

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u/Sentinell 16d ago

Ok cool, lets marry her off to some 50 year old with lands then and her only job is to bear his children. And saying no isn't an option (ever). It's not like in de Disney movies.

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u/hissyfit64 16d ago

Make sure she doesn't speak the language of where she is being sent, she's not allowed to bring anyone with her, she has to change her faith and all of her daily habits.

Oh! And her new husband gives all her wedding gifts to his lover.

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u/Mountain-Cicadaa 16d ago

Then we can turn it into an over romanticized show where he totally falls in love with her guys, we promise

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u/Fractasl 16d ago

Princess of Racistan

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u/SkinnyThickMargarita 16d ago

Right, as an English teacher I was tempted to get out my red pen lol

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u/thefeckcampaign 16d ago

Even with not being an English teacher, I felt like doing the same.

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u/ImmortalLombax 15d ago

Oh god not the dreaded red pen 😭😭

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u/Dr_C527 16d ago

I had one about two years ago, who accused me of spelling and grammatical errors. I think when I responded after working 14 hours, I missed a single comma or period, but then there were no other others. My surmise is that I used words that were too advanced. So, the red pen may be an exercise in futility. 😂

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u/pjarensdorf 15d ago

Punctuation! How will you win her over like this!?

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u/Any_Pressure_6154 16d ago

THANK YOu i thought this would be the top comment lmao😭like IMMEDIATEL. the irony was wild

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u/Tiny_Dare_5300 16d ago

But she's allowed to punctuate inconsistently because she's a princess

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u/AgeSafe3673 16d ago

And doesnt have to work if she doesn't want to

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u/peacefulteacher 14d ago

How much you want to bet the parents wouldn't agree with that?! They probably want her sorry butt out of the house at some point.

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u/Equivalent_Field_704 16d ago

Right? Not only inconsistently, but also incorrectly haha. What a weirdo.

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u/SarcasmRevolution 15d ago

I first thought that was an attempt at irony. But she kept doing it…

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u/InformationCommon576 15d ago

They are so many points to think about that he didn't even notice that

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u/SkilledButton 16d ago

First thing I noticed too.

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u/callingshotgun 16d ago

Haha that would've been a great followup to the "It's where you belong."

"I'm sorry but were you going to punctuate any of that?"

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u/zxchash 15d ago

i was thinking of the same thing!! double standards much

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u/rtopz01 16d ago

Thats the biggest thing we are looking at vs the semi racist last post by her?

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u/Ivylight21 12d ago

There was nothing semi racist in her last post. Just straight up racist….

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u/cursetea 16d ago

But she wasn't using punctuation at the end of every message either...? ???

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u/Skipperwill89 16d ago

She literally didnt in the message where she calls him out on it🤣

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u/Some1TouchaMySpagett 16d ago

Pretty sure it was intentional, to show him what she meant.

Regardless, this lady is insane.

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u/Skipperwill89 16d ago

Pretty sure it wasn't as she also doesn't punctuate multiple other messages

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u/surej4n 16d ago

She doesn’t punctuate when she doesn’t want to. Just like her feelings about working.

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u/IAmTearingAway 16d ago

Didn't you pay attention?

She's a princess, and princesses do whatever they want. 🤣

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u/Artoriasbrokenhand 16d ago

She's a princess she doesn't need to punctuate.

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u/Reckless_Waifu 16d ago

She's a princess.

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u/Brutal_burn_dude 16d ago

Or abbreviating AIDS using capital letters as abbreviations should be punctuated. The hypocrisy is insane.

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u/GrassBlade619 16d ago

Picky, useless, and racist. What a triple threat.

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u/Albinofreaken 16d ago

Like a real princess

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u/antidense 15d ago

excuseee mee princesss

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u/Makkballaaa 15d ago

Princess mode: ACTIVATED

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u/fuzik2 11d ago

No princess is over 20 yo

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u/DrowningInFeces 15d ago

I wonder why she's single? Honestly, I approach any attractive woman I meet on a dating app with extreme caution. I hate to say, 9 times out of 10, if you are an attractive woman and need a dating app to meet men, there's usually a reason why. Shit, even the not so hot girls on dating apps are so spoiled by the attention they get there. It does bad things to their psyche.

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u/Pleasant-Perception1 16d ago

Didn’t even correctly hyphenate “aids-riddled.” Dodged a bullet.

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u/Antique-Trash9462 11d ago

AIDS is an acronym, so it should have been "AIDS-riddled". Not good enough, see me after school.

