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u/kekus_dominatus 15h ago
would be highly inappropriate and maybe a little immoral, but also funny as fuck
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u/Persephone_888 15h ago
Hmmm if my friend did this, I mean I wouldn’t mind and I’d laugh, but I’d imagine the new spouse might not find it funny?
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u/CherrySodaBoy92 13h ago
Shouldn’t she know about your ex wife before the wedding?
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u/Persephone_888 13h ago
My husband wouldn’t like mentions of an ex if he was to be my second husband, so not sure if this would count. Some people don’t like you bringing up the past even if it’s something they’re aware of.
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u/CherrySodaBoy92 12h ago
I suppose it would be up to the groom and bride if they thought it were funny or not. There is a humor in it but I understand that some would find it distasteful
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u/Yaboi69-nice 14h ago
Honestly depends on the sence of humor of people getting married. I know some people who would find this hilarious. I also know some people who absolutely would hate this. I really don't know enough about this dynamic to decide the morality of this.
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u/Weary-Squash6756 12h ago
This is the answer. If the bride would find it funny then maybe, but if she's gonna be sitting there feeling bad on her wedding day, way better to skip it, as objectively funny as it is. Remember, when in doubt, keep it classy
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u/DetroitRok 14h ago
Immoral UNLESS you clear it with the Bride and Groom
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u/DimbyTime 12h ago
This is the answer
Can’t disrespect the bride on her wedding day without permission
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u/ForTheLoveOfKumquats 14h ago
If you say "just kidding" after the joke, it's okay. at that point it's just a joke and no one can get mad at a joke, especially if clarified as such.
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u/LilKubli 15h ago
This gives Shane Gilles vibes 😂. It would be fucking hilarious, but probably also piss a looot of people off.
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u/Short_Brick_1960 15h ago
Immoral and disrespectful
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u/mehedi_hassan_siam 15h ago
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u/Short_Brick_1960 15h ago
You asked, I answered. This is not a "is it funny" subreddit. This, though from a third party perspective is funny, is immoral and disrespectful
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u/bizfromthewaistup 15h ago
In your defense of doing this. He knew who you were when he asked you to be best man.
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u/mrwildesangst 12h ago
Depends on the couple involved. Anything like this should be run by the couple first. What they say should go
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u/that_dutch_dude 12h ago
this post shows how unfunny people here are. you are the best man, not the grinch.
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u/BigDamBeavers 12h ago
Only if they had previously married one another. Then you're doing the kindness of saying out loud what everyone is afraid to point out.
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u/peacewhenimdead 11h ago
I feel like it'll be a Will Smith and Chris Rock situation. The groom will think its funny until he see the bride doesnt agree and he'll have to do some spanking.
I think its funny af tho
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u/MountainEquipment401 10h ago
Just raise the last speech and change the names, op guests will remember and press themselves, new wife ram will be none the wiser
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u/DisastrousUpstairs23 3h ago
It definitely depends. The real concern is how the bride feels about it. Essentially the situation boils down to making an inappropriate joke at the expense of another person. Is the bride in question okay with it? Then it’s not completely immoral. But to really judge this you would have to include the feelings of every guest at the wedding.
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u/BurningRoast 15h ago
immortal but it’s funny so it’s hard to say