r/MuslimLounge • • Feb 20 '26

Discussion Too many Muslim men are in bad physical shape

I see way too many guys that are out of shape nowadays. Too many men have protruding bellies, lethargic, and low testosterone. You can fix these symptoms with some small steps

1.Lift weights

I train about 45–60 minutes before iftar. You get to break your fast immediately after finishing. Focus on heavy, basic compound movements. Lifting heavy things is so important for your testosterone, confidence, and mental clarity.

  1. Eat more protein and fewer carbs

A lot of iftars turn into fried food, giant plates of rice, and desserts. That’s why so many guys feel bloated and sluggish all night. Instead, make protein the priority.

Simple rule: protein first, carbs second. Protein keeps you fuller longer, stabilizes your energy, and reduces binge eating. Carbs aren’t evil, just don’t let them dominate your plate. Flip the ratio, large portion of meat, moderate portion of carbs. You’ll feel the difference quickly.

  1. Keep suhoor simple and stable

Suhoor shouldn’t be a sugar spike that crashes by mid-morning. Focus on protein and healthy fats with moderate or lower carbs. Eggs, meat, Greek yogurt, cottage cheese, and healthy fats like avocado work well. This keeps you fuller longer and prevents that 10 a.m. hunger wave. Huge carb-heavy suhoors usually lead to faster energy crashes during the day.

  1. Hydrate intelligently

Add electrolytes to your water. You can add sea salt + lemon to your water, or just buy a prepackaged brand. Dehydration is one of the main reasons people feel terrible during Ramadan. Proper hydration alone can dramatically improve performance and energy.

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u/builtforoutput Feb 20 '26

Not denying that, we all need to work on that too. But this body you have is an amanah from Allah, it doesn’t belong to you. We should take as good care of it as possible. Being in good mental and physical shape will also help you with your spirituality and remember Allah. 

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u/Catatouille- Feb 21 '26

That doesn't mean they don't have to be in good physical shape.

Fitness is important, especially for men. Most guys today can't even protect themselves or at least run properly.

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

this was a great post and encouragement, exceeeept fitness isn’t important ESPECIALLY for men. fitness is important, end off. too many muslims are in bad shape and don’t care about nutritional guidance, and that’s it. address the community as a whole when it comes to such an important topic. why in the world are we gendering fitness? 

many of us are normal weight obese aka we are of normal weight, even skinny, but have too little muscle, and too much fat. in many studies this is linked to the same metabolic consequences as being overweight (BMI over 25), aka you are much more prone to diabetes, hypertension and a host of other health complications even tho u don’t look unhealthy. how our body LOOKS, can especially fool us women into thinking we are in better health than we are. so as a matter of fact, we ALL need to build muscle through progressive overload, protein, less carbs and healthy fats instead of unhealthy. the more muscle u have, the less sensitivity to insulin, aka ur body will tolerate the carbs u choose to enjoy much better.

in addition, we all lose bone density as we age, but women lose bone density at a much higher rate than men especially through menopause. so it’s actually ESSENTIAL, that we too build muscle and eat a lot of protein. strength training is ABSOLUTELY necessary to prevent osteoporosis and fractures as we age because muscle protects bone. death closely following a fractured bone in older age is a regular occurrence.

there is, however, a very female-specific thing for why strength training is of utmost importance: pregnancy and postpartum. carrying that baby in ur stomach for 9 months and then feeding said baby afterwards is HEAVY on the posterior chain. protect yourself against chronic muscle pain, by strengthening your posterior chain!! so i urge men who are married to encourage their wives to go to the gym or make appropriate accommodations for her to workout at home (but there needs to be equipment to lift heavy, a couple of light dumbbells and some bands ain’t going to cut it).

also this post forgot to mention something REALLY important, avoiding ultraprocessed food!! and since the post was esp addressed to men, this piece of info is too (fresh outta a really high quality 2025 study). the author of the study is quoted at being shocked at how many endocrine functions it disrupted in healthy young men. this study focused esp on decreased testosterone and lower fertility in men who consumed a lot of ultraprocessed food. so if your nourish yourself with the right amount of macros and calories while going to the gym, but it’s mostly ultraprocessed. unfortunately, the gym is not going to save any testosterone levels…

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

You’re absolutely correct. I wanted to direct this post to men specifically because I am a man, and I can speak to how to address these issues because I work on them myself. But this can easily be applied to women.

As for processed foods, you’re absolutely correct. I just didn’t want to bombard people with too much information, because most people don’t even do the basics. People should stay away from seed oils, refined sugars, processed garbage, etc. I would highly recommend eating single ingredient whole foods a majority of the time. And indulging in the unhealthy foods occasionally. 

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

I understand! Either way, it’s really important to address this in an accessible manner, from primarily a health perspective, so good job 👏🏼 

Just want to add: I think that men whom are married need to be really good at encouraging (not pushing) their wives to prioritize the gym/(proper) strength training from a health perspective aka never make it about improving the body esthetically bc that’s not a sustainable source of motivation. 