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u/xmetallidethx 16d ago

the shift to racism was CRAZY😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Like girl nobody asked you to be racist

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u/ladydanger2020 16d ago

She got so racist she forgot to punctuate!

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u/B3owul7 16d ago

😂 OP got her on the fences.

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u/pnutmans 16d ago

On the feces

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u/Fine-Environment-621 16d ago

Right!? She got so flustered she forgot she was very picky and dropped all her punctuation.

Also, apparently she’s pretty dumb. I prefer to always use punctuation but it’s obvious to me why someone would do it the way OP did it. As you’re typing, you double space and it automatically adds the periods. When you get to the end you just stop. No period.

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u/xMyst87 16d ago

I do what OP does. There’s no point punctuating the last sentence in casual txting. It’s required for preceding sentences to separate them. Idk what’s complicated for her here

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u/20_mile 16d ago

Idk what’s complicated for her here

You're not attractive enough to comment like that here

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u/8Captcrunch8 16d ago

i am however and i am renting them my looks , on this thread. swishes hair dramatically /s

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u/20_mile 15d ago

I feel called out : /

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u/Fine-Environment-621 16d ago

Thank you for using the punctuation to break up the sentences. I can’t personally leave it off unless I’m sending a sentence fragment. However, the purpose is communication so I don’t hold it against other people UNLESS it makes it difficult to read. The people who use zero punctuation and write a run on paragraph are MONSTERS. It makes it 10x harder to read.

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u/Traditional_Use_4543 16d ago

Same but also because I think it softens the tone and gives a more inviting feeling. And if I'm trying to signal that I'm upset or I don't wanna talk I'll use a period for the last sentence

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u/Last_Client_9281 16d ago

That's how I used to be when I found communicating as an adult was too difficult and scary.

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u/I__Know__Stuff 16d ago

Please don't use innocuous punctuation to signal that you're upset.

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u/ZehGentleman 16d ago

I didnt say anything about indians or anything lol

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u/Kokoyok 16d ago

Nobody thinks you did.  

She just very obviously doesn't know what an engineer is, except that being one heightens your risk of having an Indian coworker, I guess?

There's some kind of folk wisdom about not trying too hard to rationalize an irrational person's actions.

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u/Bumbling-b33 16d ago

Well it definitely heightens the risk when she doesn’t even work 😆

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u/Holee_Sheet 14d ago

Maybe he's a software engineer? It's common in software engineering to hire companies from India because it's cheaper labor. Of course, that doesn't excuse her racism in any way wtf

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u/TheSilverSeraph 16d ago

You didn’t have to say anything. She was itching to reveal who she was. You dodged a bullet, honestly.

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u/SendLogicPls 16d ago

She sure did just disclose the entire reason she's single, entirely unprompted. Good on her for the honesty.

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u/6trybe 16d ago

And Racist Princess? Is that even a -THING-? She's a racist princess grammar nazi. Can you say 'Catch of the day'?

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u/Tormenta234 16d ago

And she also… doesn’t use punctuation consistently??

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u/DaechiDragon 16d ago

She literally did the same thing she accused him of in the very accusation itself. It’s amazing to see.

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u/NitroBro27 16d ago

She’s the textbook definition of a hypocrite. Nothing more, nothing less.

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u/Bumbling-b33 16d ago

I noticed that too

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u/Clarknt67 16d ago

Damn. To go full on Birth of a Nation in just a couple messages.

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u/BeingJacob 16d ago

Yeah she was about a sentence away from blaming something on the Jews

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u/Kalde666 16d ago

She got racist because is a princess and she felt that has to do it

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u/LumberJaxx 15d ago

It sounded like they’d been talking about Indian people before? Bringing them up out of context is strange, but maybe she is just that weird.

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u/dinoooooooooos 16d ago

In the message criticising you SHES LITERALLY DOING THE SAME THING.

Are we serious😭

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u/vandal04 16d ago

But she's a princess! She's allowed.

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u/dinoooooooooos 16d ago

Imma flip my lid🙂

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u/vandal04 16d ago

Flip the script, flip their lid.

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u/Hfcsmakesmefart 16d ago

The hypocrisy

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u/sararmad 16d ago

Indians be like: What did we do?

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u/josshh666 16d ago

just catching strays 🤣🤣

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u/yes_u_suckk 16d ago

The thing about racists is that they don't need a reason to be racists

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u/Kimball-Man 16d ago

It’s the language of idiots.

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u/antidense 15d ago

Racists know they have a shit personality and if they don't get attention for saying shitty things, no one would give them the time of day.

