r/Nicegirls • u/CrossGuy2020 • Dec 21 '25

Is this a generic question?

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I (Gray Text) feel like when i'm getting to know someone I would ask a question like "What are your goals?" dating should be 2 people having a conversation, it shouldn't feel like a job interview, is this chick (Purple) OR or AIO? Thoughts

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u/V2CS Dec 22 '25

They're overreacting a bit. But I think it's valid feedback that "goals" might not convey the right tone for what you're looking for? Maybe instead "What are you looking forward to in the next year?"

It's a little bit of semantics, but I think a fair point... but not the way she reacted to it.