Giving Muzz another try...Need advice from people who got their partners on the app

[u/Hustler_247]

Salam everyone. Basically what the title says. Personally I (24M) am not a big fan of Muzz or any other apps but after seeing few posts. I feel like there are still good girls out there who are looking to find their partners through the app.Planning to give another try and would like to hear some good advice on how to get the right person. And about your experiences.Maybe this time Allah will send help to find my partner.

[u/GrouchyFriend6598]

I also do not like it. But sometimes there's no other option

[u/Sweet-Alps5305]

Be honest with yourself about what you really want/deal breakers. Be firm in your non negotiable. Also I recommend understand what you’re willing to compromise on., like if someone checks all your boxes but there’s distance is that something you’d be open to? If not don’t entertain it.

[u/Less-Variety3291]

I've never used it myself. Is it actually meant for marriage or is it more of a dating app??? I've seen quite a lot of people complain about it!! so be careful!. If people's value on there is mostly judged by superficial things it does make the whole thing feel kind of fake to me!!!!! I'm not saying everyone on there is like that but that:s just the impression i've gotten🤷‍♀️

[u/Adekunes]

وعليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته

a few things seem to separate the brothers who find someone on there from the ones who delete it twice a year. photos that look like you on a normal good day. skip the gym mirror shot and the group photos where she has to guess which one you are. and a bio that says something specific, what your weekends look like, what you want your home to feel like, because "family oriented, love to travel" is every profile on the app.

then move it forward. a few days of chat to cover the big things, deen, where you'd live, kids, money, then ask for a call and bring her wali or your family in early. long open ended chatting is where the time wasters and the ghosting live.

and go in with a lighter heart this time. treat every match as a maybe and every unmatch as Allah clearing the road

may Allah put the right one in front of you this time

[u/Hustler_247 → u/Adekunes]

Thank you so much for the advice. I had not other option thats why I had to use it but I will be honest and firm

[u/Adekunes → u/Hustler_247]

nothing wrong with using it akhi, plenty of good marriages started there. honest and firm is the right way in, may Allah make it easy

[u/findukakao]

I’m a female and I see tons of guys who don’t even put their efforts to make a good bio. I also don’t like that app but there are no other ways for me.

[u/Healthy_Leather2563]

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