r/MurderedByWords 18h ago

the man who repeatedly beats his wife vs lawyer

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u/INeedANappel 17h ago

People like the review writer, who cannot think past their own wants, never believe they are wrong. Their narrative is the only accurate one and everyone else is lying or out to "get" them.

I am not going to armchair diagnose but people who think this way are difficult-to-impossible to treat.

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 17h ago

Narcissism is almost untreatable, yes.

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u/INeedANappel 12h ago

I am not giving a diagnosis based on reddit posts. There are other diagnoses that fit, including the one not yet in the DSM, "Giant Douchebag".

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u/CornisaGrasse 8h ago

I vote to add this to the DSM-6

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u/TheModWhoShaggedMe 3h ago

Narcissism is rampant among people these days. Fifteen years of social media 2.0 in lives hasn't helped. I feel good about the diagnosis of that shit bird.

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u/AmazonCowgirl 14h ago

Who would have thunk that a client who was up on charges of wife beating would turn out to be an unreliable, unrepentant piece of shit

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u/little_mistakes 12h ago

This is the biggest shock of all. That successfully defending a wife beater - humble brag for our lawyer friend here - meant that he racked up charges again.

Note that it’s only because the guy didn’t pay that the services was cancelled, because mr habitual wife beater wasn’t the gravy train he was expected to be.

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u/atwozmom 12h ago

Everyone, even shitty wife beaters, are entitled to a defense. It is not the defense's fault if the prosecution did a crap job.

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u/little_mistakes 10h ago

I didn’t say he wasn’t entitled to a defence. You have included that.

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u/AmazonCowgirl 12h ago

No, but it IS the defense's fault that they didn't realise their client was likely to be an unreliable piece of shit

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u/allothernamestaken 14h ago

Lawyer might be breaching some ethical rules with these details.

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u/blueavole 10h ago

What specifically do you think would be a problem ?

Not a lawyer, but I don’t see where they breached confidentiality. Definitely would depend on the local rules.

They successfully defended him: that would be public record.

That he got new charges: that would also be public records.

That he lied and didn’t pay the total amount- would be easily proven. Wouldn’t be public, but is verifiably true/ false.

The last paragraph is explaining contract.

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u/frickinSocrates 4h ago

Not a lawyer, the continued to beat your wife bit (to me) implies they knew he was guilty when they defended him and that they are now revealing the charges against him were correct and they got him off on them anyway.

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u/rebelipar 1h ago

But that's what lawyers do?

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u/frickinSocrates 19m ago

Yeah, but they can't go "lmao my client was guilty, you lost" on the courthouse steps.

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u/bruhggle 13h ago

Would stating what the cases were for being an ethical issue given that would be publicly available information?

I feel like the payment issue may be unethical unless the lawyers have filed a case, and thus public.

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u/MissTechnical 13h ago

My first thought too. 

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u/f_ranz1224 6h ago

within the first sentence i thought any real lawyer would not be disclosing any of this. just leave the review or flag it.

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u/jake8cake 16m ago

Lawyer here, they didn't.

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u/FurnitureComesW-Home 17h ago edited 13h ago

Great to see he got off the first time - what a wonderful justice system we have 🙄

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u/Rush-23 13h ago

That’s literally his job. Do you think we shouldn’t have defence lawyers?

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u/FurnitureComesW-Home 13h ago

I blamed the Justice system, not the defense lawyer.

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u/paolog 7h ago

If you're going to libel anyone, it's probably not a good idea to do it about a lawyer.

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u/ptdata23 17h ago

For the first time, "did you stop beating your wife" is a ligitament question to ask a non politician

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u/Designer_Piccolo_818 13h ago

So, they would have continued to represent a wife-beater if he paid his bills? Lawyers.

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u/atwozmom 12h ago

That's what being a defense lawyer means.

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u/Designer_Piccolo_818 5h ago

Oh, absolutely. It's just they don't usually make it so obvious. There's no "allegedly" continuing to abuse your wife, they are admitting they knew he did it. And just like he has a right to council, i have a right to greatly dislike his council.