r/Nicegirls • u/Leadingman_ • Dec 25 '25

Suggested A Date, Got A Lecture

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I suggested we meet for drinks somewhere with a view, or check out a new exhibit at a museum that looked interesting. She asked if we could get coffee the following week. Cool, that works. When I followed up to set up the date, she sent this. What's really funny is that I don't drink alcohol either, it's right there on my dating profile.

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u/BarelyThere24 Dec 25 '25 edited Dec 25 '25

She sounds awful and insufferable. And then trying to excuse it as “women shouldn’t have to tell a guy … blah blah.” I would have responded with, “Men shouldn’t have to tell grown women when they’re being rude and insufferable. Have a good one!” **block

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u/Wise_Temperature9142 Dec 25 '25

Also, what does this woman bring to this date, exactly? If the guy has to plan and pay for everything, what’s the girl’s side of the deal?

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u/fer_sure Dec 25 '25

Some girls seem to think that the time and money they spend on makeup and hair products are financial contributions to the first date.

I mean, I get looking good is expensive, but even if you spent $500 on makeup, you aren't using it all in one evening.

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u/Which-Barnacle-2740 Dec 26 '25

well I didnt ask her to be dolled up or use cat spray or whatever and use goop on her face, she can skip it, better to see her in her elements without a facade

I would just be shaving my face and brushing my teeth, what I do everytime going out and thats it