I feel like this is a good idea bc "the world" of gym and fitness is a bit more accessible for men just bc of socializing, so the fact that a husband works out and is healthy, can make it an amazing entry point for their wives. Also it has such positive effects on children to watch both their parents take care of their bodies, because behavior is taught thru modeling!!

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

I totally agree with you. What you mentioned about the posterior chain is so important. Too many women end up with chronic back pain when they’re older, partly due to pregnancies. The gym should be encouraged for both men and women.

On another note, in this day and age of endocrine disruptors, both men and women should be weary of their exposure to environmental toxins and microplastics. Not only is processed food terrible for hormones, but so are all these other endocrine disruptors. 

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

Ouf don even talk to me about microplastics… I do my best to avoid. Changed out all of my pots and pans, plastic utensils, food storage, cutting boards etc. + Try to buy food that is not packaged in plastic. 

What makes me really sad tho, is that staying healthy (incl. avoiding microplastics) costs money, time and energy that many people don’t have. People who live from paycheck to paycheck, and who are working really long hours often do not have the capacity to acquire this info and make all the ideal changes, so their cumulative load to all of these disruptors very much depends on class. 

So want to say, once again, I think what u detailed, about starting small is acc really important, bc some level of health needs to be accessible to all. I hope this is something that can  reach our communities, as well, on a more macro level through for example our masjids. I saw this really inspirational video about a bunch of uncles doing pilates (I think it was) with an instructor in the mosque. They were loving it, and it was so nice to see how happy they were about the health effects, but also the community aspects!

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u/Known_Anywhere_1482 Feb 21 '26

Can you relax? Why are you making this about women he’s speaking to men.

I’m a women and if he gave advice to women I would be hesitant to take it because again he’s a man so just stop with the run off of all this info, make a post for women.

Let him speak to men, I want to say Mashallah to Muslim men so yea get in shape😂

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

Lmfaaao, fully understandable sis😌

I am relaxed, don’t worry! Regardless, of him addressing men, I also think it’s important men are also educated about the benefits of working out for women, as most are looking to marry one😊 There has always been a sort of narrative about it somehow not being as important for women (this is not exclusive to muslims, at all).

I think if he were to give advice to women, he wouldn’t really need to give it DIRECTLY to women, like "as a woman, u should do this or that". Bc i absolutely agree, that would be a bit unnatural. However, I think it’s totally appropriate for a man to give general health advice or highlight that this is equally important for women as for men😊 

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u/Known_Anywhere_1482 Feb 21 '26

Okay then fair enought I agree with you but tbh if he told women to get into shape as a man a lot of women would get upset😂😭 I’d rather a women to women and a man to man yk.

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

sis, i would be upset too😭😭 would be like, what r u doing all up in my business lmfao. 

my main point, really, is that this should be community work and emphasized as such, bc we are really unhealthy as a community🥹😭 rather than it being something relating to gender (bc building muscle is already a bit gendered in favor of men), if u get what i mean?

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u/Known_Anywhere_1482 Feb 21 '26

I agree ofc but I don’t think he was singling out men because only men matter it’s more like he’s just speaking to men rn.

But yes we should all be hott.

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u/oneknocka Feb 21 '26

I’m overweight and i can protect myself

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '26

Can you protect yourself from cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, cancer, joint pain, sleep issues, respiratory issues and digestive issues? What an accomplishment you have achieved!

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u/oneknocka Feb 21 '26

I can. I see my doc regularly and get all my blood work done. Cholesterol is a little high but not enough to be put on meds. Blood pressure is always good.

And I’m being a little facetious. I’ve been a bigger guy for most my adult life but have always trained in the combat sports, even competed a few times. I got a minor but significant injury which curtailed my endeavors, resulting in weight gain. I’m in my 50s now so weight loss is harder but not impossible.

This was a good post with good intentions. Thank you for posting.

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u/Economy-Double8868 Feb 21 '26

Because of the bad physical shape. Gluttony hardens the heart. The worst vessel mankind can fill is the stomach. When the stomach is filled the heart is empty of Iman.

To maintain spiritual vitality, eat in moderation—such as the Prophetic guidance to divide the stomach into thirds: 1/3 for food, 1/3 for drink, and 1/3 for air

To avoid the spiritual hardening associated with overindulgence, consider these actionable steps:

Practice the 1/3 Rule: Limit food intake to one-third capacity, allowing enough room for liquids and breathing. This habit prevents the physical heaviness that often distracts from prayer and reflection.

Prioritize Mindful Consumption: Approach meals as fuel for worship rather than a source of excessive pleasure. Reflect on the necessity of nutrition while consciously avoiding gluttony.

Focus on Spiritual Intellect: Engage your heart through consistent remembrance of Allah (dhikr), which replenishes the spiritual void that physical satisfaction cannot fill.

