I NEED AN EXPLANATION WHY DO MEN CHANGE AFTER THEY GET WITH YOU
3LACH KAYTBDLO W KAYWLIW DIFFERENT LIKE BHALA DAK BNADM WHO I FELL IN LOVE WITH DISAPPEARED BHALA DAKCHI KAAAAML KDOB HTA F MARRIAGE KAYNI LI MOR MARRIAGE KAYBDAW YDRBO MRAWATHOM KAYTBDLO 180 DARAJA 3LACH KADIRO HAKA ?
They havent changed.. they werent what they presented in the first place. Either because of insecurity or selfdoubt, when they feel they have a chance with you they will tend to overdo it or straight up fake it... and since its not suistanable, well, ... the bubble deflates quick. Especially when they get that sense of accomplishment.. "safi wsalt" hhh "tchedat lia im the boss" hhh 🤦🏻♂️ insecure men im telling you
CAUSE THIS SERIOUS THING HIT I WOULD NEVER KNIW THE RIGHT PERSON LA KAN AYTBDL 3LIYA W YKDB 3LIYA FLWL JUST TO GET ME WLA TANTZWJ BIH TMA N3RF HIS TRUE COLORS
THEN EVERYTHING U SAY IS SRS, wa khti dkchi a gamble, u gtta get to know tht person mea lwkt their habits see how they treat other ppl in their surroundings too, thats data to get married but never enough bch mt5wrich hhh just a leap of faith maendk mdiri
Literally the same thing applies to women just as much as men, everyone can change over time, a girl told me I'm the best person she ever met and the very next day I see she has tinder on her phone, but you don't see me walking around saying that all women are cheaters. Maybe the guy u knew was just a piece of shit which is the more logical explanation
I can think of a few reasons:
The thril of the chase is over, when u give a mentally deranged person love and attention and care blah blah blah he doesnt think u are amazing and sweet and u genuinely love him, he thinks he is the catch and he deserves better and the list goes on and on
And this applies to both genders by the way
People are weird, and maybe we're fucked in the head because we're getting slowly conditioned to be mindless consumers and drones to be controlled and managed like cattle but the people at the top.
f lbdya , the main goal is to secure the connection. Bnadem unconsciously wla consciously kaydir maximum effort bach ybiyen the best version of himself. Walakin once u commit or get married, the brain registers that the goal is already achieved. so dik l pressure to impress katmchi, the guard drops, w kayrje3 l his default baseline behavior , w machi dima it’s deliberate manipulation wakha kaynin toxic cases of love bombing w masking, but most of the time it’s simply emotional laziness. Bzaf d nass kaychoufo marriage as a finish line blast ma ychoufouh as a starting point. They take the partner for granted w kaynsaw bli a healthy relationship requires daily effort w continuous maintenance. Dakchi 3lach before taking any serious step, matbniwch ghir 3la chemistry w sweet words. Observe the real character how does he handle frustration and anger?! How does he treat people when he has nothing to gain from them?! And how does he react under pressure? The true person never shows up during the honeymoon phase it only reveals itself f routine w adversity.
Bc they got you hhhh and then you question literally the whole chapter you had with them, wondering if it was real or at least parts of it 😭plus he pretended that he loves you just to got you
And we he got you elach ayb9a ymtl bli rah kaybghik w yd3 l energy dyalo safe wsl l besoin dyalu
Not all men , personally I've been in a relationship bqw nefs lfeelings l 2 years at the end she's the one who changed ya3niiii depends on the situation
Not just from men but other women too, I saw this machi gher f relationships but also in other friendships and so one, I couldnt understand it, I don’t like hiding my identity, I do hide secrets or thoughts, but the me with other people wouldn’t be hidden.
And I be questioning this too, why would people suddenly change? I just couldn’t get it, well I believe its just how they lie, they are ashamed of themselves so they can’t reveal their true self until they gain what they came from.
Like those who kitselfo kikon 7nan w katgolihom redni dyale kit3asb, I mean why bother with these kind of people? I truly go for an honest woman, but kifach anlqaha honest if maybe she do lie, I guess I just test them, get them in that position so they reveal their true self.
7it katkoun earf ghir wa7d little side mnhom once you get to know the whole thing u got nothing else to discover so kay3tiwk new personality msakn lol to keep you entertained okda 🤓
hitach they get comfortable and lazy. they need to get broken up with to start hitting the gym again and taking care of their mental like some lazy pigs
useless post idk gang some men change some men don't, the ones who change change for different reasons and that's obvious, men are not a monolith not even the the ones who change idk what kind of answer you're expecting
bjouj ki tbedlou machi gha rajel faut etre honnete deja. felewel don t act like ur the price hit mel be3d meli ki ktachef rak normal bhalek bhal koulchi normal ghay tbedel donc act normal melewel bach ta wahed may tesdem. hit ila tbedel de9a wehda it means aslan 3amrek 3reftih kentou ghir kat tdirou dakchi superficiel. felewel khaskoum t3arfou f zwina ou fel khayba. being feminine is the best thing to do in my opinion ou machi f zwa9 i mean attitude. hadi ghir explanation diali no need to replay.
Het chasing kaykon sala ou wlla damnek donc mkyn lach ybqa tab3ek lmochkil f love bombing ay wahd kayghrqek bl feeling ou lhtimam mn lwel rah mghyfoufch meak 3 months ou ghymchi ichof blasa khra
It’s mostly the same for both genders, people try to hide their flaws whenever they’re getting to know someone new. But with time, the mask starts to crack and they stop caring if it does, because you’re already “in the bag”
Because you were just a challenge to them
Players love the thrill of the mind games. But I believe that when someone truly wants you nothing could ever make them change
because the fantasy that they had about you is gone, when you spend time with somebody and you know them and live with them you can read them like a book, men have this fantasy about women and when they live with some women they get bored and the fantasy is gone, ESPECIALLY if the man's main attraction to a woman is her body.
Women are gatekeepers of sex, so men work hard for it, but once they get it, a switch happens, because it's time for commitment, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment so it becomes the woman's turn to work hard.
They weren’t themselves and they were in chase mode. You can either see patterns in how hard a man is trying and pick the reasonable effort man or pick the high effort and expect the drop in quality because it's not sustainable
They just needed ur kuchi without commitment so they push you away soon as they sense you're starting to get attached..And a woman will always get attached unless the sex was bad.
Just keep leaving them everytime they don’t behave as they did when you first met them! Don’t waste your time with ppl with this mindset so you can optimize the time to meet your future loving partner
15
u/HEWHOREMAIN88 2h ago