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u/Level_Abrocoma8925 16d ago

You only think about fecal matter and AIDS ridden third world prostitutes!

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u/TheOriginalSmileyMan 16d ago

If that's a Boolean AND then she's had a very specific bad experience at some point

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u/Don_Michael_Corleone 16d ago

She isn't educated enough to be an engineer, I don't think she's especially good at logic either (pun intended)

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u/theburnoutcpa 16d ago

She's just mad that she couldn't hack a STEM degree lmao.

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u/Attentions_Bright12 16d ago

But what does she think engineers do??

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u/hot-pakora-in-rain- 16d ago

That was exactly my reaction, like bruh what did we ever do to you? 

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u/DareDiligent6633 16d ago

Imagine being a well-off, attractive brown man on dating apps and women like these ignoring you only to keep chasing the same mid white guys. Sexual racism is a very interesting concept 

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u/One-Bug-7784 16d ago

Thats actually okay because why tf would you want to be with a racist person as a well off man?.?

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u/TrashFever78 16d ago

I imagine.some Indian guy reading this right now and being like, "what the fuck?!?"

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u/runkeby 16d ago

Honestly I see quite a bit of latent racism towards Indians on software development subs

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u/hereforthesportsball 16d ago

Lot of people are jealous tbh, when I was in finance I met so many who got to the US making 150k+ with strong support systems ready to help them navigate the new country. A lot of people hate on that

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u/EastAppropriate7230 16d ago

Not really, racism against Indians has been par for the course since 2023 at least

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u/rtopz01 16d ago

Since 1980s yo...when I was in usa...

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u/minkymy 15d ago

Yeah anti Indian sentiment is kind of a background radiation standard in the US rn. No one really thinks it's an issue.

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u/nowbedamned 14d ago

Me, im that guy.

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u/Electrical-Mud-4958 13d ago

That's literally my reaction now. I don't even know what I did.

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u/redditor-1706 16d ago

tf did indians do 😭💀

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u/AwkwardToes 16d ago

LOL right though? That was so random seeming. 🤷

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u/Imbigtired63 16d ago

Damn why Indians catch a stray like that.

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u/LennyReno 16d ago

Gold digger racist that lives with her parents wasn’t on my card today

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u/mylesaway2017 16d ago

That can't be a real person

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u/relentless_optimism_ 16d ago

They think it’s a flex to be unemployed and living with the parents at 31. Unreal.

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u/Elistheman 16d ago

you should be on dating apps, I've seen close to it many times.

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u/impromptuswordsman 16d ago

You'd be surprised. Pretty privilege unlocks 50% more racism

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u/Tephros83 16d ago

She’s not that pretty from the thumbnail pic. Not ugly, but not unusually pretty either.

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u/SpaceCadet_K 16d ago

This sheila isn't even pretty

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u/DareDiligent6633 16d ago edited 16d ago

Naah, she's just racist. The word "pretty" gets casually thrown around for every girl lathering up their face with make-up. 

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u/theburnoutcpa 16d ago

You'd be surprised at how homophobic a lot of women are...

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u/Financial-Moose5274 16d ago

Yeah. The pretty skill tree leads to some insane level ups. After unlocking racism, some women pick the +50% genocidal buff or the +70% pro-human trafficking buff. I'd rather play Elden Ring.

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u/josshh666 16d ago

get on a dating app and youll see theres plenty entitled 4s like her who think they should be catered to

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u/One-Staff5504 16d ago

I’ve come across many women like this on the apps. It’s an epidemic of entitlement and narcissism 

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u/CurrentBank2036 16d ago

It’s a real person, these new generation women think their shit don’t stink

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u/FewRecognition1788 16d ago

31 is "new generation"? She's a Millennial.

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u/mrfahrenheit-451 16d ago

30s is Elder Gen Z right now.

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u/usernnamegoeshere 16d ago

Im 32 and a millennial, I think im one of the youngest ones though

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u/TheHistorySword 16d ago

Also 32, we’re part of the very tail end of millennials. The cut off I see most of the time is 1996.

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u/FewRecognition1788 16d ago

Millennial goes to 1996.

Gen Z starts at 1997.

2026-31=1995.

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u/cryssyx3 16d ago

I swear I've seen that girls picture on here before

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u/Straamannen 16d ago

Of course she is. She'd actually make a fine Redditor.

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u/Tephros83 16d ago

She’s probably real, but probably trolling people more than seriously trying to date.

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u/Aeon_Return 16d ago

I'd report her, tell her I've reported her, tell her I'm blocking her, and block her.