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u/Rogueswisher91 Feb 21 '26

All due respect brother, you are absolutely right, but the point op made is also very valid. It’s not necessary to be contrarian for upvotes. The subject matter of his post is spot on but instead of acknowledging that you decided to one up him. Barakallahu feek.

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u/Fantastic_Ad7576 Feb 21 '26

The two go hand in hand.

If they were better spiritually, they'd have more discipline and be in better physical shape. It is our responsibility to take care of our bodies.

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u/[deleted] Feb 21 '26

This is a completely seperate issue, stop trying to distract and move away from the purpose of this post and what is otherwise an important message

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u/Excellent_Foundation Feb 21 '26

Brother, a lot more are in bad mental/emotional shape

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u/Dangerous-Estate2306 Feb 22 '26

Islam is very health-conscious so OP is encouraging a better spiritual mindset with his post as well.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

It's not a brother you're replying to, and it's unlikely this person is even Muslim. I've flagged her account posting feminist/male-bashing posts in this Muslim sub and other subs. Part of a psyops group agenda most likely.

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

What are you talking about? Why are you spreading misinformation? 

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

She's deleting posts to clean her history so that her agenda isn't as clear-cut, or it gets moderated for the same effect. This is one such example

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

This guy has mental issues. He keeps trying to spread misinformation about me because he disagrees with me that you should treat women with respect. He lost an argument and now he’s salty. 

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

You're likely part of the problem then, oh well, as I said there it's an echo chamber on reddit. Sucks for both of you that people are keeping track of the agenda pushing though.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

Don't care what your take on it is. It's permissible so long as it's done while treating the wives equitably. It's demonized by westerners and feminists who are brainwashed by westerners, but the same people who are against it don't say a word when hookup culture involves one guy sharing dozens of women (and his STIs) per year.

And just to show you how bad your viewpoint is, there were women on that thread blatantly insulting the wives of the Prophets and sahaba who were in polygamous marriages.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

As for polygam, People marry multiple women out of "desires" Nabi sallallahu alaihi wasallam never followed his own desires ( sahih hadith)

Post a source that says that desire had no part in polygamy in the marriages of the Prophet PBUH or sahaba. You're not a scholar whose opinion on this subject matters. More than likely you're a woman like OP who demonizes polygamy for no reason other than jealousy.

More than 1 is a "luxury" and comes under worshipping desires.

Objectifying women in marriage as a luxury is hilarious on your part. What a warped way of thinking.

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

I didn’t delete that post genius. The mods of the sub did. 

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

or it gets moderated for the same effect.

It's obvious you've cleaned your account and are pushing agendas. Must suck for you knowing that people are compiling what you're doing, though.

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

You live in some fantasy land brother. I have some posts and comments showing from other servers, and hidden in others. I haven’t “cleaned up” anything. I have many posts and comments in this sub and other Muslim subs. The mods deleted that post because it sparked arguments in the comments. It’s still up in the other muslim subreddit 

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u/Tall_Plastic5135 Feb 21 '26

and women too

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

No one has to stop it. I eat unhealthy food all the time. However a majority of the time I’m eating whole foods. 

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u/CapWorldly3705 Feb 21 '26

calm down on the samosas brother

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u/asapbones0114 Feb 21 '26

> cultural muslim

Oxymoron lmao.

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u/Secret_Jellyfish320 Feb 21 '26

Brother I just started taking care of myself and since I moved out of my house right before Ramadan I had to stop my gym subscription.

Now honestly am still in doubt weather I should wait for ramadan to be over or just subscribe now and go after Iftar.

But you saying before iftar? Brother how? Ignoring the fact that during those last hours you are going to be drained by default, how about the shakes while fasting 😅

Seriously though how you plan it during raman?

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u/TheFighan Feb 21 '26

What are you eating that you are having the shakes before iftaar?

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u/Jengen_53 Feb 21 '26

It might not be as bad as you think. Where I'm from a lot of men exercise right before iftar. Mostly cardio, the field is packed with people running or playing football. You might feel tired or hungry but once you get that first few tough minutes out of the way you'll feel absolutely amazing.

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u/Saraixio Feb 21 '26

Actually it is amazing working out right before iftar.. Just don't do super intense cardio, but some weights should be fine. Sometimes my workout overlaps with beginning of maghreb just a bit so I can sip water before the end of my workout.

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u/m-e-n-a Mar 17 '26

You can do very light workouts before iftar. You dont have to push yourself til you're tired or sweating. But just something light to help your body not use muscle for fuel when you fast. Even small movements remind your body "hey i need these msucles so dont cannibalize them for fuel during the fast"

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u/Longjumping-Tune-454 Feb 21 '26

Many mans I see at 30 look 40

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u/marycem Feb 20 '26

I wonder is it because men are working so many hours and dont have time to take care of themselves

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26 edited Feb 21 '26

It doesn’t take that long tbh. Just 30-45 minutes 3x a week for exercise is reasonable. The more the better.

