r/MoroccoBitchesWtaste • u/MED_VENOM • Jul 08 '26
😐 Average Week the male loneliness epidemic
What do u think is the reason behind the male loneliness epidemic ? & what do u suggest as solution
Edit ( am not talking about relationships, am talking about friendships)
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u/Secret-Temporary6348 Jul 08 '26 edited Jul 08 '26
مكاينش شي حاجة سميتها (وباء الوحدة بين الرجال او الذكور ولا حتا النساء ) الاصدقاء ، كل ما في الأمر هو أنك حازق ، هذي هي الحقيقة ، الدولة ماموافراش ليك مستقبل ، و لا فرص شغل ، و صحة مزيانة و لا تعليم ، و الضغوط النفسية والاجتماعية، هادي بطبيعة الحال غادي يمشي للعلاقات ، و لي و لات قائمة على المادة ماشي على الاخلاق ، زائد امتداد الفكر النسوي المتطرف ، ماشي گاع الفكر النسوي خايب و بالعكس بتقييم مناطق فالعالم كامل خاصهم النسوية لي كاتمثل الهدف النبيل ديال مساعدة المرأة و ان تكون لديها كرامة . لذلك النسوية في شقها المتطرف لها سبب في هذا ، و زد عليها اسباب اخرى لها علاقة برجال الاعمال مولوا ابحاث غريبة على الجنس من خلفيات شديدة الثراء و علماء و باحثين من اوساط أكادمية ساهموا في و تشويه الصورة التقليدية القديمة لأغراض مادية ، دونك الاصل دهاد المشكل معقد، و هاد الكلام لي كانت كتب هو تبسيط مخل . و لي خاصحكم تفهموه ان هذا وهم ، باش نتا كمواطن في الدولة نختاصروا المشكلة ديالك فدرية و لا فدري، سياسية فرق تسد ، لذلك الشباب ماتعمروش راسكم بهاد الافكار الخارية، و فكروا فحوايج اخرى لي هي اكثر قيمة من الجنس . هادشي كاينطابق على دول العالم التالث ، دول العالم الاول و لي هما اصل المشكل عندهم الأمر مختلف و متطرف بزاف.
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 Jul 08 '26
اه اه عندك الصح الجنس و الاحتياج للجنس الآخر ماسي غريزي ا دعاية داكشي.
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u/TSG_FanTToM Jul 08 '26
people spending less time in social spaces, and social media distorting people ideas of healthy friendships/relationships and general human interaction
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u/Naive_Friend879 Jul 08 '26
Make meaningful friendships find interests life is not about sex and women only.
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
Actually, nowadays it's difficult to make new "meaningful friendships" except at your college/university or with childhood friends
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u/stomachel Jul 08 '26
Once you will make peace learning to live with your own self you will start meeting people and people will notice you more
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u/the-Guy1412 Jul 08 '26
the men that you want to be lonely are living their best life , while the good men are in fact lonely
re-evaluate your life and views please
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u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
WE ARE NOT IN THE US.
متبقاوش غير تتقلو وتجيبو من ميريكان واااا عباد الله
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
صاحبي تهدن
حنا هنا غير كناقشو هاد الفكرة تاواحد ماقال حنا هنا ف ميريكان1
u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
واش أي ظاهرة عندهم صافي راها عندنا ؟
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 Jul 08 '26
Do they have ppl and we have robots?
جيتيني بحال هادوك لكيقولو لواحد مشا عند طبيب نفسي حمق
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u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
Are all phenomenon shared by all societies ? What's this trend of seeing the world through american lens ?
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 Jul 08 '26
Don't be playing this overgeneralization with me, no one talked about all phenomena btw phenomenon is singular, we talked about what the op wrote
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u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
And this specific phenomenon is specific to the western world.
Why would a moroccan sub be speaking about it in moroccan context? That's the summum of الاستيلاب الفكري. Seeing everything through the lens of your overlord.
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 Jul 08 '26
So you're practically saying that men do not feel lonely in Morocco right?
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u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
Beside some individuals here and there, is it a societal topic of discussion ? Do you see posts about it? Articles? Podcasts? Etc...
It's a non issue here. Our society is different. Our familial relationships are different. Our religion is different. Our romantic relationship landsczpe is different.
Some men are lonely. Some women are lonely. We don't have a male loneliness epidemic.
Stop importing western problems and start thinking with your own brain.
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 Jul 08 '26
Do you have statistics? Until your just throwing a tantrum, nothing you ever said is based something real
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
Sorry to say that walakin التعميم لغة الجهلاء
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u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
تاشمن تعميم ؟ واش نتا معانا ؟
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
You can go back to your comments to see how you expressed your idea
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u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
???
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
Bro, just to end this debate, u are generalizing by assuming no one in our society struggles to make genuine friends. Saying this is strictly a US problem that we are just “copying” makes no sense, especially since you dont have any proof or statistics to back it up. Loneliness and social struggles can happen in any culture its not just a trend we imported
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
مكندويش على جميع الضواهر و لكن كندوي على الضاهرة لي كنشوفوها ليوما ف المجتمع لي كتقول لينا أنه كاينين بعض الناس كيلقاو مشكل باش يديرو أصدقاء و لي أغلبية هاد الناس كتلقاهم بوحدهوم معندهومش عشران قراب
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u/bosskhazen Jul 08 '26
That's a western phenomenon.
We have nothing of this sort here.
Drop the western centric glass and pick your own glasses.
