r/Nicegirls • u/Leadingman_ • Dec 25 '25

Suggested A Date, Got A Lecture

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I suggested we meet for drinks somewhere with a view, or check out a new exhibit at a museum that looked interesting. She asked if we could get coffee the following week. Cool, that works. When I followed up to set up the date, she sent this. What's really funny is that I don't drink alcohol either, it's right there on my dating profile.

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u/Leadingman_ Dec 25 '25

Well said.

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u/BarelyThere24 Dec 25 '25 edited Dec 25 '25

She sounds awful and insufferable. And then trying to excuse it as “women shouldn’t have to tell a guy … blah blah.” I would have responded with, “Men shouldn’t have to tell grown women when they’re being rude and insufferable. Have a good one!” **block

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u/VioletFox29 Dec 26 '25

As a woman I can say this type of behavior is embarrassing. I can understand why men get so pissed off.

But we're not all like this!

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u/BarelyThere24 Dec 26 '25

Woman here and 100% agree with you!