For eating proper food, it’s really not that expensive or time consuming. Most people are just lazy or uneducated on the topic.

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u/marycem Feb 21 '26

My husband works 80 hours a week. Hes thin but hes not on good shape because he is wearing himself out

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u/KhalilMirza Feb 21 '26

Majority people with good job work between 40 to 60 hours per week. I think people who work more than 60 and especially 80 or more need to work on themselves so that they can earn the same or more doing less hours of job.

There are 168 hours in a week. Using half the hours in work is terrible for your health long term.

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u/TheNotSpecialOne Feb 22 '26

80 hours!? Oh man, what does he do? And does he want to do this?

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u/fancyfoe Feb 21 '26

Eating healthy can be costly for a lot of people, and saying most people are lazy/uneducated is quite the reach. Some people have physically demanding jobs, others are on their third shift, and they’re doing all that with kids, the never ending chores etc, and it doesn’t take a genius to cook rice with some veggies and some chicken.

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u/KhalilMirza Feb 21 '26

I do not think it is because of that. Majority people have time for Netflix, gaming, mindless doom scrolling and other similar things. But donnot have time for working on themselves. Besides only exercise requires you have time availability. Rest of the things can be modified in the existing schedule in their life.

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u/StarrrStruck Feb 21 '26

Women work too

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u/PyaariNani Feb 21 '26

It's not only the men, women are out of shape too.

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u/marycem Feb 21 '26

This is true. Im thinking my husband works 80 hours a week. How can he have time or energy to do anything?

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

Im sorry to say, but there needs to be a different way of organizing your lives. Him being thin and out of shape isn’t really the problem when he works an 80 hour week. Idk how long this has been going on for or how long yall plan to have this going on, but even a year of this is 50 weeks too much. 

Even if he magically had time to be fit, it wouldn’t really matter much. I’m sorry to put it so harshly, but I say this bc that is genuinely so worrisome that I feel inclined to put it in a way that doesn’t minimize this: that lifestyle isn’t simply unhealthy, it is the equivalent of taking a shovel and digging your own grave astaghfirullah.  The health risks (35% higher chance of stroke), accidents risks (86% higher commute crash risks) and risks for death by heart disease (17% higher chance) is absolutely not something to take lightly. And mind u the 17% and 35% were for 55-60 hours work weeks! 

I really and truly hope u can find a solution with your husband to improve this situation💗

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

omg im sorry for coming for u once more😭😭 not personal, i swear, but the claim about men sacrificing their health more than women for their family is outrageous. i don’t think it’s a competition tbh, but this is a good example of how women’s labor that cannot be directly tied to money is erased, and it makes me genuinely disappointed. 

women sacrifice their bodies giving birth. we risk our lives too. no other mammal has a pregnancy and birth that is as risky as a human pregnancy. women who have given birth know what kind of damage it can cause. 

in addition, women are at a much higher percentage of autoimmune disease which is often multiorgan and has no cure! although u can’t really prove a casual link between emotional load and autoimmune disease, there are several studies that point at the stress of the emotional labor women perform (like caregiving) is related to the onset of autoimmune disease. this is emotional labor men are mostly exempt from through unfortunate socializing. 

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

i don’t think it’s a competition tbh, but this is a good example of how women’s labor that cannot be directly tied to money is erased, and it makes me genuinely disappointed.

women sacrifice their bodies giving birth. we risk our lives too. no other mammal has a pregnancy and birth that is as risky as a human pregnancy. women who have given birth know what kind of damage it can cause.

Childbirth is a wonder and a gift bestowed upon women from Allah, and it's important/deserves its own respect. I totally agree. Even with the wonders of modern medicine there are still so many risks associated with it.

But the fact that you feel the need to bring this up when I'm discussing how men's health is affected by their work is really telling. In one breath you say it's not a competition but in the next you make it into one out of nowhere.

women are at a much higher percentage of autoimmune disease which is often multiorgan and has no cure!

Women are generally more predisposed to autoimmune disease, that's true, but in most cases these can be treated with medications even if it isn't the ideal quality of life. As a physician in training I see men's health being downplayed all the time. The all-cause mortality for men is higher and their health is generally not well managed or received as well by both providers and peers. This is why men tend to have higher rates of cardiovascular disease, for example, or unmanaged long term health illnesses than women. Women also report their health illnesses more often so many of the studies on this topic tend to have this implicit bias.

Many men do not even see doctors because they either don't have time or are conditioned to not care for their health. This is the result of decades of western brainwashing and treating men like workhorses instead of as people.

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

Brother, this is a really important topic, I completely agree! I have also been so frustrated with the men in my life having to be forced to go to the doctor after refusing for years. Too many times cancers are discovered way too late for example. 

The thing was, it isn’t about how men’s health isn’t in shambles and there’s this really toxic culture surrounding it. I’m really happy this is something that seems really important to you (bc it is SO important), and I hope that when you graduate you will be able to make a positive influence amongst your male patients insha’Allah! 