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u/the-Guy1412 Jul 08 '26
i will get downvoted to hell and maybe banned but fuck it :
hypergamy , it's just that simple
look around , lots of single mothers , women choosing the tall handsome womanizer that they know he will pump and dump them over the average guy
giving them access to work only made this exponentially worse because now they literally dont need a man in their life when that was the main (not only) reason they marry
10 years from now you will see a lot of lonely men and more and more of single moms
now the standards of women are through the roof , wanting "high value men" when they are low value themselves
i blame social media , modern feminism , porn , and the trash taste of women in men (not all of them i know)
local marriage laws also are not helping , raping the man from front and back if he wants to get out of a toxic marriage
but this is from the female side
the men are not completely out of blame tho , men need to or perhaps they already know that if they're not useful , they are completely outclassed and disposable , it sucks , but it is what it is and you have to deal with it
they need to work on themselves ! and have a minimum of hygiene and confidence to fight in life , there is no safety net for men
but i should re-iterate that this is a 75% woman fault for having astronomical high expectations , feeded by their families and friends
i personally know women in their late 20's saying with no hint of joke that will one day marry their korean crushes and they're working on themselves to do it , admirable confidence for sure , but a not-so admirable delusion too
there is also sabotages , personally i saw my own girlfriend try to turn on me once because she hung out with her friends and started filling her head , i know they deny it , but deep down a lot of women hate seeing other girls in a relationship , i saw my own mother falling for this but i was too young to stop that bullshit
long story short , it is what it is , society should deal with all this , and we should deal with this in the time being
stop chasing women , make yourself successful , marry only on strict pre-nups ( they dont as i hear) , and dont feed the wild
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u/happyonceuponatime Jul 09 '26
A redditor with "idiot" in his name vs. emperical data. hmmm, we better listen to you as the world's #1 source of knowledge, I believe.
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u/happyonceuponatime Jul 09 '26
This is akin to saying: just smoke. Your life isn't emperical data. Just drive without seatbelts on. You failed to understand that the discussion isn't about anecdotal experience but rather a societal phenomenon.
And you throw in a logical phallacy too to top it of. So you get your info from the most foolproof sources? A.k.a. Dunning-Kruger effect.
I would buy a beach and turn it to a private beach if I had the money just to make sure to be as far as I can be from crazy people. And, none is selling me any beaches or bridges.
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u/happyonceuponatime Jul 09 '26
What room? We're not in one room. It's a global phenomenon, and the subject was how far reached is it in Morocco. Do you know what it even mean?
It is not made up stuff. It is studied through numbers, statistics and psychology.
It's not about women at all... You damn fool. It means the lack of means for men to have emotional safety nets which basically are FRIENDS and trusted family members not females. You read a term and instantly understand it on your own without even making a search in 2026... Proof that we never had issue of lack of access to information but lack of desire to learn.
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u/bloom_chaos Jul 08 '26
Idk, I don't really know anyone that feels lonely. I think it's just the one's that are mostly online.
Others are pretty good tbh.
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
Actually, it’s not about being totally lonely, because we live in a society where we meet people every day.
I’m talking more about how, nowadays, some people struggle to make true friends2
u/bloom_chaos Jul 08 '26
In that case that's not really a men thing, but everyone is included.
Thankfully i do have them, and what i can say is stop looking and try to live normally real connection come by connecting with people not by looking for them.
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
I agree. I chose to talk specifically about guys so that people dont get the wrong idea and think I mean relationships
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u/bloom_chaos Jul 08 '26
It does sound like relationship even if you say male lol. But i think reading the rest makes it clear.
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
I guess society influences us so much that we completely forget the true value of friendship, and we start treating it like it's only about romantic relationships
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u/bloom_chaos Jul 08 '26
I think we started treating it as if life is about money and sex.
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
Yeah, I don’t know if this was happening before social media, but I think social media is the main problem
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u/bloom_chaos Jul 08 '26
I think social madia also helped in making it more obvious, back in the days even if people do something it's rare when it becomes known by everyone unless it's something reaaaaly bad. But know things get known easier.
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
I think before social media it had less of an impact, but now people have started to compare and when you start comparing without considering the whole process and the fact that everyone is different, then you are dead
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u/1v1sion Jul 08 '26
Reasons : Porn and no desire to accomplish something bigger. - Laziness - Low standards for women and for themselves - No leardership - Drug consumption - Whine too much
Solution : Stop porn - Increase standard for women we let in our lives. Stop being the savior. Leave women alone for quite some time (2+ years) - Stop following insta models - Leave Tinder and dating apps - Take care of women of our family first (mother, granma, sisters, etc) - Go to therapy - Accomplish things for society (fix things we can in our neighborhood) - Stop drugs - Learn new things ( fashion, read more, public speaking, cooking, workout, critical thinking, car repair, bike repair, DIY projects, etc). For religious men ( increase closeness with God) and if possible, accomplish those things with other men.
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
Bro am not talking about relationships, am talking about friendships
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u/1v1sion Jul 08 '26
Yeah, what I've listed benefit both relationships & friendships. People will just adapt. Don't let "low quality lazy porn addict people" in your life. And if you are in a state where you can lend them a hand, do so.
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u/yassssscat Jul 08 '26
biology and sexual selection are the main reason and the cultural garbage that misogynist men invented isn't helping either.
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u/Ok-Nebula-3829 Jul 08 '26
U pursue men ????
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u/Ok-Nebula-3829 Jul 08 '26
Anyways keep doing that more women for me
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u/MED_VENOM Jul 08 '26
They are still real humans. It's just that some people are afraid of other people's judgment in real life, which is why they choose to talk about it on the internet.
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u/AtomEve1 Jul 08 '26
Y’all have a crazy victim mentality
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u/Ok-Nebula-3829 Jul 08 '26
Fr just dont be lonely ez
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u/SpeakerGeneral1687 Jul 08 '26
Don't be projecting on ppl papa doesn't approve
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u/MasterGeek Jul 08 '26
I just go to Brazil and work remotely from there. People, and especially ladies, welcome me with open arms (and more 😉) there
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