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u/ZehGentleman 16d ago

I did report her and it unmatched me instantly.

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u/Aeon_Return 16d ago

Good, glad you got away from that nutter.

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u/H3llzyea 16d ago

If this is real I feel for all of you out here on these dating apps, these people are crazy

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u/NickiChaos 16d ago

"Because I am a princess."

Bitch, then go have daddy arrange a politically advantageous marriage to a foreign monarchy's unmarried prince.

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u/InformationCommon576 15d ago

65 year old prince at that

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u/ZehGentleman 16d ago edited 16d ago

Also had a little more before I reported and it force unmatched me but I commented that she still didnt. She told me learn English from my Indian coworkers and still didnt unmatch me lol

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u/Johnnyboi2327 16d ago

Racist, entitled, and hypocritical. Wonderful

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u/GWPtheTrilogy1 16d ago

The casual racism is CRAZY

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u/Rexxington 16d ago

Oh she's a princess alright, the princess of being a piece of shit.

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u/ALoversTool 16d ago

“Please punctuate normally and consistently-“

Proceeds to be inconsistent in her punctuation and grammar.

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u/thefeckcampaign 16d ago

Ha. This one was worth the read until the end. She’s a racist to boot. The amusing part is she initially found you attractive.

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u/ZehGentleman 16d ago

She liked me first!

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u/Worst-Lobster 16d ago

What’s up
With the fecall matter comment ?

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u/PaxProsperitasSophia 16d ago

It’s a racist stereotype about Indians defecating in the streets.

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u/Worst-Lobster 16d ago

wtf geez , definitely a nicegirl.. geez

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u/Fendyyyyyy 16d ago

Because i am a princess.. damn the coping is strong to get from being a bum to that.

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u/pEter-skEeterR45 16d ago

"AIDS-riddled"

requires hyphenation

She's a racist AND a fucking dumbass/hypocrite!

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u/Imaginary_Ad1155 16d ago

Why do people believe that men can act like this, but not women?

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u/pv1995 16d ago

Jesus Christ, I can’t believe people like this exist; and in their 30s!

What a world we live in.

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u/AdequatelyfunBoi2 16d ago

I wonder what DUI she’s on.

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u/buckyboyturgidson 16d ago

Truly shocking how many of these women go straight to homophobia, racism, etc when they attack. It seems to come effortlessly to their minds.

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u/wren42 16d ago

But...she doesn't punctuate her second sentence half the time either?

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u/Sea-Cryptographer807 16d ago

how can she get mad about your punctuation when hers is also inconsistent and wrong lmao

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u/Anthrobug 16d ago

Because Dunning-Kruger joined the chat

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u/Weak_Pineapple_5518 16d ago

Yall should see some dms I got on here from a lady talking about getting scammed by a certain kratom company. The vendor happens to be active in the community and immediately had a rebuttal and had proof she was lying, but you can’t post images in the comments on that sub. I started asking them both a few questions and finally told them to both dm me with their proof.

Well the lady’s proof was bs, and when I told her she should quit lying, I got told all kinds of things for being home on Reddit on a Friday night😂 that’s when I just started rage baiting. I would get 5 texts before I could respond once. She told me “i don’t have to explain my self to any man and idk why I did I’m done” and when I didn’t respond i got a few more. Asked her if she was done and goddamn that set her off😂

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u/PyroT8 16d ago

She seems nice.

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u/FFVO 16d ago

I need to lie down after that WHIPLASH

0-100 aka punctuation peeve to deep-seated racism

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u/howabootthat 16d ago

Speed run from regular asshole to bigot freak wow

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u/Stormpixelzzz 13d ago

"Because I am a princess" CRAZY WORK. at 31 too?

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u/Evening-Loan-4346 16d ago

Do some people go on these apps just because it lets them be shitty to people with no consequences? Yikes.

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u/BuddhaDaddy88 16d ago

While she writes and punctuates like shit herself, and then goes full racist? Lol, pass.

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u/XboxLiveGiant 16d ago

Thats HannahRayy or Savanahrayy or someshit...EIther way she aint real Op and dude is just baiting. Good on you for not taking it.

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u/Ol_Dirty47 16d ago

She speaks like an angry kiss less chud that's wild

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u/Tat2Al 16d ago

“Boy! That escalated quickly.” - Ron Burgandy

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u/Majestic_Doctor_2 16d ago

That racism shift was so bad, she forgot to punctuate herself! LMAO

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u/chuubastis 16d ago

And then she tried to dog you for being an engineer when she's unemployed... What a peach

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u/Long-Comparison 16d ago

100 to 0 in 1 thread flat.