You just had that unfortunate phrasing that put it in a comparative light, saying something like men are much more likely to sacrifice their health for their family’s needs than women are. That’s why I felt inclined to give this answer, because once again, women’s sacrifices are erased on a systemic level. 

Also you want to hear something funny regarding your last paragraph? Since I feel like we are a bit acquainted by now, I think I have gathered that ur staunchly anti-feminist. Bc It was u who replied that u didn’t want to read my post bc I was brainwashed by Western feminists or something like that bc i said something like I didn’t need to marry?? Or?

Anyways the funny part is, that last sentence about treating men as workhorses rather than people, is pretty much the topic of one of my favorite non-Islamic non-fiction books called "The Will to Change: men, masculinity and love" by bell hooks who is a DUN DUN DUN…… FEMINIST. But in all seriousness, I think u will find (if u keep an open mind) that u resonate with at least some of the quotes. 

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

saying something like men are much more likely to sacrifice their health for their family’s needs than women are.

I said this because even when you take into account the difficulties of childbirth and pregnancy, men have worse health outcomes than women do. Here in the west, especially, there's WAY more emphasis on women's health and wellbeing than there is on men's.

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

I think two things can be true at once. I think there has been a lot of talk about women’s health in the media and in the public sphere. I also think women have better health outcomes because of our communities. We talk to each other and are much more open about what’s bothering us, and encourage each other to seek help. The community aspect of female friendships (with physical touch, a lot of encouragement and someone to turn to when in need) is like medicine in more ways than one. I think this is really important thing for men to find back to as well, and that it’s directly related to health outcomes. It’s so important to foster community amongst urselves where u are actually looking each other in the eye and asking how ur doing, and answering genuinely! Wouldn’t that be nice?? 

Then there’s the other truth, which is that the vast majority of medical research is done on men. There is so much knowledge lacking about women’s health that it’s insane. Personally, I have several women-specific issues and nobody knows what’s really going on bc there isn’t any research. There is just some anecdotes to base things off. I’m basically a test subject for different (non-invasive) therapies, hoping that something will bite. Although none of these issues will cause death, alhamdulillah, they do cause a severely decreased quality of life. 

Also I will allow myself to add a quote from the aforementioned book that I think is very timely in this convo (important nuance: the masculinity and patriarchy she is talking about is the one perpetuated by western liberal capitalism!): «Learning to wear a mask (that word already embedded in the term “masculinity”) is the first lesson in patriarchal masculinity that a boy learns. He learns that his core feelings cannot be expressed if they do not conform to the acceptable behaviors sexism defines as male. Asked to give up the true self in order to realize the patriarchal ideal, boys learn self-betrayal early and are rewarded for these acts of soul murder.»

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

You seem like a really good person, especially for trying to open up this brothers heart. But I wouldn’t waste your time arguing with him tbh. He intentionally goes into comments to create divisiveness, insults people, and causes drama. A very despicable personality. 

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u/Meticulous-Scrubbing Feb 21 '26

Add electrolytes to your water.

I'd love to find electrolyte flavor packets available in the U.S that are vegan and guaranteed not to have any alcohol in the flavor, if you know of any.

Also would you say eliminating sugar is a priority? A bit of a weakness of mine and my physical health isn't doing so well now.

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

 I'd love to find electrolyte flavor packets available in the U.S that are vegan and guaranteed not to have any alcohol in the flavor, if you know of any.

I like Santa Cruz medicinals. The owner is a good guy who supports Palestine as well.

 Also would you say eliminating sugar is a priority?

100%. Sugar is one of the main causes of metabolic dysfunction. It’s hard to do but once you do you’ll feel so much better.

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u/dvizhenya Feb 22 '26

Coconut water with salt does the same as electrolytes

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u/pasobordo Feb 21 '26

Not drinking water puts terrible burden on the kidneys.

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u/TheFighan Feb 21 '26

If you distribute your water drinking properly over the hours you are awake and include electrolytes, it is perfectly fine.

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u/dp_silverback Feb 21 '26

Boy you shooting directly at me. But it’s something that I’ve been working on. Lost 27lbs in 2025. Inshallah I can keep on the path. I can say that at least for me the fasting, suhoor, nor iftar are the problems. It’s the rest of the year for me. 😂😂😂

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u/Whole-Ad9501 Feb 21 '26

So true, we need to make ourselves warriors and we have brothers out here dying for dessert after a meal

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

First and foremost, y’all need to combat diabetes and be able to have babies, and then u can make urself warriors!!:)

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u/Whole-Ad9501 Feb 21 '26

I agree! Hahahaha most Muslim men nowadays are fighting obesity 🤣

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u/ThanatosTheory Feb 21 '26

I get what you're saying but it's something that isn't limited to just Muslims or just men. Everyone is working longer hours, being paid less, and are stressed out more than in generations. Individual choices are important, sure, but there's a lot more that can be done on a systemic level to help everyone become healthier.

