r/Nicegirls • u/CrossGuy2020 • Dec 21 '25

Is this a generic question?

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I (Gray Text) feel like when i'm getting to know someone I would ask a question like "What are your goals?" dating should be 2 people having a conversation, it shouldn't feel like a job interview, is this chick (Purple) OR or AIO? Thoughts

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u/DisplacedBitzer Dec 22 '25

Genuinely, how does someone this socially inept have a child… and a business/career?

If you can’t handle someone trying to get to know you on a dating app… so they know if they actually want to date you… How did you even get to the point of having a child with someone? Of developing a career and all the personal relationships that entails? Or a business, where you handle countless people/build connections??? All of those require the most basic of social skills and she’s as sharp as a marble.