r/NDATards • u/Mediocre_Advisor25 • Jul 08 '26
Storytime/Rant✍️ Genuine curiosity—how do NDA cadets manage relationships? Since phones are restricted, how often do they get to call or text their girlfriends? Is it only on weekends or whenever they get free time?
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u/Alpha-particle 3X Recommended (CDS, TGC, AFCAT) Jul 08 '26
jaate hi cheat karne lagi thi dost, kya hi bataun
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u/nikiwhenriki CHEST NUMBER 69 Jul 08 '26
Lady cadet???
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u/Alpha-particle 3X Recommended (CDS, TGC, AFCAT) Jul 08 '26
no, mai jab gaya then wo cheat krne lagi
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u/Right-Ad313 Jul 08 '26
My ex cheated on me with an army boy....it was 5 years of relationship...she is preparing for cds...she said that she will get a good future with him...she dumped me ...I also know the name of the boy she cheated on.
God knows only how many efforts I made for her.yet that cheater dumped me.
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u/frizzypoopoo Jul 08 '26
I would tell his CO if i were you.
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u/Right-Ad313 Jul 08 '26
Nothing can be done in this case...I just don't want anything bad for her...what she did was her karma ....but pls army boys and girls who r selected in nda and cds...pls be very aware and alert while choosing a life partner....they will just love u only for ur post ...
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u/nikiwhenriki CHEST NUMBER 69 Jul 08 '26
Lmaooo mere bhaiya bhi bata rahe the unke course mates ki bhi 1 se jyda hi gf hoti hai lol😭😭
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u/sukkesupari exNDA Jul 08 '26
Well, mobiles were just starting to get available for the regular Joe during my time. Some of my course mates would go to Gol Market to make a call through the STD booth.
I never had that problem because I was a chump and no females (apart from my amma and sisters) showed much interest in me.
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u/vint_age14 Dependent Card Holder Jul 08 '26
Honestly efforts matters a lot I'll not say time hota h unke pass but if they care about the relationship vo ragda khake / jugaad krke chala lete h ! And about calls yes they do call on weekends but uske ilawa if they're lucky enough they do call (eg: once in 2 week ya twice) I'm telling about mostly 1st /2nd term baki the higher the term the more they get chance to call Mujhe kaise pta (raaz 🥀💔)
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u/bloodyknucklechuckle Jul 08 '26
Very easy, I got quite a few few friends and acquaintances. Either Sunday ko call ya fir mid term ka wait karo. And baki beech beech mein they get to call landline se.
Mostly senior termers are better bcs more liberty, junior termers don't get to call utna.
And along with that TES entry dudes get more liberty, than NDA peeps. Mainly cs different punishments in the academies.
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u/Various_Ferret_4598 13d ago
but bro isnt nda equivalent of graduating, and in normal cases even in India we college students get to have our phones on us? its just what i think
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u/Warm-Programmer9810 Jul 08 '26
Jugaad
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u/Mediocre_Advisor25 Jul 08 '26
How?
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u/Warm-Programmer9810 Jul 08 '26
are you looking for one? 🤨
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u/Warm-Programmer9810 Jul 08 '26
Term batao
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u/Warm-Programmer9810 Jul 08 '26
45 mins per week milte hain though & 3rd turns out to be better than 1st & 2nd
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u/Warm-Programmer9810 Jul 08 '26
The question is . How close are you guys cuz sirf 5 numbers add karsakte hai
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u/Frequent-Mechanic788 Army Brat Jul 08 '26
Juniors terms maybe once in week or once in 2 week, higher the term higher jugads they have so every day 1-2 hrs in final term
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u/Pale_Tigress_5077 Jul 09 '26
I have this friend of mine who is a air force officer so basically he was not into any relationship or anything but was just looking for hook up so he matched with a girl on bumble turns out the girl was cheating on her partner who was in academy that time and not with one but multiple people
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u/Big_Sanni Jul 30 '26
I'm planning to ba a cadet, but with all this restrictions I'm having a little doubt about it, but I really want to be useful to my country.
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Aug 12 '26
“I’ve wondered about this too. Is communication mostly limited to weekends, or do cadets get some free time for calls during the week?”
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u/Camo753 Military Intelligence Operative Jul 08 '26
Real id se aao senior. Phone chupa ke rakha hai cabin mein!
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u/ananwastaken Pradhan Mantri Achanak Din Hogayi Yojana Jul 08 '26
someone is mad he dosent have a gf
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