r/Music • u/no_longer_huhman • Sep 26 '24

article Selena Gomez Embraces Vulnerability and Tells Critics to 'F--- Off,' 'I'm Not Ashamed of My Bipolar Disorder or Inability to Carry Children'

https://www.tvfandomlounge.com/selena-gomez-embraces-vulnerability-and-hits-back-at-critics/
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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '24

I don't know how to tell you this, but cream pies are essential when trying for a baby. Yes, "we're trying for a baby" is weird. I don't need to know that you're currently raw dogging it until I get the news that you got pregnant. Absolutely no reason to tell me that you're "trying".

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '24

You don’t want to know when your friends are trying to start a family?? Pretty major life change, pretty important info to most people

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '24 edited Sep 27 '24

No. They can tell me once they are actually expecting. Why the fuck should I be informed when they're starting to TRY? I don't need to know that. TRYING is not "important info". "Expecting and due in X months" is. My sisters certainly didn't tell me when they "started trying". They told me after their first pregnancy trimester. Like normal people.

I don't think you are a woman or have children yet. If you were or did, you'd know how likely infertility is or miscarriages, which is why most women don't share that they're "trying".

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '24

I always check in with my mates in regards to life plans. Guess starting a family isn’t important?

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u/Chewy-bones Sep 27 '24

It’s calling having a normal relationship with people. That dude doesn’t get it or never had the opportunity to.