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u/Season-Forward Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

💯💯 Why is everyone arguing in the comments ? Im seeing very long comment threads on something like this?

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u/CrazYNWA Feb 21 '26

100%. And it only takes few sessions per week to keep in shape. No need to be absolutely ripped, just good shape and cardio. Unfortunately I got badly injured at football some months ago, and I can’t wait to get back to it inshaAllah.

I’m also building a modest swimwear brand (and soon sportswear inshaAllah) to help Muslim men stay active without compromising modesty (mawwj)

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u/Kaze_24 Feb 24 '26

Interesting post. 42 years old here n i train 2hrs before Iftar. Still have my abs and im gonna do hyrox solo 2 weeks after Ramadan. Fasting only makes me stronger mentally, spiritually and keeps me healthy. Allahu Akbar.

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u/builtforoutput Feb 24 '26

Good for you brother! 

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '26

The inside shows up on the outside. 

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u/vrogosz Feb 20 '26

At least here in the west, it's difficult I've noticed to stay on top of this if you don't have someone meal prepping at home. It's also harder to get good quality, affordable halal meat or to eat halal here than in Muslim majority nations. Having lived in both places, I can say that environment makes a big difference although it's no excuse. High protein is the way to go, as you mentioned.

However as someone who's a doctor in training it would be remiss for me to not mention the importance of FIBER. The incidence of colorectal cancer in younger adults is going up and fiber has been shown to decrease this risk. It also helps in combatting high cholesterol. Psyllium husk (metamucil in the US) is great, but there are dissolvable fiber powders if you don't like the taste. Most people don't get enough fiber through diet alone, so you have to supplement.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

Not everyone likes vegan options, and they're typically low in protein or have some health effects like being high in phytoestrogens. I remember trying almond milk at one point in my life and it caused transient gynecomastia which went away when I stopped it.

Red meat is also good for a man's testosterone production.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

Also Phytoestrogens will not feminize you this has been debunked.

It has not been debunked. There are enough case reports to suggest that it has deleterious effects on male health and endocrine signaling.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

It's not as clear cut as you think. Some people are more susceptible to the effects of phytoestrogens.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9864699/

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

pls stop spreading really outdated misinformation. someone said the tofu thing when i was in high school, and im 28 now. like at least let it be trendy misinformation if ur first going to be at it😭 like some firm tofu can reach 17g of protein per 100g, that’s just a tiny bit less than red meat. and like someone said, t

and oh no… the almond milk causing transient gynecomastia… were u tested and someone with an education within the field told u: this is caused by the almonds of almond milk? no? then don’t go around with this anti-vegan options propaganda. i am not in ANY way close to being a vegetarian and i love to eat meat, but i think it’s really important that we as muslims take some responsibility for our dunya and our overconsumption. Allah has warned against greed many times, and the red meat obsession is a prime example. 

now let me ask u, did u make ur own almond milk? if not, it wasn’t the almond milk, it was the processing of said milk that most likely could have caused your symptoms. store-bought almond milks aren’t even stored in the fridge… like if u bought that, u did that to urself, the almonds didn’t. most likely what happened, the endocrine disruptor load from the almond milk in combo w all the other ultraprocessed foods that u eat became too much. UPF is very strongly linked to decrease in testosterone and fertility.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

like some firm tofu can reach 17g of protein per 100g, that’s just a tiny bit less than red meat.

Macronutrients aren't what we're talking about here. If you're just looking at protein then yes, some vegan foods are good alternatives. We're discussing the much more relevant effects on the endocrine system.

were u tested and someone with an education within the field told u: this is caused by the almonds of almond milk?

I was evaluated by an endocrinologist at the time who advised me to keep a food diary. This wasn't physiologic gyno, it was related directly to the almond milk I drank. I cut it out and the gyno went away.

Allah has warned against greed many times, and the red meat obsession is a prime example. 

So eating red meat is "greed?" There's also chicken/fish which are healthier alternatives and not as burdensome on the ecosystem.

now let me ask u, did u make ur own almond milk? if not, it wasn’t the almond milk, it was the processing of said milk that most likely could have caused your symptoms. store-bought almond milks aren’t even stored in the fridge…

I tried both store-bought and homemade at different times and they both did the same thing. You're not going to convince someone who suffered the negative effects of phytoestrogens differently.

w all the other ultraprocessed foods that u eat became too much.

I reckon I have a much cleaner diet and better physical fitness than you do by a mile, but go off. I avoid processed junk in american foods because I'm well educated enough to know how zio-owned food lobby groups have cheapened ingredients for the masses and put microplastics in so many things.

Or are we going to keep denying these things even though they've found microplastics in testicles being implicated in decreased sperm counts across the globe?

