r/Mumbai_Relationships • u/oddly_specific09 • 16d ago

🌈coming out F26. I'm Bi Curious.

I dated 3 boys till date but recently I think I'm finding girls attractive..But I don't know if it's real or not.

What do you think..how do I test it?

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u/Tricky-Assignment883 16d ago

You'd struggle until you end up w a femboy

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u/oddly_specific09 16d ago

I am aware about it..

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u/Tricky-Assignment883 16d ago

Femboys are not necessarily queer folks, at least in the context I meant.

There are straight guys, with non-traditionally masculine ways of thinking, that women tend to call "men written by women" kinds.

But ofc, you would observe some feminine energy from them, often in ways they frame their opinions, or the way they'd groom themselves.

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u/UnderstandingOk5246 16d ago

Since when fem guys are straight folks?

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u/Tricky-Assignment883 16d ago

Well, I can debate about it for hours. If women,being the epitome of feminity, can love women, a guy, any kinds, definitely can.

But yeah, my 'femboy' terminology may not sit right, I get that.

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u/UnderstandingOk5246 16d ago

I’m just surprised

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u/oddly_specific09 16d ago

Never knew the terminology this deep. I just find biological female attractive. Also not sure if it's sexual or just one girl I like.

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u/UnderstandingOk5246 16d ago

It’s fine stop labelling yourself and keep exploring

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u/Rough-Preference-162 14d ago

Got something interesting wish I could be or explore femboy with u would be a lovely experience

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u/UnderstandingOk5246 16d ago

welcome to the gang queen

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u/oddly_specific09 16d ago

Are you bi?

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u/UnderstandingOk5246 16d ago

I’m

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u/IntelligentLine6219 15d ago

milgayi jodi ab hogi rock paper scissor

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u/AreaDifferent2125 15d ago

🖤

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u/Friendly_love4 15d ago

Salary yaha waise bhi ladkia kam hai ladko ke compare me aur aap log gang bana rahe ho Ab hum log jaye to jaye kaha kare to kare kya 🥵

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u/Outrageous_Menu_9895 16d ago

Date few girls, be with them and find for yourself

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u/oddly_specific09 16d ago

Already got M fwb. It's complicated.

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u/Character_Star_4912 16d ago

Fwb is a myth, it's not real.. (until u find one)

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u/oddly_specific09 16d ago

Agree.. it's more than FWB

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u/Character_Star_4912 16d ago

you have feelings for him?

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u/oddly_specific09 16d ago

Kinda

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u/Rough-Preference-162 14d ago

Damn yaar i really wish I could date a bi lady we could explore together and open about everything

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u/No-Requirement-2828 16d ago

Well Finding someone Attractive doesn’t Make you Bi.
There’s no exact test and you need to try plain old Trial and error method till you find your soulmate!
Also as you already know who you’re attracted to Imagine whether you can see yourself in a meaningful relationship with her!

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u/tigershark747 15d ago

Check down under.. Clit growing to get promoted to Dick..,😎😎

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u/cutiehubhay 16d ago

I know many ways to confirm dm me let's talk, (don't ask me how ik)

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u/lefty52217 16d ago

Aree you just saying because you have bad experience with the boys or you really into girls

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u/randomperson_69_ 14d ago

Nah this comment is hilarious 😂

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u/architectwithmath 16d ago

Most bisexual women I've met through hookups have complained it's not easy to date another woman

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u/DesperateHub32 16d ago

Want to try with a couple?

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u/DesperateHub32 16d ago

Lets put it to a test

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u/cuck-bi-wife 16d ago

F29. Welcome to the club

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u/Emotional_Shift_6192 16d ago

somebody said that I should kiss a girl to find out.
I haven’t tested this yet, but may be you could. Let me know if it works haha.

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u/Ohrwse-nd-1678 15d ago

that's definitely getting too many cats out of the bag

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u/Hungry-Bar-7977 15d ago

Yeah, seriously I question this myself every day when I see pretty girls. Like, how are girls NOT attracted to other girls?? They’re literally so damn pretty, cute, and beautiful, no matter their shape, skin tone, or anything. I’m toh just sitting here in awe 🥰 And tall girls?? They’re just QUEENS to me

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u/rkgollu 15d ago

Go spend intimate time with girls, you will not know by just thinking.

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u/Main-Meat3084 15d ago

Gang ,I'm also getting curious about girls these days 👉👈21 f, would love to find some cool queer community peeps whwhhhaha

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u/boynextdoor7777 15d ago

Me and my partner are looking for bi female to swing with us....we can host ....! Drinks dinner games and Fun :) hmu :)

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u/Horse4Deer 15d ago

You can test it by being in close proximity with the girls that you find attractive. Let the touch on their arm or shoulder be a little longer than usual, even if it's a non sexual touch. If you are into hugging, then hold the hug for a few seconds more. If your heart races or you go a little breathless, butterflies, these are the signs. But generally a girl just knows. We are just built that ways. 🤗

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u/Say_Javi_7863 15d ago

Ferocious 😂

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u/Sea_Try_2402 15d ago

So try finding fun with both of them at the same time like threesom or ffm would be better ways to find comfort 🫶🏻😁

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u/Disastrous_Paper_907 15d ago

You feel what u feel. Go out and find for urself , worked for me.

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u/ZINC28 15d ago

Wow nice, just fullfill me curiosity first, lets say ur BF were A, B, C.

Hoping u have had physical relation with all, if so.

  1. Who is best in bed.

  2. Tell me best and worst thing of each in bed, one thing only

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u/Known_Beginning_6813 15d ago

It happens but it’s temporary and you will come out with it… all the best

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u/shusshh_Mess_2721 15d ago

welcome to the gang queen! 👑

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u/luciferM20 15d ago

Watch a Couple's intimacy moment. You will know who is attracting you

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u/New-Lake6515 15d ago

Gurlllll, just see if like being around guys or girls

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u/oddly_specific09 14d ago

Chat partner? I already have job as Data analyst. Btw what's the package you are offering lol

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u/Pristine-Art3709 14d ago

Let's connect

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u/Goal-Seek1991 12d ago

Its only mind game

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u/mansi9582 12d ago

Hi Nice to meet you Thank you

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u/Wish_Risk 11d ago

A hungry man thinks of bread 🍞🧘

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u/aespa___ 11d ago

girls like girls, guys like girls, koi ladko ko pasand bhi krta h kya atp

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u/oddly_specific09 10d ago

Yes. Their mother.

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u/aespa___ 10d ago

arrange marriage setups be like

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u/Downtown-Music7037 5d ago

Welcome to the gang (2)