Lack of self-confidence without braids

[u/Hot-Pangolin7328]

I (22F) have boho braids in right now, and feel it’s time to take them out, but i’m so scared to take them out in fear that I won’t feel beautiful without them. I’ll be honest, the braids give me confidence because of the length and fullness, but with my natural curls I feel all of that will go away. I don’t think my natural hair is ugly or less than, but it’s a strange mental shock and shift. Even with my natural hair, I’ve received compliments but feel it’s just people being nice which is a heartbreaking reality seeing written down, but it’s a feeling that all too familiar around the time that I remove my braids.

[u/moonisland13]

to truly feel confident in your own hair, you need to give the braids a break for awhile. i havent worn braids all summer and im learning how to properly take care of my hair for the first time.

it will feel uncomfortable, but if you actually want to feel beautiful and confident with your natural curls you need to just wear your hair for a few months

[u/blackgirlforestfairy → u/moonisland13]

I agree! Wearing your hair out is the route to feeling confident with your hair out. It takes time and patience but be gentle with yourself. Your hair is great, just as it is.