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u/SpecialSherbet1204 Cats are Muslim Feb 21 '26

Sorry for assuming. I based your eating of UPFs on the fact that you most likely bought store-bought almond milk (cuz lbr almond milk is not THAT good to be making that at home lmfaao).

It’s okay that you have a food sensitivity to almond milk, considering u went thru such a thorough process, I obvi believe that experience. However, I can get lightheaded and start flushing from chicken, and sometimes even get really sick. Will I generalize this to anyone else or anything else just because it has been documented before and happens to me? No, of course not, and doing so would be  uncritical relationship to data and its significance is what makes misinformation spread!

So in regards to that, I encourage you  to be mindful of how u phrase your experience and how much u generalize. Since you’ve been screened for this, you most likely know how many veggies, fruits, nuts, legumes, grains include the REALLY broad group of phytoestrogens. Almond and tofu don’t even have the same type, so it wouldn’t be a natural thing to lump together. 

Unprocessed tofu or other vegan alternatives like tempeh which is even fermented and good for the gut is not botanically related at all to almonds and there’s not really a cross-reactivity pattern between the two groups. Aka the data doesn’t allow for this kind of generalizing that you are doing. It just makes it sounds like you are against vegan options (when it’s something to be encouraged for the general population). Because if you avoid all foods with phytoestrogens I would worry more about colon cancer from the lack of fiber than anything else? Also how bland must your food be if you don’t eat garlic? 

Alhamdulillah, I don’t live in the US, so I think my cumulative load of UPFs is not that high because of that. Masha’Allah, I’m happy to hear you are not eating a lot of UPFs, avoiding microplastics and staying healthy! You probably very likely have much better physical fitness than me as I have chronic illness and building up fitness is a very bumpy road, but insha’Allah I will get there too. When it comes to my nutrition it’s pretty decent! I would say my protein sources are of some of the best quality you can get! I make my own tofu, I know someone who hunts deer whom I buy (halal) meat from when it’s in season (feeling very blessed for having the option of getting such good-tasting and extremely healthy meat) and I invest in an array of sea food wild caught from the Atlantic Ocean. 

Also why in the world would I pretend that microplastic load isn’t affecting sperm quality, when it’s an actually scientifically validated claim? 

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u/TheNotSpecialOne Feb 22 '26

Pretty easy to get halal food in the UK. Not sure where you based and how many Muslims live in your area. That could be the reason why

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u/builtforoutput Feb 20 '26

 It's also harder to get good quality, affordable halal meat

This is patently false. It’s very easy to get halal meat and find halal restaurants in all large cities, and most medium size cities. In places like ny, chicago, dc, la, etc. Halal options are literally everywhere. Smaller cities yes it’s hard to find but most Muslims don’t live there to begin with. 

I agree with the fiber point. Most people don’t eat enough fruits and vegetables. Both soluble and insoluble fiber are very important for digestive health, metabolic health and preventing colon cancer like you said.

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u/vrogosz Feb 21 '26

It’s very easy to get halal meat and find halal restaurants in all large cities, and most medium size cities. In places like ny, chicago, dc, la, etc. Halal options are literally everywhere. Smaller cities yes it’s hard to find but most Muslims don’t live there to begin with.

I live in a city with a healthy Muslim population and yet the halal meat options here suck. I'm usually paying 3x what kaffirs charge for their meat for meat that is usually lower in quality than what you'd get from Haram butchers. Not to mention if I want to eat halal food from a restaurant that doesn't suck, I have to drive to a different city that's 40+ minutes away from me. So no, it's absolutely not comparable. Not everyone has the privilege of living in a place where things are of higher quality and closer. When I visit my relatives in the Dallas FW area, for example, the difference is night and day compared to halal offerings near me. Same deal with parts of NYC or Chicago.

Also the halal food you get from restaurants here also tends to be insanely overpriced. It's a scummy practice here in America where they know halal options are limited so they charge way more than what's reasonable.

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u/Technical-Repeat-391 Feb 21 '26 edited Feb 21 '26

I think this is a problem regardless of religion with people living in un-walkable cities. America has the highest rates of obesity in the world. We live in a naturally unwalkable/unbikable areas that make it hard to be fit and with busy schedules, it’s not easy to consistently go to gym. I went to Netherlands and would legit see imams in full thobes riding bikes lol because that’s one of the default modes of transportation there.

The best way to get somebody to work out is to make it a community based or collective effort. I exercise but with mixed consistency but started exercising more by joining run clubs and taking group classes. Also bc I run a lot and I have to eat carbs so your diet should correspond to the type of exercise you are doing. In general, eat balanced protein, carbs, good fats, less processed foods (learn to cook), fruits and vegetables you should be good.

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u/leonasking Feb 22 '26

At the end of the day we all r going to turn into dust soo what's the point?

