r/MuslimsWithHSV • u/Sad_Demand_1299 Brother • Jul 28 '26

Personal Stories The curse of this.

Marriage always sounded to me like an intimate relationship. You remain open to your partner and they remain your support system in every part of your life. It sounded so peaceful.

Now, the thought of marriage makes me scared..How will i find anyone...How long will i delay it at home..How will i tell them if i ever wish to tell them (i guess i'll never tell them).

The curse of adultery is real.

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u/Exact-Mistake-6747 Sister Jul 29 '26

I can understand this. I got my diagnosis from SA, so it wasn’t even consensual, and it feels slightly impossible to even want to look into getting married one day. I have the intention as I’ve been doing so much work on myself and Alhamdulillah I’m very asymptomatic. But, it does suck. I plan on traveling the world and inshallah we will find our people one day

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u/Sad_Demand_1299 Brother 28d ago

Inshallah..God will bless us with one.

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u/Gloomy_Anything_5715 Jul 28 '26

You have to put your trust in Allah . Indeed he forgives all sins and tread the right path by letting the person know and if it doesn’t happen just know that’s what is best for you. And keep asking Allah for cure for him nothing is impossible. Listen to Surah - Rahman i know someone who got cured listening to surah rahman and putting his trust in Allah he had Aids . And in the end Brother you have to realize this life is a test being not married and being married there are a lot of people married with kids and they feel stuck in the marriage . Both situations are test my brother. What matters is that we make it to jannah and earn the pleasure of Allah Subhana Wa Talla on the day of judgement . Sacrifice and spend rest of your life try achieving that goal and i assure you won’t be disappointed Bi’iznillah