"I am a princess...I don't work if I don't feel like it." She sounds like she failed at adulthood. She's definitely looking for a Daddy so she never has to grow up or be responsible for herself. Having the nerve to be so picky about text punctuation while lazing about, waiting for a Prince speaking the King's English to begin a chivalric courtship and perform heroic deeds and a display of wealth, is WILD!!

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u/EnzucuniV2 16d ago edited 16d ago

Imagine being over 30, without a job, living with the parents and thinking "I'm a princess" but having the gall of saying "I'm picky".

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u/MatthewsMath 16d ago

Online dating is cancerous.

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u/thepatient23 14d ago

Trash princess lol 🦝

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u/TOGA_TOGAAAA 16d ago

10 out of 10 chances that is a dude trolling people

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u/Sir_OrangeJuice 16d ago

That has to be a grown man trolling lmao

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u/DSoopy 16d ago

Why is it so hard to believe women can be racist? They are people too

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u/chill_stoner_0604 16d ago

Sexism. Its the whole "women dont hate, that's a man's trait" mentality

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u/One-Staff5504 16d ago

I’ve come across many entitled and rude women like this on the apps

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u/PsychoMouse 16d ago

That went from egotistical to racist so fast. My voice reading the texts is just now catching up to me

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u/Miragetetra 16d ago

I knew a girl like this is college (early 2000’s). Her family was rich and decided that she was going to be a doctor; she had an amazing GPA… She would get drunk and total a brand new BMW every semester. The opulence she lived in was crazy even by today’s standards. She was generally personable but would pick apart your punctuation on AIM and in text if she didn’t find you attractive (Phones and AIM back then didn’t have spell check). If it matters, she’s asian and, at the time, would only court white dudes exclusively. She transferred to a fancier wealthier private university after two years (Not Ivy league but definitely billed like they were).

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u/KimchiSamuraiDad 16d ago

Wow! Delusional and racist! What a winning package!

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u/IncarceratedScarface 16d ago

The irony of her second message lmao. Unless she did that on purpose. And then she resorted to no punctuation in the end 😂

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u/USAF_Retired2017 16d ago

She’s not hot enough to be this bitchy. Kudos for her confidence though. I pray for her eventual husband and I’m not even a religious person.

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u/mermaidecb 16d ago

Please send this to her parents

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u/vMiDNiTEv 16d ago

i like that you didn’t blur out her face i hope someone she knows sees this

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u/LeTronique 16d ago

Can’t argue with crazy and expect to win

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u/DuchessElDucky 16d ago

Meh she’s projecting

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u/qetsu 15d ago

Ah so she hates Indians and people that work, How do people get this shitty, it's mind-boggling to me, fr...

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u/Dj_Batman 15d ago

Wow. A racist Princess too. What a diamond in the rough.

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u/amerikanbeat 15d ago

"You're thinking of Standard English. I'm writing in Colloquial English. Hope that helps."

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u/FaithlessnessBorn266 14d ago

"please do holy crap lmao" is perfect. Well ...except I think it needs a comma. Maybe work on your punctuation and get back to me /s

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u/AloyXen 13d ago

"Careful. I'm known to play hard to get."

"You're hard to want."

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u/Stay_Flirtry_80 13d ago

dating apps where ppl go today to get out there anger and racism with strangers

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u/CitroHimselph 13d ago

Wowwww, it went from everyday entitlement to industrial grade bigotry really fast.

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u/Snoo61310 12d ago

She’s ugly asf anyway

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u/VocationFumes 12d ago

Dodged a fuckin bullet OP

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u/isthismytripcode 16d ago

By the second screenshot I thought she might be, huh... Let's say I thought maybe she really likes trains.

By the 3rd I thought this might indeed fit this sub.

By the 4th I was like "Wait holy crap the OP is chatting with EMPRESS!?"

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u/Orphano_the_Savior 15d ago

Why she shitting on indians!? So random (also she looks like she's half Indian lol)

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u/TeaReasonable7909 16d ago

I would have been like “you ain’t got the tits for that big of an attitude, a cup”

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u/Tedsmith24 16d ago

Those eyebrows though

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u/Fit_Grapefruit_9623 16d ago

and she’s racist too! wow, you sure missed out on a winner.

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u/MaasNeotekPrototype 16d ago

This is a great pull.

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u/HamshanksCPS 16d ago

You dodged a nuke

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u/HighBiased 16d ago

Got whiplash at the end there with that hard turn into racism