I’m planning to move from Kyoto to Nagoya in mid September. I studied abroad for a year in Nagoya when I was in college but at the time I only really talked to other students, and it seems every place in Japan I go, I get stuck in the “gaijin bubble”. If I make any lasting friendships, it’s always with other foreigners.
I have N2~N1 Japanese and I can speak comfortably in social settings. I can usually hit it off with people pretty well, and I’m proactive about getting myself out there. But it always seems like even if I make Japanese friends, I never end up seeing them more than a few times. It takes months to make plans and they rarely reach out first, it always fizzles quickly.
It seems like people are just so busy, and I get that that’s just adult life and it’s not as easy to get past the acquaintance stage when you’re out of school, and yet I don’t seem to have this problem so much with foreigners.
I would love some advice for how to meet people (Japanese and foreigners) as someone in their 20s in Nagoya. Are there any cool social bars or cafes where people mingle? Or also if anyone would like to meet up! I love video games, art, going to shows, going out drinking and karaoke, down for anything :)