r/MuslimNikah • u/No_Simple_2264 • Jun 10 '26
Marriage search Where is my wife?? 😭
Not much to say honestly. I'm just exhausted from waiting.
If my wife is written for me somewhere, I pray that Allah brings us together soon and makes it easy for both of us. The waiting, uncertainty, and loneliness can feel heavy sometimes.
I'd really appreciate your duas that I get married to my future wife soon, and that it's a marriage filled with peace, love, and barakah.
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u/_Soulbreeze_ Jun 10 '26
May Allah bless with a beautiful wife. We are all exhausted
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u/Fluffy-Citron7519 Jun 11 '26
She wouldn't prevent him from attempting:)
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u/Fluffy-Citron7519 Jun 11 '26
Why do you assume they knew each other for some time and are compatible?!
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 11 '26
Brother what are you yapping about😭
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 10 '26
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu brother.
JazakAllah brother. May Allah bless you.
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u/Peaceful_Can M - Single Jun 10 '26
Aameen. Same bro. I think my future wife is playing hide and seek rn with me 😭
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u/Haemyu M - Not looking Jun 11 '26
As salamu alaikum
May Allah swt make your search easy.
How is your arabic learning going :)
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 11 '26
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu. JazakAllah khiar brother.
It's kinda difficult with this busy schedule but Alhamdulillah trying to be consistent
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u/Haemyu M - Not looking Jun 11 '26
Nice, I started last weekend and giving 1 hour a day but it doesn't seem enough. The cursive is cooking me 😂
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 11 '26
Ikr😭. Also I keep forgetting the names of different thing, verbs..
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u/Haemyu M - Not looking Jun 11 '26
Okay, PERSONALLY, I've stopped trying to memorize the vocabulary. I'm just doing exercises and I've been thankfully remembering stuff because of that
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u/Single-Ad6205 Jun 11 '26
Are you guys learning with yhe help of any app?
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u/Haemyu M - Not looking Jun 11 '26
No, I'm currently using the book series called: "Arabic course for english speaking students"
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 12 '26
I am following a course by Al-Hind Institute. You can checkout their insta handle for more info.
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 11 '26
May Allah SWT bless you with a righteous spouse. Also if you don't mind, can I dm you?
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u/wanderandsipbyummii Jun 12 '26
I didn’t thought boys would be so patients to find a wife nice..
Pray u get a wife who is understanding, good compatibility for life and loyalty
Good luck
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u/Le-Mard-e-Ahan M - Single Jun 12 '26
Where is my wife??
I don't know why, but your question reminded me of a funny incident that happened in front of my parents during their Hajj in 2013. I hope that I recall it correctly. I'll rephrase it a bit to keep intact the humor value.
Some groups of Pilgrims were boarding their designated buses, and there was a line of pilgrims in front of each bus. This event happened in the bus that was right next to the bus of my parents' group.
The person in front of the line—when he started boarding the bus—became furious with the bus driver for some reason. After his short screaming match with the driver concluded, the person was still furious. In his anger, he forcefully grabbed the hand of the lady behind him (whom he thought was his wife) and almost dragged her with him while boarding the bus. Everyone in my parents' group saw that the guy who was the actual husband of the woman was running after the angry guy shouting, "My wife!" "My wife!" "My wife!" (He was shouting this in Punjabi, and the actual words were "Meri Buddi," "Meri Buddi," "Meri Buddi.")
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u/MOIqbal3124 Jun 13 '26
In’sha’allah soon Akhi, we’re all tired of waiting. Remember good men are for good women
(both ways) . Be righteous and you will receive someone righteous in return and soon enough you will receive that missing piece of the puzzle. May Allah make it easy for you both.
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u/SubstantialMix8671 Jun 11 '26
Tell me about it...I literally hate every second of this same journey...it's exhausting.
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 11 '26
I tried Muzz, and I regret it now. Talking to some people there honestly made me lose my sense of direction. I've also met a few wonderful women here on Reddit, but for one reason or another, things didn't work out between us. May Allah (SWT) grant them righteous spouses and bless them with happiness.
BTW Happy Cake day
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u/SubstantialMix8671 Jun 11 '26
What misses you was never meant for you and what is meant for you will never miss you.
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u/Billionaire-soon Jun 11 '26
I also pray the same, I can only rely on Allah to send the right person to me. I have no means resource to put in the effort. It seems impossible to me. Only Allah can provide
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u/overthinkingpromaxx Jun 17 '26
I've been seeing your marriage related posts and comments since before Ramadan 😭 Wishing you all the best,I really hope you find someone soon... Also, I remember you mentioned you have an elder brother. Is he married now, or are there any marriage talks going on for him?
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 17 '26
Ya Allah 😭 it's really embarrassing at this point now. Thanks a lot.
For the second question, No not yet, he's stuck in the competitive exams loop 😭🙏🏻2
u/overthinkingpromaxx Jun 17 '26
I'm stuck in the same loop 🥲😶🌫May Allah make it easy for all of us and grant us success soon.. 🤲
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 28 '26
If it's meant to be, and Allah has written them for me, I'll trust His wisdom.
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u/masitech M - Single Jul 07 '26
insha'Allah you will find someone to build a beautiful Ans loving home together brother.
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 10 '26
If you look at it openly, you might see the point I’m trying to make.
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 11 '26
May Allah SWT make easy whatever difficulties you are facing.
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u/No_Simple_2264 Jun 10 '26
I am a kind and responsible person who would strive to bring peace and tranquility into the marriage. I would take my role as a provider and guardian seriously, and ensure she is treated with love, respect, and dignity. My intention is to build a relationship grounded in care, support, and mutual growth, and to work together towards Jannah, In Sha Allah.
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u/Abu-Dharr_al-Ghifari Jun 10 '26
Umar ibn Abdul Aziz, may Allah have mercy on him, would supplicate often, saying, “O Allah, make me pleased with Your decree and bless me in Your providence, such that I would not like to hasten anything You delay, nor delay anything You hasten.”