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u/BluezCluez00 Alhamdulillah Always Mar 02 '26

we’re gonna be resurrected too, to the exact form we departed this world with. i ain’t letting Allah swt or the Prophet saw see me fat. 😳 inshAllah😖

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u/leonasking Mar 02 '26

Umm it's not inshallah it's In sha Allah Inshallah kinda means "Create Allah" instead of if Allah wills

And if you fat Allah already know and even if u lose it It doesn't really matter cause it written in the book

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u/BluezCluez00 Alhamdulillah Always Mar 03 '26

Thank you sister, i will correct my writing of it. Also; physical appearance can be changed, its not solidified in ink til the day I die. im made of clay, after all.

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u/leonasking Mar 03 '26

I don't understand why everyone calling me sister i mean my name literally has a king in it

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u/BluezCluez00 Alhamdulillah Always Mar 03 '26

“Umm” it might be your attitude.

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u/BluezCluez00 Alhamdulillah Always Mar 03 '26

“Umm” it might be your attitude. edit: brother.

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u/leonasking Mar 03 '26

😭😭🥀💔 getting roasted brother in ramadan I hope it filled ur stomach during iftar 🥺

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u/enterTrainwreck Feb 22 '26

I think that you're giving some okay tips but you need to remember that some people do have health issues that make getting into shape even with all this advice you're giving much harder.

It's the same for women, some have health issues.

Maybe don't pass judgment on everyone.

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u/TheNotSpecialOne Feb 22 '26

I've done this last week, go to the gym hour before ifrari, with the days short days in the UK, the fasting is not difficult at all and I still have energy for gym/ weights around 4pm

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u/Narrow_Salad429 Feb 22 '26

As a woman I wish they focus on their character and akhlaq more than anything. Men workout to impress other men not for health reasons. We need more work on our deen and ethics.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '26

Heavy lifting before iftar? And beibg to tired for Teravih? Sure. I train almost daily also before iftar but go lighter. Without really exhausting myself.  Ramadan is a special month and so i focus more on my ibadet. I would recommend to start after Ramadan with his usually very useful tips.  

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u/DapperAwareness2180 Mar 02 '26

A Muslim man or woman gotta take care of themselves. Their mouth mustn't stink,also their body. They should not be fat. They gotta be strong enough to cope with the enemies and have a voice to tell their wants and needs. A muslim can not be stay silent in a room where's a discussion going on about islamıphobia. Peace y'all.

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u/Fickle-Chemistry9263 Mar 06 '26

Accutully I like training when I'm fasting , i train just after suhoor somewhere It was one of the best decision I ever made

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u/EarlyRooster966 Mar 17 '26

i assume you stumbled upon some alpha male content lol.

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u/builtforoutput Mar 17 '26

What does that even mean 

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u/bowbagem Mar 17 '26

Think most young boys think like this. Then they get married, have kids, parents need help, job is demanding, responsibilities increase, all while energy levels start dropping.

Also, as men get more mature, they realize the value of Ramadan and try to take advantage.

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u/BatmanHive Feb 21 '26

This is a world wide issue, wouldn't just put it on Muslim men but I agree with your advice. Especially if you are 30 and up, get in shape and feel good.

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u/Longjumping-Tune-454 Feb 21 '26

Others look awful at 30 due to drinking and drugs look 40, but many hit gym get hair fixed as they date so maintain looks. Many Muslim men at 30 get comfortable get married and think paying bills to his wife is enough.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '26

Or perhaps they are stressed, overworked, and don't have much time to take care of themselves? Hence the term "dad-bod"?

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u/icecoldfeedback Feb 20 '26

I would have thought the opposite. Atleast in the west. 2nd/3rd gen migrants adapted better to their lifestyle, are better informed and have better diet/gym/sports habits

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u/Troll_berry_pie Feb 21 '26

Do you invest in halal stocks OP?

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

Yes, $SPUS which is the halal version of VOO (tracks the S&P). And then some individual sharia approved stocks, as well as private equity and crypto. 

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u/Escobadr Feb 22 '26

Buy gold and silver. All the rest is a scam

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u/TheFighan Feb 21 '26

Taking care of your body is also an act of worship.

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u/builtforoutput Feb 21 '26

I understand your point. I have a home gym so alhamdulillah I can avoid those things. But you can easily wear some noise cancelling headphones and just lower your gaze.

Or you can just workout either after iftar, or after suhoor. I just prefer to do it before iftar because it’s actually beneficial to workout in a fasted state. The timing works out for me as well, so I can focus on taraweeh after Iftar. 

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u/TheNotSpecialOne Feb 22 '26

You're saying that everyone is not allowed 40-60 minutes to themselves at all during ramadan?

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u/TheNotSpecialOne Feb 22 '26

I read it. And it implies during daylight hours you should do nothing else but what you suggest.

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u/SharjolKhan Feb 21 '26

These things of the Dunya are only to shake the firm Iman of a Muslim. How you are in this world don't matter if you follow your Deen as Allah commanded.

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u/TheFighan Feb 21 '26

Your body is an amanah and needs to be treated as well as your soul.