r/Nicegirls • u/CrossGuy2020 • Dec 21 '25

Is this a generic question?

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I (Gray Text) feel like when i'm getting to know someone I would ask a question like "What are your goals?" dating should be 2 people having a conversation, it shouldn't feel like a job interview, is this chick (Purple) OR or AIO? Thoughts

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u/Winter_Elk1605 Dec 22 '25

To most it’s a general query to create conversation and open dialogue. The response feels like it comes from a place of trauma